5 Warnzeichen über Se*ualität, die du niemals ignorieren solltest!

Today you will learn how you can recognize so-called red flex in erotic close combat - clear warning signs - these are intended to tell you that this person is absolutely not the right choice for you, at least not yet. Some of these reflexes can be eliminated with a clarifying conversation or you can It could be provided that the other side is not only the problem but also willing to talk and interested in a solution. Especially when it comes to sexuality, we are theoretically more enlightened than ever before and yet so many misunderstandings still happen and there is still blatant ignorance, of course a gray area in which you can be tolerant and put your hopes on the situation adjusting and settling down, but there are some things that cannot be tolerated that are definitely part of this and definitely need to be clarified, which we will tell you in today's video before we start. We would like to tell you again point out that this video is only for information and educational purposes if you are not yet part of our great community then we invite you to subscribe to our channel so that you don't miss any exciting videos in the future [Music] Number 1 Feedback Culture and tact how was I is probably the question of all questions that you least want to hear after a passionate interlude. In general, you are doing yourself a big favor by talking as openly and honestly as possible about the pros and contrasts of the joint close combat exercises. This is the only way to guarantee the quality that both sides want Foreplay and cuddling afterwards shouldn't be neglected. Unfortunately, there isn't a kink for sexuality yet, but a little sensitivity and an adult approach to this topic are certainly not too much to ask. It must be possible to express wishes and make suggestions for improvement You shouldn't hope for deaf ears here that these things will sort themselves out, they won't. Number 2, ignore the issues of contraception and protection against communicable diseases. It's still a woman's job to ensure that the issue of contraception isn't an issue, but why? Actually, of course, no one wants to talk about these mood killers when their mind is already somewhere else, but especially in times like ours where communicable diseases are again on the alarming rise, a short conversation on the subject of safety is not a bad idea. Anyone who stonewalls or refuses to do so is not an adequate person Partner and no one else that you should definitely continue to hope for Number 3 your body becomes the target of scorn and ridicule Body shaming is a relatively new term, the problem associated with it is not as if it wasn't strange enough to be unclothed for the first time You can see malicious or derogatory comments pretty much the last thing that should be tolerated in the bedroom. If you are with someone who can't leave a good thing about you and your body, and perhaps even while you actually want to get close to each other, you should have a conversation Be a stain of epic proportions just to make it clear 99% of all people look better dressed than unclothed, the chances of someone acting like a judge who sits in a glass house are considerable, so don't let yourself be made bad and certainly do n't become number 4 when unclothed not respected or even exceeded, unfortunately in no other area is communication so bad and inadequate as in that concerning our sexuality and in no other area would it be more urgently necessary what someone likes or doesn't like that is good or repulsive has to be stated clearly and clearly but this one The limit shown must of course also be respected. Carrying out any experiments without prior agreement is just as bad as persuading your partner or using more or less pressure to force your partner to do something they don't want. Intimacy is a fine line between surrender and loss of control when sexuality is for both If both sides are to be beautiful, both of them must first and foremost feel safe and in good hands. Number 5. Only one person can have fun and reach their goal. Lovemaking is a team sport with usually two participants. The meaning of the most beautiful side thing in the world is shared fulfillment, enjoying mutual closeness and of course the satisfaction of sexual needs. Unfortunately, one half of this equation is involved and most of the time we women are still left empty-handed, while many men still have embarrassingly little idea of ​​how to take their partner with them on this journey and the goal is on the one hand the common path but of course also the arrival somewhere in between, we women fall by the wayside more often than average, this is a red flect that must never remain in life without intervention, if this person stays there by your side for a longer period of time, without a saying you would have a miserable life forever Love life that doesn't deserve this name in bed, therefore, the same right applies to everyone. You may have to jump over your own shadow a little in this conversation, but it's worth our conclusion today. It's a one-off affair or you want to talk more about sexuality, depending on whether it's worth it your latest conquest has what it takes to be more or was just a hot flirt who unfortunately turned out to be a non-starter. Talking about sexuality is actually always worth it. We can do something that affects all of humanity and that drives us crazy if we don't do enough of it If you don't just ignore it, you know that a one night stand turns out to be a bust, you can chalk it up to what should you do? If you're aiming for a relationship with this person, you definitely have to address unpleasant things like the topics of contraception and protection, but also dealing with your boundaries and needs Any kind of body-shaming criticism and inappropriate feedback is not something you can tolerate. Sexuality has a lot to do with power and control. Unconditional trust is therefore the most important prerequisite for this and of course physical love should also be fun and both sides should enjoy celebrating passion together and eroticism is too important in a partnership to sacrifice it for mediocrity, a false sense of shame or the fear of hurting the other person must be overcome, but then nothing stands in the way of a celebration of joy and that is exactly what physical love should be. Thank you for watching and see you soon [music]