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If parents are too hard on their children, it will be difficult for them to develop. Hello, dear parents and loved ones. First, when you hear the title of this article, I'm sure you will have mixed feelings and even misunderstandings or disagreements. Parents who are hard on their children will be good, and will create a precondition for their children to behave well, right? Parents who are always hard on their children, will make a mistake in everything, and the children who are ignorant, will be held accountable for their actions, right? These are the thoughts that come to mind when you hear the title Parents who are too hard on their children, it will be difficult for them to develop. I and you will separate each class of meaning from the above definition. The fact that parents are hard on their children is not related to the work of their children. If parents are hard on their children, they have a good income to improve the quality of life of the family. That is good for the family. This always creates more positivity compared to the fact that parents are lazy to work. But this has nothing to do with the work of their children. What I want to focus on is Parents who are hard on their children. Parents who are hard on their children are those who never trust their children and are not patient enough to let their children complete a task. They never let their children get involved Let me give you some examples. When you start practicing holding a spoon and chopsticks, let a patient mother hold the spoon and chopsticks and pick up the food. You are very patient. You pick up the food. You drop the food onto the floor. You take off your clothes. At that time, parents are afraid that you will get sick and have to clean the floor. So they always make it quick for you. These parents are very hard on their children. This is just a small daily situation. There are many other situations. If parents are lazy and patient, you will do well and develop well. When you are 4 or 5 years old, you are used to doing everything by yourself. Maybe you like to clean the house, but when you are 4 years old, you often have to wash the dishes. If a 4-year-old boy washes the dishes, what is the final result? 1. The dishes are still greasy. 2. The dishes are dirty. 3. The dishes are broken. 4. The water is spilled. 5. The clothes are wet. If we only look at what we have lost, 1 to 8 years old, our children will be difficult to grow up and develop an independent personality. As we all know, no matter how smart you are, if you don't have an independent personality, you are not smart at all. These situations are opportunities. Parents should give their children a golden opportunity to taste and experience. From there, encourage them to be smart to eventually become a habit and an independent behavior of their children. When I was washing the dishes, I immediately agreed. Before that, I imagined this situation. If I broke 1 or 2 dishes, if I broke 7 dishes, I would still be calm. I still obeyed and encouraged my children. These are the steps that parents need to prepare because the result is very eye-catching. In fact, it is not the parents who are eye-catching, but it is the parents who want their children to be neat, tidy and fast. But when they see their children sluggish When I was washing the dishes, there were broken dishes, there was water, there was everything. I just went out and didn't know. After I finished washing, I went out and held my parents' hands and pulled them out to see if the dishes were clean or not. I broke that plate. At this time, we need encouragement. I told my father to be more careful and not to break anymore because everyone has broken a bowl. I don't need to think much. Next time, I will wash the bowl again. I am comfortable and respected. That is the motivation for my son to wash the third clean bowl in the house behind mom and dad. Especially, there is no wrong sentence that forces you to wash the dishes completely voluntarily as you want. Through the above story, I think I have overcome myself. I dare not to be patient to not have to help you. I dare to be determined to change many things for you to experience and form your own personality. If I am blind and impatient, I should let you wash by yourself as you want. Sometimes I see that your bowl is still dirty. Mom and dad need to be smart to clean it silently so that you can get the initial result. The first time is not clean. The second time will be cleaner. The third time will be cleaner. The fourth time will be professional. But if you are afraid of being sick, you will be afraid for the rest of your life. And independence is very important. For example, parents often say that their children will suffer if they are too clean. This is the result of their hard work. For those who are too clean, the house is always messy, the dishes and utensils are everywhere, and the children will accidentally put on the dirty line for their children. In particular, in these families, children have no concept of being able to play freely, and the animals in the family are almost not touched. When the child is still young, just being a little bit busy will be a big problem for these parents. Parents being too clean puts pressure on their children because they are less creative, and from there, their curiosity is interrupted. Parents should pay attention to this. Don't make it too messy, but don't make it too clean. So if parents work too hard, it means they work hard to help their children, not to let their children be alone, not to let their children practice to form flexibility, as well as to form an independent personality. But on the other hand, if parents force their children to work too much, by bullying, violence, words or actions, it is not bad. Please be gentle and gentle, encourage, encourage, be smart.