5 FAÇONS de BOOSTER instantanément son CHARISME!

When we talk about charisma, many people believe that it is a kind of natural gift that gives the privilege to charismatic people to be intelligent, attractive, persuasive, to always have interesting things to say and to succeed in capturing the attention and gaze of others. Obviously for some people, and thanks to different sources of education that they have received, being charismatic seems more natural, it is easier for them. However, charisma is not a gift, it is not innate, it is a social skill, and like any skill, it is learned and it is worked on. It is a crucial skill to learn because it is truly useful in life. It helps you to be better, and this in both professional and personal contexts, on the role of manager, employee, staff, woman, mother, whatever. It also helps you to be a better leader, to always leave a good image in the different environments you hang out, to have better social relations, a better self-esteem. In short, it can be a real boost in different aspects of your life. Hello everyone, I am Elif, personal branding coach and life coach, and my mission is to help you achieve your life goals, to create the life that inspires you with confidence and authenticity, and this by mastering your identity and your image. Today, I propose to share with you five simple ways to instantly boost your charisma in your social interactions, whether in professional or personal contexts. First tip is to show your emotions. Imagine that someone tells you something sad and that you have no reaction. What will happen? Most likely, the person will go into different interpretations, she will say that you are indifferent, that you may not listen to her, that it does not affect you. And at that moment, you are not showing your charisma. Because if there is one rule that is important in terms of charisma, it is to put others at ease and to make them feel good. So my advice is the following. When a person is sad, be sad with her. When a person expresses joy, be happy with her. If she expresses surprise, be surprised with her. To show your emotion, you can use facial expressions. For example, in the case of joy, automatically, we tend to smile, to open wide eyes, etc. Or you can also have vocal expressions. For example, in the case of surprise, it can be something like Impressive! Second tip, make a sincere compliment. If you have the opportunity to give an authentic, true and sincere compliment, do it. When the compliment is sincere, people remember it. It must not sound false and flattering. Anyway, I guarantee you, people realize it. People feel it right away when it's fake or when it's a little forced. How to make a sincere compliment? First, what can be complimented? Quite classically, it can be elements related to physical appearance, such as clothing, shoes, wearing lipstick, haircut, etc. But it can also be something that the person said, that she expressed, a piece of advice she could give, and a presentation she could do. To express your compliment in a sincere and true way, here are my two tips. First, don't have an exaggerated tone. Don't show too much emotion. And secondly, and that's the most important, be specific. Don't say, for example, I love your haircut. Say rather, I love your haircut. I think it really highlights your face and especially your eyes. Put the emphasis on what you admire and compliment. That's what makes your charisma work. Third way to boost your charisma, smile more. Your smile makes the difference. A face that transmits joy, confidence, thanks to its smile, is a charismatic face. Besides, charismatic people are profiles of people who transmit, who embody joy, happiness, confidence and optimism. I really like to see it as a spotlight that illuminates everyone. In any case, what is certain is that when you smile, you help others to make them feel good and you are more likely to be appreciated. Another very important point that I wanted to share with you is that when you use the skill of smiling, you will realize that people will start to treat you differently. They will react more positively and cooperatively with you. So how to have a good smile? Because there is a good way and a bad way to smile. The bad way is to smile with the corner of the lips. Because this is a smile that is not authentic, it is not warm and it does not convey any emotion. And the right way is to smile with your cheeks, your lips and your eyes. So to have a face that is more stretched. Fourth tip is to match your words with your gestures. And here, your hands have a role to play and are very important. Using your hands is charismatic, but there are obviously different ways to do it. Your hands are the reflection of your intentions. It can support your explanations. It can show some confidence in you, in others as well. It can help others to better memorize what you say. And above all, it gives depth to what you say. It gives more intensity to your messages. But the most important thing is to match your hands with your words. And here are three ways to use your hands in a charismatic way. If, for example, you share numbers. Here are two reasons that explain this. Three tips to help you get a better job interview, etc. Do not hesitate to show the numbers with your hands. Another type of gesture is the gesture of magnitude, of grandeur. For example, if you mention a growth of a company, you can say, the turnover has increased by 10%. It can also be, this represents a big problem for our society, or this problem is insignificant. Finally, the last gesture is all the gestures towards the heart. When you put your hand like that on your chest, you are saying to your interlocutor, it's important to me, be careful, I'm talking about something that matters to me, or I'm touched by what you say. Fifth tip, language of connection. If you have trouble engaging with others, that others find you annoying, uninteresting, etc. It's probably because your verbal charisma is quite weak. So what technique can be used to engage with others in a simple, clear, powerful and attractive way? Let's imagine that you have to talk, describe your job, your position, to a person who absolutely does not know the job, nothing at all of your field of expertise, of your sector of activity, etc. Quite automatically, you will tend to say to yourself, well, I have to give as much information as possible, as much precision, as much detail as possible on what I do. In reality, charismatic language does not consist of being 100% precise, detailed, etc. You risk, on the contrary, even here, of losing your interlocutor during the exchange, of the discussion, they may no longer listen to you. The idea is rather to have a fairly simple and comprehensive language so that the person can easily identify with you and be connected to you. To speak quite simply, either you can be in the rephrasing, or use the style figure, the comparison, which is very effective. So instead of, for example, here, to spread out on your function, use metaphors to give the most of what you do. And here is my bonus tip for all the people who will stay until the end of this video, keep visual contact. This advice is key. There are many reasons that explain why we do not look at a person in the eyes where we have trouble, either we lack confidence in ourselves, or we are shy, or we do not know the person well, or we have our eyes occupied on another device. Just put two seconds in the place of your interlocutor. If you are talking and the person in front of you does not look at you, what are you going to think? Are you going to say to yourself, she is indifferent to what I say, what I say is uninteresting, it's not warm, it's not respectful even, and it really impacts negatively your charisma. My advice is to look at the person in the eyes as long as they speak. And it can really be a boost in the perception of your status, in the perception of the level of confidence that you give yourself and that we can give you. That's all for this video, come and share with us in the comments other tips that you think are very charismatic and helpful. See you soon in a new video. Transcribed by https://otter.ai