4 Months Pregnant & Cheated On: The Wizard Liz | S&T Chats

That's like breaking trust already. That's just crazy and this this video like this video This is part of a video that came out like five days ago. Oh my god. And he cheated. Oh my god. Hello! Welcome to S&T Chats. Today we're bringing you crazy crazy crazy stuff. The question is should you forgive someone who cheated? No. Of course not. No. For me cheating is cheating. It doesn't matter how. As long as even a small thing such as If you ask a girl Having a hinge or What's the other one? Oh like being on dating apps? I don't know. No? Heck no. Why are you on there when you're dating? Yeah. I mean at least when you're almost like getting married or something. Right. Well anyways okay off topic. The main topic is today you guys probably already know The wizard Liz. She was proposed, engaged. And she was four months pregnant too. Oh she was. Yes. And she got cheated. How? Crazy. Okay. What did the guy do? First let's introduce her a little bit. Okay so she is this influencer, content creator, you know YouTuber. She has almost like eight million subscribers on YouTube. And her content is all about like self-worth, girl power, and like relationships. And like not to degrade yourself for someone you know. And being powerful women. And she you know is dating this guy Landor. Landor? Whatever. We'll just call him L. Because he doesn't deserve a name right now. Anyways and they came out with a video. A Q&A like five days ago. Couple Q&A because they're about to get married. So he gave her 750 roses. Okay. He wrote a whole book about how much he loved her. And he engaged her with a 100k wedding ring. Okay. And she is four months pregnant obviously. And then he still cheated. And then what was her decision? Like are they still together? So she was actually the one that posted something on her YouTube. A post and telling that he cheated. So he decided the guy, the L guy, he decided to create a Snapchat. And then reached out to like a girl. And wanted to meet up with this girl. And then this girl reached out to Liz, the girl. And told her about this. Okay. So she knew. And then she created a post on her YouTube telling the world about this. Wow. So the big question is how did he cheat right? Yeah. So he. I don't know. This guy is like. After you know this thing came out. He posted something on Instagram. And saying like yeah guys I made a mistake. You know it was a huge mistake. You know. A bunch of BS basically. Yeah. And then like he's going to stand up again. Blah blah blah. Anyways. And then he comes out with like okay to be transparent. Transparency you guys. Like he's going to show all the text messages. Huh. Yeah. He did like. I think he showed it for a while. But he deleted. Like took down the stories really quick. Okay. So. Suspicious already? Yeah. He's like okay. So he reached out to this girl. And then the girl is like aren't you married? Uh huh. And then he's like oh no. It's like. It's too complicated. Blah blah blah. And then he's like okay. Either way. Like the girl is like you're in a relationship right? Yeah. You shouldn't be hanging out with other girls. Yeah. And then he just keeps like. You know. Saying it's complicated. And then. Giving reasons. Yeah. And then he's like. Then why were you going to a court site with me then? Just curious. So the girl responded. Okay. What's your point? You invited my boyfriend and I. And we never came. Okay. So I guess the guy invited the girl. And her boyfriend. Yeah. Well. Oh. And he was. His response was. Oh. I didn't know you had a boyfriend. At that time. And no. Not trying to pull a fast one on you. Was just curious. Uh huh. Yeah. Right. Yeah. The girl was like. But you said it yourself. You're in a relationship right now. So why are you trying to hang out with me? Yeah. He's like well. Was not trying to date you. Oh please. But you're right. Even if the situation is complicated. Or unresolved. I shouldn't message you. I'm sorry. Maybe I'll. I'll explain more one day. That's the end of the. Yeah. But you know. It's. He's been called out. And then. He's trying to. Tidy up his behind. Because. He knows that this might blow up. Yeah. Of course. That's what he's trying to do. Yeah. And. Like do you. Would you consider this cheating? Yeah. For sure. Right. Yeah. He has the intent. To do it. Yeah. He wants to hang out with. A girl. Who he thinks is single. Right. And like. You know. Just a girl and a guy. Hanging out together. I don't really believe in all that. Yeah. Pure friendship thing. Yeah. You know. And he was like. And this thing happened. Like. When he came out with Liz. Like publicly. That they were getting married. That they were engaged. And all this and that. And also to think that. She was pregnant. Exactly. And so I guess. He was just. Lustful. You know. Honestly. Yeah. You know. I. It just feels like. Like. He's in that relationship. In the beginning. Not. In the long term relationship. Like. You know what I mean? Like. He's in that relationship. Because he probably needs. A stable girlfriend. Who she can. Do. What he wants. It's not a great message. It's honestly a toxic message. This thing I've seen people saying. Of like. Oh. You can never trust a man. Like. Never trust your husband. Like. He may. He may just cheat on you. You never know. It's like. At the end of the day. The man. Have to be. Trusting each other. Yeah. It's a. Wow. So sarcastic. It's like. They have to be trusting each other. And then. What trust? Like. You went ahead. And had the intention. Of cheating. That's like. Breaking trust already. That's just crazy. And this. This video. Like. This video. This is part of a video. That came out like. Five days ago. Oh my god. And he cheated. Oh my god. Like. And Liz. This girl. She's really pretty. Yeah. She's beautiful. Yeah. She's long. She's like tall. She's got like the model looks. And everything. You know. And it's just. It's crazy. Oh my god. Like. I don't know. This guy. You know. What is he thinking? Like. I don't know. Maybe he's trying to gain some fame after this. I don't know. I feel like he's just. Emotionally. Not ready. For a stable relationship. Or a family. That's why he's like that. Because men. Who has the intention. To just. Settle down. Have a family. Will not do that. Yeah. But then my. Thing is like. Liz. Like. She's all about. You know. About these things. Right. Like relationships. Like. Shouldn't she. Have like. Saw the red flags. Okay. So. So I know. We're not. That Chinese. But then in Chinese. There is a term. Called. 恋愛腦. Yeah. Right. But I don't think. She's definitely not on the. 恋愛腦. Because she talks about this. No. But that doesn't mean. Like she coaches people this. Yeah. But she's in the relationship though. You know. Sometimes you just have a green screen. Over your eyes. And you can't see. What's in front of you. But then you can see. What's outside of you. Yeah. Like she. But she's. She was in other relationships. And she even talked about those. On like a podcast and something. She was like. And when she was in that relationship. Like she loved that guy. And everything. When she. You know. Broke up with that. And then one day. She saw him. He's like. How could I like someone like that? And then. She just realized like. Everything she. You know. How delusional she was. But like. She's been like. Preaching this. And teaching like girls. And you know. People about. Looking out for themselves. Right. In a relationship. Like what is a red flag. And everything. You know. And. I think one thing. That's really good about her. Is that she. Is not dependent on the guy. Okay. That's something she really preached out. But then she. You know. Also says like. Don't be with a broke guy. Right. But. Like her understanding. Her description. Of a broke guy. Doesn't necessarily mean like. Bank broke. Yeah. But you know. The actions. Like he chooses not to do anything. Right. You know. And like. Someone like. She's so educated. And she's worked herself like that. And she still. Didn't see. This coming. I mean. She probably does trust the guy enough. That. She's like. Oh you know. He's doing this because of blah. He's doing that because of blah. But then. She's so trusting to the point. But he. I guess the guy. Before this whole cheating thing happened. He said all the right things. Yeah. And he does all the right. Yeah. He does all the right things. Like there's a. There's a video of like. There's a lot of videos of them. Where he's just constantly. Compliment. Complimenting her. And praising her. And like. Saying how much. Like. What is the biggest. Like she'll ask. What is the biggest fault of me. Or dislike. What. What is something. He dislikes about her. And he's just like. Oh. How much I love you. You know. And like. She didn't see any. So he's a smooth talker. And he knows how to act basically. A very good actor. I guess he. This was all planned out. For him like. Yeah. Or maybe he. He really did love her. But then. When he realizes. That they're going to get married. And settle down. He's like. I can't live. That life. Like I want. That freedom. And then. He starts doing it. I don't know. They haven't. She's pregnant already. She's four months pregnant already. It doesn't matter. If the guy. Isn't ready. He won't settle down. Or even if he settles down. He's going to cheat. I think like. She just really. Because by the looks of him. He looks. Like a naughty person. And like. Obedient guy. Don't judge a book by its cover. Never. I tell you guys. Yeah. The most. Naughty people. Or the most. These. Obedient guys. Are the ones that look like. They're. Like. 很乖乖. What's that? The. The craziest ones. Would be the ones that look. The normal ones. Yeah. And they. They look very quiet. And you can't tell anything about it. You know. And they're not the most handsome ones. No. But. Yeah. This is crazy. It's blowing up on the internet. But. So what's the result? Are they breaking up? Oh yeah. For sure. She's like. Oh I'm going to sell my. Engagement ring. Okay. Like about 100k. And I'm going to donate the money to. You know. Single moms. Or something like that. Yeah. So she's very clear headed then. Yeah. She is. Of course. You know. She's really. I just. You know. Why didn't she see it coming? You know. And it's. Or maybe he didn't show it. I don't know. Yeah. And then he. Like. Once. They had the thought. To get married. To be bounded by each other. By law. That's when he started. Having second thoughts. Yeah. Because before they didn't even talk about that. Right? Or maybe they're just talking. Oh it's like. Oh when we get married. But they're not actually. Going to do it. Yeah. But now that it's going to be said. Yeah. I mean. I don't know. This whole thing is really. Complicated. But. Yeah anyways. I think. On the cheating thing. Like. I know some people. Like. Maybe that's kind of cheating. And they were in a really long relationship. They will be like. Okay. And then the guy says sorry. Right. And blah blah blah. Yeah. So then the girl is like. Okay I'll forgive you. Yeah. We'll give another chance. Yeah. But my stance is. If there's once. There's bound to be more times. And one time. No. It's the same thing with domestic abuse. Once. No. Yeah. Like it's over. You gotta end this thing. You know. Cannot continue. Cause you're. You're just gonna be. In more pain. In the future. I feel like. Yeah. So. That's my stance on that. Yeah. Um. I. I follow with what Selena said. I feel like. If. A guy has the thought. Or the intention. To do it. I feel like it's fine. If they don't follow through with it. But then if they follow through. With that intention. Then that's when you cut it. Because. What do you mean. Wait. Hold on. So you mean like. This texting is okay. Like they didn't actually meet. So it's okay. No. Like he had the intention. To meet. Right. And then he actually did it. If he was thinking about it. But then he didn't do it. Yeah. But I mean. But what about the texting part. Like the reaching out part. Yeah. That's what I'm saying. So. Uh. The thought is only thinking. Or actually. And not doing it. Oh not texting it. Not texting it at all. Well I mean. You will never know. If they have. If they do have a thought. Right. But. But that means that he understands. That it's wrong. And he's not supposed to do it. I think everyone in your lifetime. You know. When you want to do something bad. You know. Not necessarily this kind of stuff. Yeah. But then you like. You have bad thoughts. Yeah. Like we all have bad thoughts. But then you know. You know it's wrong. You know like. I want to kill someone. And all of a sudden it's wrong. Yeah. You know. So you stop that. But we won't know if a guy thinks that. Right. But you know. Probably do. But if they don't do it. Like texting. Yes. Reaching out. Yeah. Of course. That's fine. Yeah. I don't really care what you think. Yeah. And you know. I really want to give kudos to Liz. Yeah. Because. Very very strong woman. Um. She must be heartbroken right now. But then. If she can make that decision. And pull herself out. From a disastrous relationship. And really pull through. And be clear minded. In all of this. I think that's very hard to do. Yeah. It is. I mean I think she. Well she's been preaching all this you know. Yeah. So I think she does have it. Ah. But I still do feel very sorry for her. Yeah. And it still gotta hurt. No matter how strong she is. Yeah. But yeah. Be careful. Yeah. And that's it for today's video. We will see you next time. Bye. Don't forget to like and subscribe. I'm not allowed to. Bye.