Living and loving in the digital world

in this digital age uh relational problems are simple it is one word digital the problem is human beings have created digital computers that are now of outdoing us it's just like when you sit in front of this computer game there's nothing you want to do there's no how you are good at the game that you can outplay that computer and that's the situation in the home the situation in our schools and the situation I work digitals have taken the place of human beings I mean computers so the unfortunate thing is that human beings have not been able to separate reality from the illusional just like in our communication in social media and everything we're having a problem no one has taught us yet that what you see on the screen is illusional and delusional and too much of it becomes delusional highly confusing so we have a situation where this young man sits in front of the screen all day and the woman now is having to compete with the image of a pretty lady whom he met on the screen not only that are women sitting in front of the screen half of the day they are so busy with their lives Market lives that they do not even have time to bring up that child the way the child ought to be brought up so the computer plays part of the babysitting rules mark my words what happens is that the TV has a booming sound has a beautiful sound the computer has that subtle sound and even when that TV is off that is the voice the child still hears mothers if you don't like the way the fathers treat you it's up to you to stop it women we shouldn't neglect our role I know most of us say that men are these men are that my question is we have a role to play are you doing something different to help your children the Next Generation be different from the experiences you have had or that you are having because mock my words most women complain about being ignored the man is busy playing ball focused on a football game he doesn't have time for her if it's not the football game it is I stock up on some pornography and all and it goes on and on but my question is that or sometimes it's just stuck on some game my question to all of us is that are we doing something different raising the children to be different or is the first Resort iPad or any pad because many of us wake up and the first thing in the morning for that child is that iPad when the child cries mommy mommy mommy daddy daddy daddy that is your responsible as well first thing is go and play with your iPad don't disturb me really what we have is a lot of sound going on we want peace it's called pseudo peace Pursuit Of Peace is really crazy because we have lonely people crying out for attention lonely people they cannot manage relationships the only people who've already gone Bonkers but because they look normal no one knows what's going on in their heads no one knows what they're going through it's like their Cry for Help is muted are we muting The Cry of hell for our kids that cry for attention because that's what is going to be in the end we have men that can no longer communicate it's all in their heads they think they have already finished telling you everything and let's take that back to Genesis just remember in the garden it was when a dam became kind of easy he wasn't around for Eve those when disciplines came in my question because I was never there did the serpent crawl in to fill in a space was Adam too busy nurturing the peacocks in the garden was it too busy paying attention to the flowers maybe because they were easier to manage than the emotional woman in his house now the woman he had to repeat things to like three times before she heard it once but the safe you know Satan the serpent was subtle and he goes like you know what whatever Adam doesn't tell you I can tell you because I was there on that day as well when he was having a conversation with god really well the person who had a conversation with god was not there to clarify issues because she had questions which of a tree when how why what what was Adam there to answer those questions the fact is Adam thought that he was going to be Exempted from that blame came he thought that since it was it wasn't his fault after all it was a woman that lured him into it but guess what it's interlinked we are interconnected who got the first shot it was Adam so mean when your woman makes a mistake you're not Exempted you're not gonna say oh yeah and that is the problem or that is the problem we need to deal with in this generation men should stop hiding behind computers digital games and saying they are not the ones in charge of the homes they need to be equally responsible and be patient remember that woman in your home is not the computer she needs to be told something four times especially if she has to run after three four one child imagine a woman with a baby already half her brain is occupied sincerely speaking and she is asking you the same thing over and over again and you're getting impatient I hope that with a little more Enlightenment with a little more um putting ourselves out to make things better a little more patience a little more tolerance you know we need to put pride in this place before it destroys our parade of place we need to do things differently so we can have different outcomes because at the end of the day the woman makes a happy home how many men are happy how many ladies are happy the marriage is now like a nightmare nobody wants to go into it who made it that way is it that we are not giving we are not even ready to give in anything the issue I think really starts with expectations we need to manage our expectations right most people's expectations are not realistic when you have a job description as a builder part of the unwritten job description is that you're going to be demolishing things you'll have to pull out buildings that are dangerous or that are going to be precarious to human lives or buildings there have their integrity compromised if you are a planter or an agric person the unwritten job description is that you'll be pulling out stuff or putting things as well so life is a two-way game relationships are a two-way street give and take going and coming there's nothing like going and not coming back when when you book an outdoor Journey you should be ready to book the return trip as well so if you are planting good crops you should be ready to weed the tears you should be ready to take out the plants that are going to kill or um take out of the nutrients of your crops so expectations shouldn't be just positive no we'll learn even more from the bad and nasty experiences if I remember quite all right my mom wasn't always sweet with me in fact when she raised her voice at me I think I learned a lot from those things that made her angry because the first thing we learned to do in life is what not to do and if we can learn enough of what not to do then maybe we are safe also think about the um planting that I talked about if the crop has enough nutrient and doesn't have to compete with so much so much tears or so much so many um crops so many read then it's able to grow without any stress and without in with enough nutrients so maybe the first thing we need to learn is what not to have with us we need to put things in their places which means the computer has its place it is not a replacement for human communication or human relationships because to be honest families are stressed children are depressed can you beat it do you want to know the number of kids that are going to the hospital because of stressed stress um based diseases we've got add we've got ADHD it is unbelievable a generation that is being put out because of computers I think we all need to wake up and pay attention before like those films that we watch the computers take over and do not listen to us anymore we're getting to that Brink because already there's a there's a there are human beings that have been changed their thought processes have been tampered with and hampered right now they don't reason like human beings anymore seriously the expect perfect from imperfect creatures come on people let's wake up let's put the computer in its place and live our lives again I hope we can be happy again now Jim be happy Live Love