2021 不討好，先愛己而後愛人，才會生活自在且幸福 Don’t please, love yourself first【愛學習 】

In the hit variety show "Longing for Life" The model couple Huang Lei and Sun Li hugged when they met Jing is praised by many netizens as Gao Tian Countless likes are triggered all the time From sophomore year to now More than 20 years The two people's emotional enthusiasm is not diminishing When asked about the secrets of getting along Huang Lei gives the answer publicly We are happy when we are together When not together Two people will have a good time Will find their own happiness Even if i'm filming outside Sun Li will also arrange her life have to say If you want to manage a relationship Just remember Do everything What's wrong Learn not to please Do not explain or force Many problems can be solved easily Love yourself first if you don't please Then lover There is a very popular quote on Weibo He said he likes boiled water But you happen to be a bottle of Sprite to this end You desperately shake off the carbon dioxide in your body Then it became a bottle of sweet water without gas Compared to plain water You are so sweet Compared to soda You lose a stimulus Still failed to be his love Love needs to pay each other But you don't need to lose yourself Instead of just lowering yourself Please others Let yourself lose your independence Make the other person feel stressed It's better to please yourself first In the movie "Pride and Prejudice" The hostess Elizabeth is not flattering in the face of the noble Darcy Can be used as a love textbook for many girls Eight-year-old born a nobleman Noble and rich My heart to the squire, Mrs. Bennett and others Grandiose and vulgar Sniff At the prom He is sitting next to Elizabeth Even proudly reluctant to talk to her Due to the bad impression of the first meeting Elizabeth the kind and upright Very dissatisfied with his own arrogance Later at the banquet of my friend Sir Lucas Elizabeth turned down Darcy's invitation to dance with him When playing cards at Bingley’s She is also tit-for-tat with Darcy This kind of unflattering truthfulness and frankness Let Darcy's eyes shine Gradually unable to extricate himself Once Elizabeth worried about her sick sister So I went to see her on foot Even if her clothes were covered with dirt, Darcy Still think she looks cute The eyes are more attractive than before Elizabeth concentrates on her heart and never pleases others But let everyone see a girl who is innocent and frustrated Even if it's not pretty Not rich She still lived a happy life with the noble Darcy The best way to be a person is to do what you want Motivated Live as you like Occasionally listen to the opinions of others But never humble to please Lose oneself Don't please but show yourself to your heart's content Let you see my personality and style Your eyes will tell you I don't need to bow down I'm worthy to stand side by side with you Enjoy the beautiful scenery of the world Do not explain without saying And I know your heart There are so many things that can impress you in the colorful world When we were young, we did our best I want others to know myself After arriving Knowing after all the mountains and rivers Easy money Confidant hard to find No need to explain is the real soul mate No explanation is the highest manifestation of tacit understanding Because I believe you Because I know what you think So no need to say more Then you can rest assured to deliver all the trust and understanding Speaking of heart and soul Many people think of "A Dream of Red Mansions" That childhood sweetheart Baoyu and Daiyu After Baoyu was beaten Friends and family came to greet you again and again At this time Baoyu woke up leisurely I'm still thinking about Daiyu I'm embarrassed to say To the maid Qing Man Road Go to Miss Lin to see what she is doing She wants to ask me Just say i'm fine Qingwen no Embarrassed Went there for no reason No need to strike up a conversation Baoyu thought for a while I just pulled two old silks to her And said Don't worry, he knows Qingwen ignorantly took the silk and came to the Xiaoxiang Pavilion Daiyu asked her what to do Qingwen said to send the silk Daiyu has thought about seeing that it is an old silk Not much to say Repeatedly said to Qingwen: "Let it go Qingwen walked away again in a fog But Daiyu knows her heart and soul She froze for a while Be infatuated with the two old silk gods Two people at the moment Although I can't see I couldn't hear it but it resonated spiritually Speechless Those who understand naturally don’t need to explain Liangfang Old Silk Baoyu is telling Daiyu that she is safe And Daiyu's not much to say It's the embodiment of your heart and I know the two of you Many people in life care too much Keep chasing people Must explain clearly I don’t know the least need to care about and explain in the relationship Listen to your heart’s voice from another corner In love Let go of those redundant rhetoric that are getting darker and darker Back to the bottom of my heart The simplest idea is the simplest happiness No explanation Because we already understand each other's minds Not explaining, but making each other's minds clearer Not forced to be affectionate is a matter of course Career success Maybe you need to force yourself to do your best But the value of love lies in not reluctantly Leave room for getting along Both can be comfortable Natural way to love Since the twisted melon is not sweet It's better to change mindset Don't do reluctant things Naturally can taste the sweetness of the ripe melon Variety show "Happy Trio" Many people say I didn’t expect Zhang Guoli and his wife Deng Jie to be treasures The old companion is so happy This model couple in the entertainment industry I have realized my way of getting along in my life Not reluctant After dinner The two decided to sing to relieve boredom Sister Deng chose the familiar Teresa Teng Zhang Guoli speaks bluntly will not Sister Deng smiled I will Zhang Guoli said OK, sing it Teacher Deng one after another Unfortunately, my husband doesn't know all Just to give her a favor Later, I was so bored that I fell asleep Sing to a happy place Deng Jie looked back and wanted her husband's support But saw him lying on the sofa groggy The audience thought she would go up and call her husband up Unexpectedly, she just walked over naughty Cough gently Not doing anything This can't help but admire the audience Sure enough, old couples and old wives know how to be happy without reluctance finally Feeling his wife's interest, Zhang Guoli stood up again Deng Jie intimately clicked on Zhang Guoli’s masterpiece The theme song of the TV series that the two co-starred in "Unlimited Jiangshan" sounded The emperor and concubine in the screen Heroic beauty is exceptionally seductive Husband and wife off-screen Envy others There are no two rivers the same in the world Even between husband and wife Nor can we guarantee that the hobbies are exactly the same Less reluctant Make two people happy when they agree You can have fun when you have different preferences Don't force the one you love the most I love his high-level performance Because of loving him I just want to put myself in my place and think about him Respect and accept all of him A mature relationship It’s not to make two people exactly the same But two people Have found their own comfort points in getting along Appreciate each other mutual respect Don't force each other In such a harmonious atmosphere Deep love is formed naturally Schopenhauer once told a prophetic story Cold winter A group of porcupines gather to warm each other But the thorns on the body hurt each other it We have to separate again But after a while The cold brings them together again Back and forth several times They finally found a proper distance In emotional relationship Many people are like porcupines They need each other But often get hurt because of doing too much Instead of It’s better to learn to find the safety that suits you distance Unpleasant Give upward strength in self-improvement Don't explain, save the extra words To listen to the voice of the heart Not reluctant Mutual tolerance and comfort are more natural than Jinjian Know not to please Do not explain the secret of not reluctant Let us be more and more happy in our emotions Love is as deep as the sea Old days