Steve Harvey Helps Million Dollar Matchmaker Patti Stanger Figure Out What Kind Of Man She Wants

Patty, are you single? Yes, I'm single. How does a matchmaker find her match? Well, we don't date in our club. We have code of conduct and sexual harassment policies, so we can't date in our own club. I don't usually get attracted to the men that come in my club. They usually lead with their negative fit. So I'm on the apps, like everybody else. Bumble Tinder, you name it. What do you look for? What qualities does a guy have? How about smart? Let's start with that. Really, really. And, you know, somebody who, you know, is independent, has his own living, makes his own life. Like, I don't want to be their mother. The problem is, nowadays for women, men have become very complacent because of two things. First of all. The way men treat women now, so many women have accepted the treatment that now men are not required to treat you the way they're supposed to. So true. That's a huge problem. That's your next book, A Book to Men. Yeah, see I can't write a book to men because men don't read. So maybe we need to make a video. No, I have the next book coming out. Okay. I already have. We need a book for the men. Because if they're not going to listen to you, who are they going to listen to? Yeah. But see, it's still you that's in charge. A man can't hold your hand unless you let us. We can't kiss you unless you let us. We can't go to bed with you unless you let us. You're in total control. Once you get a grasp on this, you can manipulate the situation positively, not in a negative way. But you're the controlling force. You got everything we got to have. I'm at God. I wish I could get you to understand that. But why do you all keep short selling yourself? I think the younger girls are doing that. Right. They're hurting it for the older girls. The older girls. My generation, you know, women in their 40s and 50s, we worked our butts off. These younger kids are like, they're complacent. They're not like getting into the streets and really working hard and knowing that I'm not going to your house at 11 o'clock at night because nothing good happens after 11 o'clock at night. But see, so many women have accepted that as a dating protocol. Netflix and chill was invented by a guy. I'm just telling you, man, Dutch dating was created by a guy. Women set the tone. Right. And if they don't set the tone right from the beginning, then everything goes off kilter. Strong and independent, cool to yourself. It's okay to need something. Can you pick that up for me? That's so heavy. Can you sandblast the house for me? I can't get up on the ladder. No, silly, stop. But where's that guy? We want to know where the guy is. That guy, if he's not required to be that or requested to be that, but if you're so busy being this strong, independent, I got my own house, I got my own credit. Well, damn, what I'm going to buy you? If I can't chip in and buy you a house, how do I get to be the man here? If you got your own credit, you got your own house, you're out there changing your oil, you done took the garbage out. Now my ass sitting here going, damn, what'd I do? No, it's true. You gotta slow up and just give him the space to be a man. I'm not asking you to dumb it down. Don't dumb it down. We have to feel needed. If you can do everything, we out. So basically, he's the guy that's gonna come over in the middle of the night and kill the spider. That's the guy. Bam, that's the guy. That's who you want. I'm like learning today. I'm gonna, I need my, I hope my assistant backstage is taking notes. That's the guy you want. You want your own Superman. Hold up, baby, I got that, what you doing? Hell, baby, get on the inside of the street. You don't walk on the curb, something happen, I got all this. Listen, you want that. Patty, I'll tell you what I'm going to do. I'm going to help you. All right, you help me. I need it. How about this right here? Okay. How about we do a dating segment? Okay. And I bring out some really sharp guys. All righty. I'll find some sharp guys. And you come on the show. I will come back. Just for a date. Done. That's what I'm going to do. Thank you, guys. Patty's coming on the show. We're coming on the show. We're going to play Steve's Dating Pool. I'm going to bring three guys out here on stage. I'm going to have three more backstage. Okay. And we're going to do it. All right. Ladies and gentlemen, my girl, Patti Stanger. If you're sitting there thinking, I sure would love to see those Steve Harvey YouTube videos on a regular basis, well, you're in luck. Because you can. All you have to do is press the subscribe button, or you can click on this list and see what other foolishness I've done. Rather that foolery.