Giáo Dục Hạnh Phúc: Sự Vĩ Đại Của Người Phụ Nữ Là Ở Điểm Nào? Nguồn: Ngẫm Radio

What is the greatness of women's happiness education? My name is Duc, I would like to say hello to the audience of Ngam Radio. Ladies and gentlemen, on the website chánhkiến.org, there are a series of articles on the topic of happiness education. It is about how to become a filial son, a gentle wife, a kind mother. Actually, I want women to be happy women. Today, let's talk about this topic. According to traditional culture, women before marriage are often taught some necessary knowledge. Our girls today, before marriage, rarely receive education. It is said that in Japan, there is a school for brides. Before marriage, I will tell you how to become a good wife. It is said that the first thing a girl should be able to do is to be filial. This filial piety has half above the word old, half below the word young. An old man needs to be like the sky to protect a young man. So, this young man also respects the old man above. Chinese culture is called the traditional culture. The ancients created each word to bring the best things to pass on. This word means to really respect your parents. We don't just have to be filial, we also have to respect them. As the saying goes, It means that even a dog or a horse is raised. If you don't respect your parents, what's the difference? For example, if we have a cat or a dog at home, we have to let them eat it. We can't let them get cold. Some people even let dogs wear clothes. So, when we treat our parents, we have to let them eat it. We can't let them get cold, right? That's not enough. We have to really respect our parents above. Have you ever called your parents and they answered like this? Your parents are really annoying? Or something like that? There are girls who call their boyfriends or someone else very gently. On the contrary, when you call your mother, it sounds like annoying, unbearable. Or the old man says a few more words, you can't accept it right away. What do you say so much? We treat our guests with respect. There is another word called understanding. What does it mean? Who among us can do four things? When your parents call, do they come right away? When your parents wake up, do they listen? When your parents blame you, do they really accept it? Is it very difficult to do? But that's why it's called understanding. This word means understanding your parents. Are there many people who often don't follow and say, don't bother me anymore, it's too annoying. This annoyance of humans is a kind of state. But let's say you are a teacher. When the kids write that it's annoying, don't bother me. Can you teach them? You just said, do a few exercises. The kid says, it's too annoying, don't bother me. How do you teach a kid like that? So understanding is a traditional culture bringing back the good things. If the kids want to do something, then we can't teach them, right? So there must be order. In the traditional culture, it is called the ritual to respect the teacher. As for adults, who should we respect? We need to respect our parents, right? There are parents who say, why doesn't this kid listen to anything? We rarely consider why they don't listen. Maybe we can't do it ourselves. The kid remembers that that day when his grandmother called, but his mother didn't come. Maybe the kid learned later. If so, visiting his parents in the morning may be a little better in the countryside today. But the little kids living in the city seem to have lost the old-fashioned environment. In the past, when adults woke up early in the morning, they had to visit their parents. At night, they also visited their parents, and the kids would do the same. Because this is a daily habit. The family environment is also a school. A good daughter. The ancients said that Bach Thien understood the Vietnamese. This understanding is the most basic of all virtues. There is a saying that Only children know the heart of their parents. We don't remember what happened before we were 3 years old, but we only remember what happened after we were 5 years old. So before we were 3 years old, we had no idea how our parents treated us. We didn't know how hard it was for our parents. And usually after having children, women can really feel that hardship. First is pregnancy. After 9 months and 10 days, the mother has to carry the baby on her back. In addition, the mother also has a reaction at the beginning of the pregnancy, such as nausea, bloating, and dizziness. So the mother's pregnancy is not easy. Everyone knows that every time a woman gives birth to a child, it is very painful and painful. So why does the mother suffer so much? It's because of the baby. Now look back at today's children. Every time they have a birthday, they need to have ice cream or a gift. The ancients said that when we have a birthday, we should first be grateful to our mother for bringing us to this world. With gratitude, this child will be able to use his gratitude everywhere. When he knows that his mother has suffered a lot because of him, the child will know that teaching them knowledge is not easy. He already has this gratitude. When it comes to the workplace, a person with knowledge, expertise, but no gratitude, when he pays a little money, after a few days, he quits his job. He even took away the company's secret. Such a person without reputation will also have no credibility. Let's talk about parents taking care of children. At night, the mother just said she wanted to sleep. The child cried. The mother had to get up quickly. She couldn't say, I'll sleep for a while and then I'll make tea, right? He needs to eat, urinate, urinate at any time. Once he urinates, he will cry. The mother can't sleep, she has to take care of him. That is to say, when we were young, what did we need? We cried. Of course, we didn't know how to call mom at that time. Once the child cried, it was the same as calling mom. Mom will rush to help. Mom can't say, let me finish reading this novel, then help the child. 7 minutes, just leave it, how can it be? Mom has to rush to help. So, to self-regulate, that children need to call their parents, answer right away, to reciprocate the care of their parents. That is to say, mom is like a servant. Whenever she calls, whenever she calls, as long as she is there, this child will be extremely happy. On one hand, there is a substitute, on the other hand, there is water to drink, when hungry, there is milk. If the child is hungry and cries, half an hour later, he can eat. Can that be called happiness? So, the child's happiness is thanks to the care of his parents. The child's comfortable happiness is mom's sleepless nights. Because mom needs to take care of the child at any time. The child will be energetic, mom will wake up right away. So, in the novel, it is said that in the past, the parents were so stupid, who saw their children? It is also said that when the child went away, mom was worried. At first glance, when we were young, all the comfortable things were given by our parents. Many people are not grateful, but still compare. My father makes little money, his father can make a lot of money. His father has a good job, and my father is stupid, he has to stay at home to farm. They don't think that if the father doesn't even know how to plant, he doesn't know how to raise his children. So, when we are grateful, we will feel that it is not easy for our parents to raise us like this. In fact, filial piety is the beginning of being a good person. Traditional culture is very meaningful. In Chinese characters, the word is is When we say we are being grateful, what do we get? We get virtue. The ancients said that virtue is including a word for woman, and next to it is the word for tree. It must be said that women are the cleaners. The ancients created the word for writing to be very useful. So women will be associated with housework. There is a girl who said, Why do we have to let women clean? And what about men? What do they do? Everyone looks at this word for man, there is a word for electricity and a word for force. It means that men have to go to the fields to work. As everyone knows, life outside is not easy now. Women in modern times are no longer easy, because women today are outside doing the work of men, and at home they have to do the work of women. In ancient times, the work of men was to fight, to farm, to work, to hunt. And the women stayed at home to take care of the children. Today, people think that women are liberated. In fact, women in ancient times did not know how to say that they were liberated, because they were happy. Today, they say that women are liberated, but most of the time, women are not really liberated. On the contrary, the more severe the punishment, the more divorce. So in the past, it was said that women worked in the house, men worked outside, forced marriage, so that it was harmonious. This word, in the middle of the word, there is also a word like the sky. In fact, it is a hand, which also means to take care of the house. The word also means to take care of the husband. It means that the wife is equal, husband and wife are equal, equal. It is not strange to say that women plant trees, but it means to do a light job. In the past, women were willing to serve others. Now, there will be people who say, why do I have to serve him? Everyone knows that there is a saying that if you have a gentle wife, you rarely meet misfortune. Children are filial, parents are at ease. That is the duty of women. You must have heard the story of the old man who fished and caught a golden fish. The old man caught a golden fish. The old woman wanted to build a house. When the house was built, she wanted to build a palace. When the palace was built, she wanted the god to come to her. She was greedy. The final result was two white hands. What is the cause? Is it because of the greed of the old woman? These days, sometimes it is like that. To satisfy the greed, you don't have to spend much, but in the end, you have to be greedy and have two white hands. Is it like the old woman's ending? A wife like the wife of the old man who fished, thought she was too smart. In the end, she could not achieve anything. Is that so? Therefore, women need to become good wives. With full morality, filial piety, gentleness, kindness, consideration. Because they are like precious gems in every family and society. What do you think about this? Please leave a comment below for everyone to know. I hope I have brought you interesting information. 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