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Dear parents, today I would like to share with you a question about which age group is suitable to start playing with toys and what parents should not do. From my point of view, in fact, when the baby has just been born, you can already prepare toys for the baby. Because when the newborn baby has just been born, the newborn doctors will examine the babies. There is a test in it that is to see the ability to hold. You use your finger to touch the baby's hand to see if the baby reacts or not. If you touch the baby's hand like this and the baby does not react, it is possible that some parts of the nervous system have not developed properly. Babies sometimes hold very tightly. The mother's fingers are also your toys. It is also a kind of toy. You also have to put your fingers in the palm of your hand. Because this helps to increase the feeling for the baby. This is as effective as a massage. That is, it increases the pleasure of the child when in contact with the parents. This is an inexpensive toy. So when the baby is very small, you have to try to increase this contact. In addition, when in the emergency room, there are also some rules. Some doctors have experience when they have just met a patient, their first action is to touch the patient's hands and feet. Why do they do that? What is it like to touch hands and feet? Because hands and feet are the places of the heart. A doctor with experience touching these positions can feel whether your body temperature is normal or not. Is there any serious medical condition? Because blood circulation does not reach far away, so when we play with children, we can touch their fingers and toes. These are the nerves of the nervous system. When the nerves of this nervous system are very good, the circulation of the whole body is also very good. I used to know a person who had a heart attack. He could not move at all. He even had to smoke. And the person who took care of him massaged from the nerves of the nervous system and had more contact with his body. It is trying to massage him with a wider area and stronger intensity. Sing to him with a cheerful mood. Thanks to this, he has regained consciousness. Recovery consciousness is a very important thing. If you miss that opportunity, he may become a vegetative person. This method has an effect on adults and also has an effect on children. So not only put your hand in the palm of your hand, you also need to sing for your child to hear. You also have to have some interactions with your child, even if others see you as a fool. Because when you do these things, the children do not respond much to you. There is a teacher who said very clearly that parents have to take good care of their children and start from a very young age. Parents also do not forget to interact with their children. The first is to adjust your emotions and do not be afraid that others will laugh at you as a fool. Until one day you will realize that you are the smart mother. Everyone talks about how to educate well. In fact, it started with the interaction between parents and children. Little by little, but gradually. Once the problem of education arises, we as parents need to think about whether in the past we had shortcomings, sometimes we were not aware of it or not. Speaking of toys, children have been playing with your fingers since they were very young. When the child is a little older, we need to be careful not to let the child play with things that can put the child in danger. That is, when the child has not yet developed to that level, but you let the child use toys of the older child, then those are dangerous toys. For example, a sword. If you let the child play too little, it is not good. Especially when the child just knows how to go, the elderly in the house often say to cut off the chopsticks not to let the child play at this time. Or hard objects, or things that children can put in their mouths. You just need to be a little careful that the child has swallowed it. The child can eat or chew it. Other toys should not be for children are electronic music players. These kinds of toys are very popular now. Nowadays, if a child can hold an iPad or a phone, they all have a lot of electronic music. I want to emphasize that children can rely on the frequency of sound to feel everything around them. So I suggest that everyone should use fluid music such as piano, violin, cello. The sound emitted from the instrument will actually have a different frequency with the frequency of music created by electronic devices. I do not encourage everyone to use electronic music. Why? This is not my personal opinion, but the result of some research has found that basically, electronic music has a frequency of sound which is usually high. It can easily damage the vitality, especially the very weak genital cells of children. So electronic music is not encouraged at all. Later, there were also some discoveries. Children are often in a state of addiction to this toy because they do not just play for a few days. The child will find electronic music very interesting. Sometimes the child will play for 2 to 3 years. Sometimes the older brother continues to play. So that toy can play for several years because just by replacing the battery, different kinds of electronic music can be emitted. Research has shown that children like this are prone to depression. When adults talk to children like this, they have to speak loudly. It's like being angry. It will have such side effects. Previously, there were some articles that found a type of toy with a high frequency sound. I advise parents not to buy that toy. Currently, there are really many toys, but there are also many types that should not be used for children. Toys that emit electronic sounds should not be used. But if you use an iPad or a phone to play a good piano song, if you only let the child listen to the sound, then you don't have a big problem. But if you give the iPad to the child, then the problem has arisen. Currently, I know some of my friends let their children play with the iPad when they were just 1 or 2 years old. There are a lot of cartoons on it. Now, children all hold the iPad in their hands or pick up the phone from their parents. The child is in the process of development and has a very important ability, which is to catch first. Children are like cameras. Previously, we specially designed some toys so that all the children's fingers have the opportunity to practice. When you use a phone or iPad, you will find that we often use these two fingers, these three fingers do not use much. For adults, this may not affect much, but for children, each cell needs to develop. You give the child 1 to 2 years, you will see that the child will not be normal. These two fingers use too much, these three fingers basically do not exercise. Using too much is not good, not using it is not good either. So before, there was a true story that happened. A child with his mother was sitting on the train. Through the window, the mother saw a bird flying over the sky. The mother was very happy and showed it to the child. Because this scene is very rare in the city, the mother told the child to come and see quickly. This child is only 2 to 3 years old. As soon as he saw the glass window with a small bird, he put his two fingers on the glass and spread his two fingers wide to enlarge the image. Therefore, parents should not underestimate the behavior of children. When playing a toy, these things will have a very deep impact on the child's awareness. Children have not distinguished reality and images in the iPad. When choosing toys for children, we should not think that the more modern, the better. Because the more traditional the toys are, the more logical they are. Children are used to enlarging and minimizing images on the iPad, so they can no longer distinguish reality. So how old is suitable for children to use this toy? From the perspective of an educator, if the environment around the child has some requirements to use a computer, then basically from elementary school, the child can use it. And if the environment around the child, the school, does not require to use a computer, then just wait until high school. At that time, at least the child has a little ability to understand what the future job needs. At that time, the child has learned the principle of communication, the range and distance between people. The child knows how to make something. Those abilities are starting to exist. Because at about 12 years old, the basic brain is relatively logical. In education in the US, teachers often tell parents that if your child is 12 years old and does not know how to do housework, then your child has a problem. The US has such standards. They will directly tell you that your child has a problem. Why? Because housework requires both hands and eyes, all 10 fingers to work. In addition, there is the concept of order, time, what to do first, what to do next. Children must know how to arrange work according to the requirements of adults. This is a high-level logical concept that 12-year-old children must achieve. This point needs to be emphasized. The important things need to be repeated 3 times. When your child is 12 years old, if he does not know how to do housework, in the US, they say that your child has a problem. But we look back at ourselves. Our 12-year-old children, not to mention 12 years old, many Vietnamese families, 17-18-year-old children, especially boys, still don't know how to do anything. This is a very common phenomenon. Such children, if they study abroad, when they come to another country to live with a foreign family, you will wonder what these children will encounter and how the people around them will have an impression on their children. I know a lot of stories like this. The environment of the children in the Vietnamese family is relatively good. When they study abroad, they see that the relationship with society is not good. The children do not think about whether they need to wash the dishes right after lunch. They think that when they need to use the dish, they can just wash it. This is what they think. So what do other people need to do? Everyone has to go along to take care of princes like this. So there are a lot of American families who have realized that they cannot accept such young people living together. We want to bring children to American families to learn English. But that opportunity has been lost. In fact, in recent years, universities in the United States have also changed some conditions for students. Previously, I emphasized the social work part. Currently, I also emphasize this, but there has been a change in the location. Because they found that some parents deliberately let their children have a high score. They quit their job of driving their children to do social work. Today, go to this place to do social work. The next day, go somewhere else to do social work. Just because of a high score in college. However, these young people, after entering the school, were discovered. The children did not care about the public work of their own school. Because before, the children only applied for admission. So now, the admission conditions have been adjusted. They think that students in their parents' house will help their parents to serve their parents. If there is a younger brother or sister at home, they just need to take care of the younger brother. Things like teaching exercises, cleaning the house, helping the children cook, and if there is a problem in life or communication, the children will help the children to learn languages. All these jobs are counted. We all say that children need to come to the United States to study. But I heard that the real traditional things that Americans ask are the same as the requirements for education in our traditional society. The idiom has four words. It means to learn to use in practice. It's not that you learn something just to achieve something in some place. But you have to be able to apply it to your family, people around you, people in the company, and more people. Then we also need to think about many principles. The first is the feeling of the child. When the nervous system is still not well developed, the child has come into contact with a lot of things. So when choosing toys, the first thing you need to pay attention to is the feeling of the hand when you touch it. When the hand moves, the child is still very soft. Don't give your child too hard toys. You can use fabric materials. The nature of the fabric can have different effects. We often recommend fabrics that are not used for hair because the child may get hair loss. This is not good for the child's lungs. We need to give our children safe toys including some fabric materials during the production process without using chemicals or spray pesticides when sewing. You know that those things can cause pregnancy for a long time. If we talk about fabric materials you also need to pay attention to some colored toys. Especially children's toys often have a lot of colors because children often use toys to eat. For children, all toys are put in their mouths. I remember there were two books before a book about the skin of most food and cosmetics. Those skin substances are given a license but then some skin discovered its cancerous nature so they withdrew the license. That book said the chemical components of them and the rest of the books are the colored toys. The chemical components of the colored toys are given a license but then some skin discovered its cancerous nature so they withdrew the license. So I think you can't rely on your emotions to decide many things. For example, we should be responsible and mature so that we can expand our knowledge. I think this is a benefit. So we should use natural fabric materials natural fabric. These are the things I often use. I used to find out that there are too many harmful things in the surrounding environment that we don't know. So when you know you need to be more careful. Then we found out that there are too many harmful things in the surrounding environment that we don't know. Then we found out that there are too many harmful things in the surrounding environment that we don't know. Then we found out that there are too many harmful things in the surrounding environment that we don't know. Then we found out that there are too many harmful things in the surrounding environment that we don't know. Because using electronic devices too early has a huge impact on the development of the body and mind of children. Thank you for listening.