Women are Only “Tools” to be Used by Men #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #relationships

Men use relationships and or marriage to use a woman. I wholeheartedly believe they don't get into relationships or even marriage because of love. They understand that in order to lock a woman down and have access to her resources, it depends on what she requires in order for the man to have access to her. Is she easy to sleep with or is she going to be difficult to sleep with? How much work, time, and money am I going to have to invest in her in order to get her underneath my control? But it's never about love. When you really think about it, both the easy woman and the woman that's hard to get, are really just the same. The man views both of these women as the same. The only difference is he has to invest more of his time and money to get the other one. But once he gets you after he's invested his time and money, once he gets you. He's going to get his return of investment back out of you. Everything he's poured into you, he's going to work you to death. He's going to use you to death. He's going to milk you some type of way. That's how men are. You're not just going to get off scot-free with whatever he's invested in you. Men are transactional. They want to see a return on their investment. So, yeah, he might marry you, but once he marries you... He's going to stop doing everything he did to get you. That's why the divorce rate is 80%. Women are running and filing for divorce at 80% is high, y'all. That's because the nigga that married you tricked you into marriage. He had a hidden agenda. He just, he did what he had to do to get you. He spent the time, the money. He pretended to be in love. He married you. He said, all right, you locked, you locked in, you trapped now. So I want to see a return on my investment. You're about to sleep with me every day. I'm going to work you like a dog. You're going to take it. I'm going to run you into the ground. You're going to run the household. You're going to do this. You're going to do that. A married woman is basically a sex slave, an overworked sex slave, a mother, and, you know, a maid, like. It's free labor for the man once he marries you. So whether the woman is easy to get, easy to sleep with, or whether she's hard to get, hard to sleep with, I honestly believe the man looks at both women the same. It's just one requires more money, more time and effort to secure. But once he spends the money and secures you, he's going to make sure he gets whatever he invested into you. He's going to get it back out of you. You're going to pay in blood, sweat and tears. It's going to you're going to have to come up off of it some type of way. Now, if you want to put up with the ----, which I believe a lot of women do, a lot of women will tolerate abuse just to get money out of a man. Just to compete with his ex to make, you know, she wants to feel like she's competing and stealing him away from another woman. It's a lot of women that will put up with the bullshit, the mind games, the fuckery, just to have control over a man and his money. If you like it, I love it. But to me, it's all a waste of time. By the time you get the money out of the man, the gifts and all that. He would have already emotionally abused you. You're going to have to put up with some sort of abuse, manipulation, mind games to get access to a man's money and stuff. I'm sorry. Or what you can do is make your own motherfucking money and not deal with men at all. I just see it that way. I just think, you know, the more pretty, successful woman with morals and values, the good girl, she's no better than the trifling bitch. The side chick, the nasty whore, you know, the bitch that has a man and she's cheating on him. Low-level women are no different than the good girls in a man's eyes because the difference is he's just paying to sleep with one and the other one's giving it to him for free. He doesn't respect either woman. He doesn't love either woman. He can pretend to love you. And buy the ring, put a ring on your finger and buy you the house and marry you, you're going to pay. That's why I be like, when I look at these marriages that be lasting for 30 and 40 and 50 years, those women in those marriages, they tolerated a lot of abuse. They just ain't, they ain't said nothing. They ain't put their business out there. To sustain a marriage for that long, you got to put up with the nigga ----, a lot of it. And you notice by the end of those marriages. When the woman becomes old, she ends up giving advice to younger women. And what does she say? She says, don't get married. Yeah, because I guarantee you inside that long-term marriage, you're going to be putting up with all types of cheating. You know, he may put his hands on you. Listen, our grandmothers tolerated a lot of disrespect just for the sake of keeping their marriages together. That's why I don't buy happy marriage. I don't even buy Sierra and Russell Wilson. There, you know, he could look like the good guy. We don't know what Russell is doing to her behind closed doors. I'm going to keep it a buck. So I'm just saying all this to say, I honestly believe that men view women, no matter what our ranking, no matter how beautiful we are, no matter how successful we are, they don't care about our degrees. They don't care that we went to college. They don't care. They view all women the same. It's just a matter of what is it going to take for me to sleep with her? Because once he sleeps with you, he knows the quickest way to control a woman is to sleep with her because women get emotional after sex. Once we're emotional, we're easy to control. So he's looking at this woman like, what is it going to take for me to sleep with her so that I can get control over her? Okay, I got chicks over here that is willing to give it to me for free. OK, you want to go on a couple of dates. Cool. You ever you ever wonder why, you know, a dude will date you. He'll take you on several dates. He'll wine you and dine you. The moment you sleep with him, he switches up. Yeah, he played the long game to get what he want out of you. That's that's I'm sorry. I just feel like men see us all the same, ladies, no matter how high our standards are, no matter what we put a man through to, you know, no matter what our requirements. If he wants to use you, that's, he's going to use you. You want to delude yourself and, you know, you can have high standards. He'll abide by them until you give it up. And at some point, you're going to get horny too. No matter how long you make him wait, you're going to eventually give in. You're going to be horny and sleep with him. Like, I'm being real. Most women are ******* horny and hot in the ass. Even though you pretend to be a good girl, a lot of y'all are horny on the low. You're going to, you know, you're dating this guy for a long time. You're going to eventually want to sleep with him. Your curiosity is going to get the best of you. He knows that. So while you're making him wait, he's sitting with other women. Anyway, let me wrap this up. I just believe that men see us all the same. No matter how much money you make, no matter how pretty you are, pretty women get cheated on all the time with bird bitches. That's because the bird bitch, she's just willing to give it up faster than you. So I just suggest you leave men alone because if you're going to deal with them, you're going to put up with some form of manipulation. You're going to put up with some form of game playing and that gets exhausting. Don't play the game at all. And so I'm going to say have a blessed day, y'all.