4 Cách Giúp Trẻ Phát Triển Trí Tuệ Cảm Xúc (EQ) Cho Con Hoạt Bát Và Tự Tin__ Review Sữa Enfa A+

Hello everyone, welcome back to my channel If this is the first time you watch this video, my name is Thuan Currently, I am the mother of two children One is called Peanut, almost 3 years old And the second child is called Henry, 2 months old Today's video will be about a topic that I have received a lot of questions from mothers Mothers who have children around the age of 2-3 years old Around the problems of children eating and crying a lot, being stubborn or having inappropriate behaviors In the process of raising Peanuts, I realized that Helping the child develop emotional intelligence or IQ Has a very important role in helping the child develop IQ We can help the child slowly improve the positive emotions that the child is experiencing Through helping the child understand and manage their emotions From there, the child will know how to express it better Gradually reduce the behavior of being stubborn, crying, eating, or inappropriate behavior My friend Peanuts has been praised by everyone for being a very optimistic child He loves to tell stories and loves to sing He can talk nonstop all day without stopping Currently, Peanuts has learned a lot of words And when he talks to his grandparents, everyone is very surprised at his ability to express his language When Henry was born, he loved me very much He often sang and talked to me, it was very funny He often cried in front of my mom When my mom cried, he ran in and said, sister here, sister here It was very funny Just like other children, Peanuts also went through stages such as the age of 2 And now is the age of 3 This is the stage when the child exposes their emotions very strongly Like a burst of emotion Crying, eating, screaming, screaming And thanks to this stage, I have gained some experience to share with you in this video Talk a little bit about IQ or emotional intelligence This is the ability to understand and control the emotional language of oneself At the same time, respect other people's emotions Children with high emotional intelligence are often very sensitive to other people's expressions in a positive direction It means that the child will easily empathize, understand and be willing to share with others IQ is not only limited to empathy But also exposure through intelligence, creativity, mobility, coordination, how to respond appropriately Or how to balance pressure These are all very necessary elements in the growing process of the child When the child is studying or working later In addition to helping the child develop IQ Helping the child develop emotional IQ is also a trend to raise children today My first experience is to help the child understand and call out emotions The children are very small and do not have the ability to express the emotions that the child is experiencing Especially children from 1 to 5 years old When the child is uncomfortable with something Or the child does not achieve what the child wants The child will usually express it very naturally Like screaming or crying This is how I want the parents to understand what the child is feeling Of course, because the child does not have enough language skills to say Ah, I'm so angry, so angry Therefore, our job is to help the child call out emotions Parents can help the child call out emotions Through everyday sentences around the child For example, today my parents took me out to play and I felt very happy, right? Happy is a very pleasant feeling Or the child is very fond of Lego toys that my mother bought for me, right? Or the child is very angry because I broke my toys, right? A very simple game to help the child call out emotions That is, we will print out different emotions and introduce them to the child For example, when the child is smiling, this is fun When the child is angry, read to the child the word angry Then we will arrange those images together and ask the child to point out What image is fun, what image is angry, what state is surprised, what state is afraid For example, with older children, about 3 years old We can guide the child to call out more complex emotions For example, disappointment, boredom, worry, tension, etc. The purpose is to help the child understand the feelings that the child is experiencing My second experience is listening and empathizing with the child Although the child is still very small, parents should not neglect the child's feelings Should not scold or scold the child as too bad, too stubborn or too naughty We should observe to find out why the child has such actions or reactions Listening and empathizing with the child It does not mean that we are sympathizing and encouraging the child to do the next wrong action But just stop at the step that we record the feelings that the child is experiencing For example, the favorite toy of the child is broken We can empathize with the child, I know you are very sad because your doll is broken Now let's find out how to fix that doll When we show empathy for the feelings that the child is experiencing The child will realize that parents understand how the child is experiencing When we expose such actions From there, the child will feel confident and assured We empathize with the child to help the child understand that Emotions are nothing bad and nothing wrong Actions have right or wrong actions But emotions do not have right or wrong emotions But only pleasant or unpleasant emotions Negative or positive emotions The child may experience a lot of emotions such as Happy, comfortable, happy, satisfied Or the child may experience emotions such as Sad, angry, jealous, angry These are the feelings and challenges that we need to overcome And we need the child to understand that No matter how you feel, your parents will always be here Always by your side and understand you To help you overcome those uncomfortable feelings Do you know that if the child grows up in an environment Where he is suppressed, not shown, not exposed to emotions There is no chance to fully experience difficult emotions Then later when the child grows up The child will be prone to some behavioral problems Such as being easily bullied or bullying others Or problems with European worries Emotions, psychological problems are quite severe And parents also need to understand that The child will need a lot of time, a lot of months, a lot of years To be able to control his emotions as he grows up The third advice is to teach the child how to solve problems Or teach the child to do the right thing in specific cases We will always show the child that Every problem has a solution if the child is patient And always has a suitable reason Back to the case of Binoc at the age of 3 During this period, he will often have his own opinions Always like to do what he wants If he doesn't get what he wants, he will cry or scream Depending on the specific case, we will have a suitable response For example, Binoc is angry at something and throws a toy I will say, I understand that you are angry, you are angry, right? But don't throw toys, because if you throw it, the toy will be broken And then we won't be able to play that toy anymore If you are too annoyed, you can go to the room And you can hit this pillow There will be an action to replace it So that he can solve the uncomfortable feeling in his body Then he will use his hands to hit the pillow Gradually, when he does that, he will hit the pillow and then Binoc will laugh It feels like he has released his anger and he starts to calm down Or in other cases, Binoc cries loudly I will take Binoc to Binoc's room and let Binoc sit down and cry I will sit next to Binoc for a while And tell Binoc, cry, sit here and wait for me When you finish crying, come back to me Just like that, Binoc gets used to it When Binoc finishes crying, he will say it's done, mom Then run back to hug mom That's when he calms down and listens to me Then I will explain to Binoc why Binoc can't do that And when will we do that together? Or another case, Binoc often screams loudly When Binoc screams loudly, I will adjust Then I say, don't scream like that, speak softly like this Mom, let me watch TV Then mom will turn on the TV for me to watch And if I scream, mom won't turn on the TV for me Then Binoc will speak softly again, mom, let me watch TV Just like that, Binoc gets used to it And when Binoc is going to scream loudly Then he remembers that if he screams loudly, mom won't turn on the TV But I have to speak softly Ask mom, mom will allow, mom will turn on the TV We just patiently read to Binoc like that Gradually, Binoc will start to change his behavior And he will behave more properly So when we are faced with the crisis Binoc's cry Mom, please take a deep breath To stay calm and patient Calmness is the key in these cases So that we can observe, find out the cause And have a suitable solution Then we will guide Binoc to do the right thing Gradually, over and over again When we meet that situation, we will guide Binoc to do the right thing Then Binoc will get used to it, he will remember And when that situation happens later Binoc will also learn how to deal with the situation properly There are more correct expressions Less crying or eating Fourth, that is to supplement nutrition suitable for children Nutrition plays a very important role in the development of children's brains And this is the main mechanism that controls the feelings and behaviors of children In addition to the variety of foods in the daily routine for Binoc I also pay attention to the choice of milk to supplement nutrients for Binoc Many mothers ask me what milk I am using for Binoc According to my research, the substances that play an important role in the formation of feelings and brains in children That is MFGM and DHA Recently, there have been studies that show that the combination of these two substances Has a positive role in developing neural connections in children Help children be smarter and more emotional DHA, as we all know, plays a very important role in the development of children's brains Especially in the first 5 years MFGM has been proven to play an important role in improving cognitive functions As well as in supporting the control of behavior in children Help children develop better emotions The combination of these two substances will help increase the connection between brain cells This is just an addition of A I see this new improved version of MFGM And add 3 more protective substances HMO, BDX, GOS, FOS Support immune system and good digestion In terms of taste, MFGM has a refreshing taste Like natural milk So Binoc is very easy to drink Thanks to that, Binoc is quite balanced As far as I know, MFGM does not contain sugar Therefore, it will help improve the absorption of calcium And also reduce the risk of tooth decay for children And mixed for more than half a year Since I switched to MFGM I see Binoc does not have any symptoms Also does not have diseases such as fever, cough, nose, flu I see Binoc is healthier Digestion is also better Immune system and immune system are better That's why I still continue to use MFGM for Binoc And this is the pre-mixed milk of MFGM Binoc is now bigger I like to drink it in a box like this In addition to providing a lot of energy for the baby to work With the ratio of calcium and phosphorus Help the baby get stronger The pre-mixed MFGM also adds 2.5 times of DHA And this is also the amount of DHA according to the WHO recommendation To help the baby develop the brain When I take Binoc out to play I always bring this pre-mixed MFGM Very convenient I hope today's video is useful for parents Who are looking for ways to help the baby develop digestive system In addition to EQ And also answer the question of mothers Often ask me what formula Binoc is using If you also want to raise a smart, strong, affectionate baby And may have yellow immunity Try my tips And try MFAGM like Binoc Thank you everyone for spending time watching my video Don't forget to like and subscribe to the channel Click the bell next to it to receive notifications when I have a new video Also connect me on Facebook and Instagram MyKhuanFamily See you in the next videos Bye bye