i don't want my girl working a job

I don't want my girl working a job, not because I want control, but because I want her peace. I want her free. I want her to have the life most women pray for but never get. See, providing isn't just about money. It's about removing stress for the people you love. And if my woman has to wake up 6:00 a.m. every single day, go to her job, be completely drained by strangers, and get home to me, what's the point of me being in her life? If I'm with you, you're not supposed to age twice as fast because you are overwork. You're supposed to glow up because you're being cared for. Now, the internet hears that and they're like, "Oh, so you want it in the kitchen?" No, I want her to have the freedom to choose whatever she wants to do. If she wants to work on a passion project, great. If she wants to start a brand, amazing. If she just wants to stay home and create a better life for us, even better. The point is, she's not forced to do anything for survival. It's funny how when a man says he wants to protect and provide, he's seen as controlling. When a woman says she wants a man to make six figures, drive a nice car, and spoil her, that's just simply having standards. So, here's my standard. If you're my girl, you're not going to work a job you hate. Period. A man, let me be real with you. If you want your woman to have that life, you have to level up. No woman should trust a man to lead if he's not able to lead himself. You can't preach about protect and provide if you're still splitting the bill. become so capable that her biggest stress is picking a restaurant. And for women who hear this, understand not every man who is trying to provide is trying to control you. Some of us just know what it feels like to see someone we love burn out and we refuse to let that happen. The right man doesn't buy you freedom. He builds a life where freedom is a default.