【中国人】私達が日本に来て変ったこと！心が広くなった理由は？

Hello everyone, this is Ayan-chan. Hello everyone, this is one time main Kuma-chan. Thank you for having us. Kuma-chan and I have been in Japan for a long time. That's true. I have been in Japan for 12 years. I have been in Japan for almost 20 years. Wow, that's a long time. When you come to Japan, do you feel like you have changed? I feel like I have become more Japanese. First of all, my appearance has changed a lot. That's true. When it comes to makeup, Chinese girls have a lot of flashy makeup. They are good at using different colors. But I have a lot of natural makeup. My lips are not that red. That's true. That's why I feel like I have become more Japanese. You look like a real Japanese girl. I think my face shape is Chinese. Really? In the south of Japan, a lot of girls have a round face. I have a round face too. I have a round face shape. That's why I look Chinese. My makeup is more Chinese. Maybe. You put on a lot of colors. That's true. I came to Japan much later than you. I came to Japan when I was 20 years old. When I came to Japan, the first thing that changed was... I might laugh at this... I washed my hair every day. You probably don't know this. But I do. In Japan, women wash their hair every 2-3 days. There are people who wash their hair every day. But not that many. In the winter, they wash their hair every 2-3 days. In the summer, they wash their hair. In the winter, they don't. When I went to Shinsen last time, I was with my cousin. She told me that she was wearing a hat because she hadn't washed her hair for 3 days. In Shinsen, there is a girl who works at a really good company. She still washes her hair every day. I have seen a lot of couples on social media in China. At the beginning of dating, they take a bath together every day. After dating for a year, they don't take a bath for 3 days. They just go to a convenience store. There is a comparison. I think it's normal for Chinese people not to take a bath for 2-3 days. I take a bath every day. I take a shower every day. But I don't wash my hair every day. I see. In China, there is a theory that washing your hair every day is bad for your scalp. Not because it's a hassle? It's not just a hassle. If you wash your hair every day, your hair will fall out. But when I came to Japan, I didn't wash my hair. It was itchy. I see. It was so itchy that I washed my hair every day. Did my scalp change? I wonder. If your environment changes, your scalp changes too. When I came to Japan, my hair kept falling out. Many Chinese people come to Japan and their hair keeps falling out. Is it because you wash your hair every day? I don't know. I don't know the reason. Do you try to wash your hair every day from today? It's so itchy that I can't sleep. Really? How about you guys? Especially those who come to Japan. Do you wash your hair every day? I want to know. I made a group of people who wash their hair every day. It's a group of people who don't wash their hair every day. They don't wash their hair every day. I don't wash my hair every day either. When I dry my hair and look at the ground, my hair keeps falling out. I wonder if it's because I wash my hair every day. I wonder what's inside my hair. What I think has changed since I came to Japan is that I don't have to worry about studying. I see. Of course, studying is important every day. But when I went to China, I had to study hard to get into a good university. In the first place, you have to study hard to get into a good high school. If you go to a good school, you can get a good job in the future. It depends on your income. When I was in elementary school, I studied until 12 o'clock every day. When you were in elementary school? I studied until 12 o'clock. I had a lot of homework to do. I was very slow at writing my homework. I wasn't that smart, but I tried my best. I studied until 12 o'clock. That's tough. I did a lot of homework. When I came to Japan, Japanese elementary school students had homework? I was like, what is that? I was so happy. I finished my homework in 30 minutes every day. There were days when I didn't have homework. When I had the most difficult time, I had summer homework. I finished it in a week. It was like heaven. Since I came to Japan, studying has become easier. If you are good at studying, you can study a lot. If you are not good at studying, you can get a job. Even if you don't have a good academic record, there are people who have a good company and start their own business. Compared to China, studying in Japan is easier. In China, if you can't study, your parents will tell you. People will think you are a bad person. It's a lot of pressure. In China, if you can study, you will be popular. That's true. Even if you can study in Japan, you won't be that popular. You will be cool, you will be popular. You will be funny. You will be popular. I think I have become very rational. I don't care about the details. You don't care about the details. I can relate to that. For example? I had lunch with Yan-chan today. Yan-chan had something to do so she left first. I gave her 1,000 yen. I ordered a meal for 880 yen. I was going to film later, so I gave her 100 yen. I also bought water. I was worried she might get thirsty. I felt bad buying only for myself. I think this is very Japanese. When you buy something for yourself, you need someone to help you. That's very Japanese. I bought water and gave her 100 yen. I was surprised. Yan-chan was so surprised. She bought water for me. That's why you gave her 100 yen. I didn't want to take money from Yan-chan. I was just doing what I wanted. I didn't want to pay her back for the water. It was very detailed. I was surprised too. I ordered a meal for 880 yen. I gave her 1,000 yen. I thought she was Chinese, so I didn't have to pay her back. But she paid me back 100 yen. I thought some people might care. When you spend a long time with Japanese people, some might care. I bought water for her and gave her 100 yen. But some people might think it's my money. I was in the past. When I bought water for her, she thought it was my money. Yan-chan didn't know which way to go. That's the safest way. When I came to Japan, I was able to read the atmosphere. In China, there is no such thing as reading the atmosphere. In Chinese, there is no such thing as reading the atmosphere. You don't read the atmosphere. When I came to Japan, I had to read the atmosphere. In Japan, the group is very important. In companies and schools, teamwork is very important. Teamwork is very important. Have you ever been to Karaoke with a Chinese person? Yes, I have. If you go to Karaoke with a Chinese friend, you have to put in all your favorite songs. When that person is singing, other people sing along. That's impossible in Japan. In Japan, you put in one song in a row. When one person is singing, the other person doesn't take the mic and sing along. If you have a close friend, it's good to liven up the atmosphere. But if you suddenly take the mic, it's like I was singing. It's like, why are you suddenly taking the mic? That kind of atmosphere. When I first came to Japan, I worked part-time at a Karaoke shop. When I went to Karaoke with a Japanese friend, everyone put in one song and I put in two. That's annoying. My friend's face was like, what? Why is this person putting in two songs? Chinese people are better at putting in two songs. OIST puts in 17 songs. JTU puts in 17 songs. Everyone can sing. Because everyone likes it. Gradually I got to hang out with everyone. I got the hang of it. I got it. I see. Japanese people do it like this. That's true. This is more equal. I can read the atmosphere now. 17 songs... If you do that in Japan, you'll never be called again. That's right. Also, I realized that I'm more sensitive to sound than before. The noise. Honestly, since I came to Japan, isn't it really quiet on the train? Students and kids are noisy, but adults are usually quiet. I got used to being quiet. When I came back to Japan, I was on the train. I didn't use earphones. I just played music and played games. I talked to people. I watched dramas. There were a lot of things like that. All kinds of sounds were mixed together. It was really annoying. I see. It was really annoying. I was like, why don't you use earphones? I wonder if I became more Japanese. I didn't care that much when I came to Japan. That's true. Speaking of which, when I went to China, I've never slept on the train, bus, or subway. You've never slept on the train? It's not a place to sleep. I've never slept on the train. When I came to Tokyo for college, my part-time job was really far away. It took about an hour and a half to commute. At that time, I slept on the train. I slept for about an hour. That might be difficult in China. You can't sleep on the train or subway in China. There's a lot of noise. You might get caught if you sleep on the train. You might be worried. In Japan, the train is really quiet. Everyone is sleeping. Even the people next to you are sleeping. You can sleep in peace. That's true. What's amazing about Japan is that even if you sleep on the train, when you arrive at the station, you wake up. How did you do that? The switch is amazing. I often overslept on the train. You overslept. It's amazing in Japan. When you arrive at the station, you wake up right away. It's like, did you really sleep? I think so. Your ears are catching that sound. Also, I don't get late as much as before. Oh, you don't get late. I think I'm more punctual than before. When you make an appointment with a Chinese person, you say, it's about ______. You say it like that. It's about 6 o'clock. That's right. It's about. So, when I arrive at the station, everyone is on time. I don't get late as much as before. When I say, it's about 6 o'clock. It's about 6 o'clock. It's about 10 or 15 minutes early. It's a little off. In the first place, I can't tell you the exact meeting time. So, since I came to Japan, I've had a habit of being late. Oh, me too. I don't have a job, but I'm a stable 10-minute late. I had that habit too. But, after I started working, it improved a little. Especially your job. You are a model and a talent. The industry is very strict. It's very strict. If you are late, you lose trust. That's right. It's very strict. It's a little less now. When I still hang out, I'm late. Also, you often make a mistake. Yes, I do. You often make a mistake about time and date. I can't manage my time. If you are Chinese, it's easier for you. That's right. That's how it is. When I came to Japan, the biggest change of my mind or inner change is that I can accept different opinions. Was it different before? Before, when I went to China, I didn't want to talk to people with different opinions or positions. I didn't want to be with that person. You didn't want to meet that person. If I didn't want to meet that person, I didn't want to talk to that person. But in Japan, everyone has different opinions and different positions. Even if we are in the same class, we can still be friends. Even among friends, there are people who have totally different opinions. People of different types. Even so, we can still be friends. How can you be friends with people of different types and different opinions? We have different perceptions about this, but if we meet in different places, we can still be friends. We can still hang out together. Even if we are in different places, if we have something in common, we can still be friends. When I went to China, it wasn't like that. If you have something you don't like, it's fine? I wonder why. Did you become an adult? I didn't come to Japan to change, I just became an adult. You came to Japan, learned a lot and became an adult. When I came to Japan, I realized that Japanese people don't have common sense at all. I realized that my common sense is totally different from Japanese people's. Even if our common sense is different, we can still be friends. I see. It might be related. In the end, by meeting people of different types, we can think more. We can be more diverse. That's true. When you meet people from similar backgrounds, your thoughts will be more diverse. The other person has a different opinion from you. If you understand what they think, if you were born in that country, you might have the same opinion as them. Once you understand that, you can be a good person, and you can be friends. Japanese and Chinese people have a lot of misunderstandings. That's true. Recently, there is a lot of news. If you find something you don't like, you can say, I don't like this country anymore. If you find something you don't like, you can say, I want to get along with them. You can be friends. That's true. When you go abroad, you can change people's way of thinking and values. That's true. That's all for today. I think we can talk more about this topic. I think we don't have enough time. If we think more, we can talk more about it. We'll do it again. If you have any comments, please leave them in the comments. I'm taking videos with Yan-chan on my channel, so please check it out. If you like this video, please like and share it. Bye-bye.