Why Chinese Men Are Built Different!

are Chinese men actually built different this American woman who just got to Red notes seems to think so let's play the first half of this clip the men in China are built different tell me why I've been on Seung Shu and they're sliding in my DMs and instead of sending me some stupid like a dickpic or a vulgar message they're like good morning how are you what's it like in America and then I'll tell them and they're like wow that's amazing thanks and then I never hear from them again I posted something the other day asking for advice on how Chinese medicine could help me with my param menopause symptoms and do you know I had a couple of men comment on it and say hi I'm a man and I can't have an opinion on this but I really hope you find the answers that you're looking for what did a man just admit that he can't have an opinion on a woman's body I'm shth all right so um yeah I mean basically what I think she's saying is essentially like hey there's these random Chinese male nisin who are leaving comments and they just seem to be helpful and overall non-aggressive and just very pleasant people to share this Internet space with you know and I'm really not surprised because Chinese men definitely do have this stereotype whether it's Chinese men in America or are still Chinese men in China where the overall uh stereotype of being nicer Kinder uh reliable men um maybe they'll hold down the job maybe they will cook a little bit more for you they're not as traditionally patriarchal and not as entitled which I'm going to explain why that stereotype exists and you know what people generally think about it listen as a Chinese guy I have to admit like I think that I don't know if I'm nicer than other guys but I definitely have heard that before in the dating realm you know but on the flip side we know there's a slight negative connotation to it where maybe Chinese men also on the flip side get called pushovers or they're soft or maybe they don't they're not as big uh players and they don't get enough women depending on who you are and what you want out of life that could be a positive or A negative okay so anyways I guess my question is if Chinese men in China act the way and have the similar stereotypes as Chinese American guys in the dating Market or how we interact with women or how we treat women then it must be in our culture right and what other things about our culture that might lead to this stereotype again stereotypes are not all true and they're definitely not 100% true but there's usually a shred of Truth in there or they wouldn't exist so we're going to talk about it please hit that like button check out other episodes of the hot pop boys I will show the rest of her Tik Tok after I get into this so generally I think these are the reasons why a lot of Chinese men on rednote AKA Shia hong shu are not leaving any sort of bad or negative comments um one I think a lot of Chinese men and these are mostly all Chinese men because this is a Chinese app and it's mostly only used in China um uh or it's all in Chinese I should say so maybe it's not just Chinese men in China it's also Chinese men in Malaysia or Indonesia or the Philippines but it's usually a high level of Chinese speakers right um a lot of Chinese men are just excited to be conversing with an American woman who's being nice you know so it's just like a fun thing for them to do is to just leave a comment back and forth and just wish them a happy day you know um also there is already strong censorship and language on shaung Su as we know like it's not an Instagram and it's definitely not like you know it is a more wholesome PG PG-13 maybe app at most but essentially you know you can bet that if you're sending a deak pick a penis photo to a woman that like xiin Ping's censorship team is going to see it so just you don't want to do that there it's just not really in the culture it's not really promoted it's not something obviously in America is like hey bro if you're trying to get her attention send her the send her the photo you know what I mean but it's um yeah that's more in a way acceptable in America although it's still considered rude but anyways um here are the cultural reasons why I think Chinese men are considered nicer now maybe some people out there have dated a toxic Chinese guy I'm not saying there aren't toxic Chinese guys but you know the stereotypes of Chinese men and Chinese boyfriends and husbands it's more positive as far as husband material now we're going to get into it if that plays in our favor for uh you know the fun guy or the bad boy but definitely husband material wise Chinese guys do have that reputation I've heard it a lot anyways um couple reasons why Chinese men who obtain I guess keep Chinese culture might be considered more Kinder is uh strong work ethic and ability to hold down a job um that like in in Chinese men a lot of there are a lot of Chinese business owners but I would say Chinese men aren't known for taking crazy risks um you know they kind of take the safe route so they're reliable they'll hold down the job they have some financial means um and that generally means they're more long-term thinking which makes them better husband material number two strong family values which if you have strong family values and you value the family structure then obviously you're going to value a wife at least structurally you know what I mean and you're going to have to respect them uh number three I don't think Chinese men traditionally are taught that being super aggressive or grabby with women really gets them anything you know what I mean and I'm going to get into the deep cultural aspects of that but overall even of the Chinese American guys that I know that you know I've heard plenty of you know women say like oh Chinese guys seem to be the nicest right now does it have its drawbacks we're going to talk about it um another reason is very reliable helpful knowledgeable obviously there is a culture of education and academics in Chinese culture and you know a strong culture of achievement that is absolutely also applied to the Chinese women and Chinese men both sides right that's why there's so many educated Chinese people and they go kind of go the institutional route you know uh test taking is a long ancient Chinese like uh uh tradition so like they've been doing the ancient scantrons whatever that was during the you know the dynastic um uh test to get into the Royal Court uh work under the emperor like that that has been around for thousands of years by the way um and overall I would say that Chinese men are considered to be or at least behave outwardly less entitled and traditionally patriarchal towards women now what I mean by this by the way I'm not going to go on diss other Asian guys because I think that because what I'm what I am saying though is that you have to think about it this way just hang with me there is a lower woman to male ratio in China okay so if there's more men than women then maybe men are more grateful for women right okay so that's one two you know Japan and Korea and especially Japan do is more if they're coming out of this age but they're still more based on a feudal kind of Samurai gisha culture where like women have set roles and you know um as you know if if you watch the show Shogun right that is pretty historically accurate and really in China aside from you know there was concubines but really aside from like the top Emperor like really I don't think it was as prevalent and even if it was now we're going to say modern China with the CCP and the communism although there was a lot of you know bad things that came with that one of the things was it did equalize men and women a lot and it told and it pushed women into education and to work just as hard as men you know in and to be equals in that way also within ancient Chinese culture there are a lot of prominent female figures whether you're talking about the first Empress of China um even the folklore of Mulan where this this girl is able to save China you know what I mean like there's there is is very prominent strong historical Chinese women figure so it's kind of deep within the culture and also on a more modern sense if you know Chinese Americans and no Chinese people really I don't think the family is really stopping like for example the daughters or the sons from dating out as you can see like we all know like a lot of Chinese women who who marry non-chinese or non-asians and they're very open-minded which is fine uh you know love who you want to love but that's how we're raised you know in our families it's not solely about like hey you have to date another Chinese person and reproduce more Chinese people because there is not enough Chinese babies no there is enough Chinese babies absolutely like so and there's not like this scarcity of Chinese people so that's why I don't think a lot of Chinese men and women feel the need to mate with other Chinese people solely they're just like yeah well you know like there are so many of all different types uh there will always be a surplus of Chinese people you know Chinese population um but yeah so also yeah I mean you know Chinese women are taught to be educated work hard themselves achieve a lot you know and they uh more or less are you know kind of get to date who they date they're not it's not as pressurized as you know maybe some other cultures are um to marry someone of the same exact like ethn no religious lineage you know what I mean um anyways uh let me know what you think about those reasons but I'm going to play the second half of her Tik Tok where she calls out passport Bros play the clip you know the men in this country could really learn something from Chinese men because when I'm in China I get respect you know I think these passport Bros got something here now hear me out hear me out instead of going overseas and finding a traditional woman they could go overse sees and find a traditional man and then learn how to be a man from him just take 5 10 minutes off the podcast and take some notes oh how do people feel about this you know um yeah she's getting a little sassy at the end of the video I don't know the rest of her video so I'm just basing this girl uh sinusoid off of uh this video but yeah I mean listen what she's feeling again Falls in line with what a lot of people say but the thing I would say about her when she said why don't passport Bros go to China find a traditional man and learn from them I thought that was a funny way to say things when she could have just said hey ladies why don't you go to China and find a traditional man and marry him so my question of sinusoid would be this lady is like do you actually find Chinese men more attractive because you know that a lot of Chinese men are raised this way or is it that you just wish American men would kind of shape up their act and calm down and get less aggressive and get less toxic you know what I mean um which one is it are Chinese men more attractive mates or not you know also you know there's a lot of nice people in China you know uh but anyways let's get into the comment section real quick this guy says I think the point is passport Bros would rather not deal with Western women this video is probably a good example of the types of women they are avoiding you know uh uh I think some people watching would like to date her and some people wouldn't but anyways uh I think she made a fair point uh the next one is it's crazy I have so many short conversations nothing like on Tik Tok no weird question or picks or asking for pictures just small talk about food and traveling in cats wow um it's funny that a lot of people are comparing the Tik Tok comment section to uh the Shia hong shu section but I'll tell you this Tik Tok is worldwide and and everybody speaks English so you don't know where these accounts are they might be from America I don't want to blame all the weird Tik Tok comments on American men you know what I mean like it could be coming from any country to be honest um just because everybody kind of speaks English to uh this level but I just think it's funny because like a Creator who's making a video is thinking about how to get the most engagement and then the person who just watched the video and is about to comment is also thinking how do I get the most engagement on my comment so now you just have double the engagement so there's just a lot of weird comments anyways um some uh a girl said Yes asiia Men wrote me I said I am not looking for a relationship he said I respect that and I hope you will heal and don't give up on happiness it was very nice that's so funny sometimes I say the same thing when I get rejected by a girl by the way I'm single now um but yeah uh you know just like hey I wish you the best that's fine it's not me it's going to be someone else try not to be sour about it don't be bitter about it you know it's better to put those kind of Vibes out there Kimberly fam said no literally because I was clubbing in Singapore I got invited to a table and the guys were chitchatting with me but they were so respectful and harmless and I never felt harassed or in danger now that's good that they were respectful 100% as men should be um one thing is like sometimes when a girl says that a guy is harmless is that overall 100% a good thing yeah I mean you don't want a guy who's harmful or dangerous right but sometimes let's be honest we know that a lot of women are attracted to the bad boy or the Bad Boy energy at some point in their life maybe they don't want to marry the guy maybe they don't want to reproduce with the guy but I'm just saying as nice as Chinese guys are considered which is a good thing you have to understand there's also maybe a on the on the extreme end if they're too nice then they're too harmless and they're not masculine enough or cool enough or whatever you know don't have enough testosterone or whatever you know what I mean like that's what people some say some people say anyways this uh I think it's a Chinese guy who chimed in he said we respect women sometimes being misunderstood by foreigners to be afraid of our wife or woman though and it's an interesting point because I think he's trying to say he's like hey we respect women but don't get us wrong we're not scared of women okay but we respect them I think that's a great place to be I think that's a great place to be um uh someone said yeah they're also so poetic and yeah honestly the Chinese language is poetic um especially when you like kind of translate it to English because it's just it's just not the same structure as English trust me English is very literal and straight which is great for communication but for poetry Chinese is amazing uh because each character like has its own meaning essentially almost anyways in conclusion everybody I mean what do you think about this video This American lady talking about how Chinese men are built differently doesn't mean she's more attracted to Chinese men maybe maybe maybe if you're a Chinese American guy you want to hit her up you're you're around her town you know and get to know her be respectful you know maybe she'll consider you now more or uh maybe she's not your type I don't know but um yeah I guess like there's just a pro and a con to everything but overall I would say the stereotypes stereotypes of Chinese men in the dating Market as far as how they treat women generally is considered positive for husband material hence why I do hear for example like I've noticed a lot of Korean women at least maybe in New York but they're like being told that Chinese men make good husbands because they're nice like if you want if you know if your preference is to have another East Asian guy Chinese culturally are somewhat similar they're going to be nice they might cook a little bit more blah blah blah whatever that's is it true or not you tell me so anyways guys let me know what you think about this woman's Tik Tok sinusoid uh did she make a strong point you know I'm sure there's some bad Chinese guys out there I know there is but it's all generalizations right anyways let me know what you think in the comments down below and until next time everybody I'm out peace