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generation of kids who can't really not miss no bus. Do you have bus money? >> Because then you you can go rap. [Music] Come back six. Wake me and your child won't make me wonder who you playing with. Makes me wonder who you >> previously on the reality of Maine. All right, we got two bottles. When you're trying to fry some rice up, you should use like day old or a few days old rice. And I should have made this days ago and I did not. >> Can y'all stop yelling? >> Today is a better day cuz day one had me. Hey to all my new bell bays. What's good, girl? What's up? Make sure um that you ring the doorbell because if you have not subscribed and you have not rang the doorbell, then you're not a what? Belle bae, y'all. Y'all are catching on. Y'all are catching on. Who sent you for real? Was it an exfriend? Craps. I'm not going to talk about how I'm how I'm drinking Pepsi here. Talk about I'm trying I'm trying my hardest to get over this addiction that I have. I really am. But it's it's crimpling me. It's it's it's it's every time I look at it in the in the aisle, it whispers to me. And I said, "Yes, daddy. And then I caress him and I put him in my cart. I do. I do. I indulge every time. It's I It makes me weak and amazed. I don't know what it is. The crack. Do they put crack? Is crack in the ingredients? It's cocaine sugar. Mhm. Caffeine. Mhm. It's crack. >> It's definitely crack. Sugar cane cane. Yes. Yes. They're telling us without telling us, right? >> What did you think? We are getting >> girl. Not Kane's chicken. Are you hungry? I'm cooking. I promise I'm cook. She ate lunch. I swear she did. Any of y'all toddlers eat 24/7? Like she will not stop. She snacks. She eats. She snacks. Snack twice and then she eat again. So, Mimi is getting her hair dead. Don't know when, don't know how, don't know what's going on. Wanted to wear her hair out and all this stuff, but I really honestly with this Houston heat, the humidity, the way it laughs at Africanamean [Music] hair texture. I just really don't want to deal with that. More so closer to like when it gets colder, so then we can really like do some things, you know, because it is last minute. I'm trying to figure out what hairstyle Oh god, this week, this is like hell week. I swear this is like the week before school. This is like crunch time. This is like we're in crisis. We're in active crisis as parents and we're trying to get make sure everything is hit. Everything is done. I did all the paperwork and stuff. So Minnie is officially going to middle school. Oh my goodness. A part of me almost took them out. A part of Hold up. A part of me almost took them out and either a homeschooled them. I told y'all online school, home school, or I could put them in the charter school. The charter school right across the street from where we live and it goes up to 8th grade. Okay? Which means they would been in the same school. Now they're two separate schools, two separate buses, two separate times that they go to school and that they get home school. My babies are growing up, guys. It's just so hard on me looking at them because in my eyes they still little babies and I'm like now I understand how when you know your parents don't sometimes treat you like kids it's like it's hard cuz it's like I remember you when you needed your ass like Mhm. You [ __ ] on yourself. I ain't judged. >> I ain't judged. I just did what needed to be done. I'm just saying you [ __ ] it all up your back one time. Not pointing any fingers, B. Not pointing any fingers. I'm just saying some of y'all ingested your [ __ ] Not I, not me. It wasn't me, though. So, that's that's none of my business. Can't relate. Um, but anyh who, it's just crazy to me watching them grow like weeds and then sprouting into flowers like like caterpillars destroying gardens and then and then growing into beautiful butterflies. It's just sickening. It makes my stomach. I get bubble guts just thinking about it. I just I really I can't I don't think I'm I don't think I'm I didn't think this through. when when I sat and planned Mimi and I planned my life and I planned my kids minus London she wasn't planning she said hello that was a time but when I planned my kids in general just I knew I was going to have kids and my future and I just didn't plan on them getting older does that make sense I just did not plan on them growing up like Mimi is going to be 12 in October I know I keep saying this I keep trying to talk myself through Like I have to say it out loud to talk myself through the chaos because it is just in my brain can't wrap around it. Like they're literally just little independent beings. Like it's crazy. I'm going to try to get Mimi this school year to kind of like get herself together more in the morning cuz Mimi's so slow. I have to get up and nitpick and all this stuff. And with all the different schedules that's going to be going on this year. Last year, I thought it was hard, but this year with so many different schedules, like I'm gonna have to get up and stay up. Usually, I take a nap. I would get up at 6:00 in the morning, get them ready for school, take a nap, then wake up with Milan around like 10:00. I don't even think I'm going to have a nap sesh. Like, I don't think I'm have time for naps. I might have like an hour of nap time. I don't know. But we'll see. Hopefully, I can get Mimi into like the swing of things. You know what I'm saying? Get that fear in her heart. Y'all know that fear we had of missing the bus? I'm I'm I'm trying to instill that type of that type of worry up in here, up and through here. So hopefully I can get that. I don't know. I have to like, you know, muster all of the Y'all know I talk to the ancestors. All the ancestrial power within me. Get my get my voice together. You beg not. No. I need I think I need a little bit more bass. Right. Right. Be You bet not. Should I grit my teeth? My mom used to She used to flare her nostrils and grit her teeth and then lean. You got to lean. Huh? Huh? You missed the bus. You better not ever miss their bus again. What would happen if you missed another bus? Well, the wheels on your bus going to go round and round when I whoop y'all. Was that too Was that too harsh? Cuz y'all know these new kids, these new generation of kids, you can't really be too harsh on them. You know what I'm saying? They don't really They be real sensitive. Like they look at my kids look at me like I'm I'm I'm a two-headed monster when I start cussing and acting and acting crazy. They be appalled. Like these new kids have feelings. We didn't have feelings about bays when we were younger. We were what? Seen but not heard. These new kids be be heard. They be speaking. They be telling us a thing or two. And I just don't think it's fair. I really don't. I don't know what are we soft. It was cuz they was too hard on us. That's what it was. They made us weak cuz they was too hard on us. So now I'm secondg guessing myself when all I need to do is just put a little Hold on. Let me get a spatula. Maybe that'll help. Hold on. [Music] You better not miss no bus. Not up in this house. Okay. We don't miss bus right here. Do you have bus money? Because then you you could go ride. No, that don't make sense. That don't make sense because she wouldn't want to have bus money cuz she wouldn't want to ride the public bus. So that I would have to have the bus money. Okay, hold on. Hold on. You know what happens when you miss the bus? >> You have to walk to school. Yeah. Cuz back in my day, I walked rain, sle, snow, and hell. Through hell. I did. I walked through the the belly of the beast to get to school. And if you miss another bus, you going you going to feel you you I don't think I have an enemy that I really don't. I think I'm going to get in the car. I think I'm going to I think I'm going to drive her to school and then I think I'm going to be tired and then I think I'm going to be frustrated and I think I'm going to just have a meltdown. I think I'm going to talk to y'all. Okay, I'mma talk to y'all. We going to talk through it. Okay, Fred, because I really think that I'm going to end up stopping at McDonald's and we going to end up having a little breakfast, little me time, little mini me time. We might grab coffee on the way to school. She may miss a class or two, but that's okay cuz her mama signed her in. And now I'mma tell her. And if anybody have a problem, they could call. Why are they calling you? I'm supposed to be sleep. No, they can't. We going to work on it. We going to work on it. Okay. Not today. We'll We'll figure it out. I'll let y'all know. >> Well, how did we end up in the grocery store? Or you may ask. [Music] How the hell did you buy chocolate this morning? What is this? >> I don't like cupcake. >> Oh, yeah. I like cupcakes. Did you get them? >> No. >> I'm done with that. >> Okay. >> Anyway, check. [Music] >> So, we're in the grocery store because I realized that I don't have any scallions. I don't have any So, I need to get in place. Where did your pizza [Music] We be getting so loud. So damn proud. Lay your head down. Turn the lights real low. I want you to say [Music] go there. Go by the by the thing. I told you. I told you. [Music] I'm not super fast. >> Uhuh. Uh-uh. Let's go. Let's go. >> Right here. [Music] Down. Don't be surprised, baby. It's just me. Don't be surprised, boy. I s why I hypnotize you. Now you feel like you can fly off. [ __ ] all your free time. You don't need no time. That's you and me. >> One thing I do not understand and I will never understand as a parent. Yeah. Put your seat belt on. She loves to do that by herself. >> But one thing I do not understand as a parent is when people are like, "Oh, it's normal for people to leave or forget their kids in the back seat." I have never, even when they're infants and I didn't I couldn't hear them, you know, maybe they were asleep or something. They weren't making any sounds or something like that or whatever. Like even in the dead of sleep, I have never forgot my kids ever. Never ever and never ever will. Like I can understand how someone's mind can be so stressed in so many places, especially for fathers. I feel like because fathers may not always have their kids with them at all times, but I just know for me personally, it will never happen. Like I would never ever never ever forget my kids. Like I just can't like I know that I came with you in the car like and my kids make sure I I can't forget them. I'm I'm going say that they they they surely make sure whether it's arguing, throwing a fit, like going off the deep end, like asking for candy and snacks, girl 24/7. They make sure that they're seating her like I was saying earlier. But it's just crazy to me like just thinking about that, especially in the summer months when people leave their babies, kids in a car. There was this guy I was watching on I think it was a shave room. I don't remember. But he literally left his two kids. They were like two and three. He left his two kids strapped in car seats and in seat belts, which this one's trying to do. You hear in the background I'm struggling. Girl, I'm about to have to do it. But um to go into the mall to go into the mall, they have long sleeves on in the car in the heat, car off, sweating, crying, screaming in the parking lot while you was in the mall. And they said he was in the mall for 40 minutes. Like that's literally insane. But let me go. I got to go cook and fix her seat belt. Child see they'll never be forgotten. I'm let y'all know. [Music] [Applause] Don't let us right here. [Music] >> All right, y'all. So, we're about to start right now. I got the rice drying cuz you already know the situation that I am in, the dilemma that I'm in. And then I have some pinina colada I'm drinking. I'm going to lie. I'll show y'all. Hey y'all. Hi. >> What about >> What about to do? >> Yeah. >> What you about to do? >> I look at my business like Anyway, >> if you catch the live or if you caught the live. Okay, comment below. Replay gang. So, we're about to cook right now. I'm real irritated about this rice. Like, I'm trying to get my life, but I am slightly irritated. Ran to Randall's. We got the green onions and what else I get? Oh, soy sauce. I need to get the the little mix that I use. Hold on, y'all. We're going to be using Japanese barbecue sauce. We're using this. Y'all love it. They taste so good. You got potential. [Music] You got You You got potential. [Music] You got potential. You You got You had a few [ __ ] write it down for me. Tell me, baby, will you stop for me? Party holding it down for me. I know you're good in a hood, but a couple just me [Music] for me. One to make me feel lovely. You don't go where you think of me. I need to know for sure cuz you got potential. You got you you got potential. You got you you got potential.