Curvy Girl Goes On Dating Show To Find Love, This Happens Next

What's going on ladies and gents your boy Gamma back with the lovely Juju pop the balloon or Yes, ma'am ladies and gents We hope that happens today. Yeah, if it doesn't you still welcome to come on in you gonna have fun regardless Pop the balloon or find lover. What do you think love mountain edition? You know so one clown that mountain if I love today Look I hope they do, you know, we hopeful over here We forever hope Romantic all of that, but I don't know we gonna have to find out together. Let's go. Let's go. Let's get it And oh, don't forget though Just cuz we haven't been saying that you still got to support us like the video subscribe Salute salute to all of you that do that every video and if you haven't go ahead and do it There we go. Let's have fun. Let's get it Hello She said hi boys Okay You're fine. Let's start with you giving them your name your age and your occupation. I'm Chrissy. I'm 41 and I'm a salad And Chrissy, what are some green flags and dating you? Green flags for me or red flags. No, no, I mean flags and dating you like all like I mean Okay Yeah, the thing about she's stolen she like What color you said green or was it black? Like wait, what she's thinking. She's like, what why would somebody want to do? We just playing we don't know nothing yet though. So let's hope it's just jokes. Let's get it. I'm a go-getter. I'm Very affectionate I'm a homebody. Okay I cook very well So I cook very well, okay, and I like to keep a clean house, I'm very homely And I actually love love so that's my thing that's my love language You see this is what doing the most will get you in trouble That's my love language Everything about love is me Whenever we hear this right at first, it feels good. You know, we walk alone, but we keep hearing it It's like Jack was a Jack Nicholson comes in Yeah Let's go in the cellar it's about to get real let's watch and see what happens And what is a fun fact about you? I'm funny You know people say I should be a stand-up I'm really funny. No, I'm always Making people laugh and stuff like that. Okay. What is your love path? I'm free spirit respiratory butterfly All right. There you go. There you go a oh it's time for the first Impressions, let's get to it Wow No, no, no, they'd be doing it Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't sit on to by the way, you know the shade and the husband yeah love path, right Yes, the thing they're doing is similar to like, you know, I guess you could say your love language It's just a little test. They have a website Yeah, help you find out what kind of love do you want? Do you need and do you express exactly? To know you need to know what type of love languages Talks to you, you know, cuz then you get in a relationship and it's like you expect the person to mind read you Yes, and when they're falling short of it It's like out the door when it's just all it comes down to is simply learning each other That's it. And then that love that you have for that person will compel you to talk their love language. So love Knowledge puffs up but love bills. Yeah, so when you got love you gonna grow together, man So with that said first impression 15 seconds or less. This is what we do here in case you're new here We give our initial take on the feature date and guess Yeah, man. So, um, listen, she's 41. Let's go right to it. She's 41 Stylist, right? She loves love I'm I'm suspicious that yeah, I don't want to sound negative Not because of anything negative it's just the way she's presenting, you know, she's saying a lot, you know You say too much of love love love love love usually covering something. That's it So 15 seconds or less other than that, though. Let me just say this though other than that, you know, she looks decent And she's presenting, you know as a calm collective woman. It's just a few of those things that threw me off 15 seconds or less Juju. What is your initial take on this lovely woman? Let's get it. Okay I know Okay, she has like a she has her own style, right? She's 41. Yeah overall. She looks good voluptuous. It's it's if it's anyone's cup of tea energy, you know Still trying to figure it out question. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I think that's what it is. There's nothing definitive No, so that's why it's hard for us to express was we know what we taking on and help us out Drop your initial take especially those didn't like the comment more than once let us know right now and then halfway in the video Let's see if it's still the same. So that's all there's no judgment of the negative We just say the way she's presenting. We ain't quite sure where she going just yet. That's all So let us know if you agree and uh, let's get to it. Okay? Well, you have no pop balloons and you are able to ask the gentleman a question Um, so starting here with you Okay, um Do you guys believe in going 50-50 or you're a provider? or You're a bum Let's start with your name your age and your occupation. Oh, my name is theory some 42 I'm an insurance adjuster and I'm an actor as well I'm gonna say I'm not a 50-50 guy. I go with what's called for if you with me and I have to go full freight That's what I'm gonna do We can grow together You know and go 50-50. So both everybody's okay. We can do that as well. So there's no confusion about anything as well, but some people get an illusion of Somebody supposed to take care of him. Oh, and that's what messed up everything and throws the whole balance off. Yes So as long as that's understood We in a good place Did not expect that Not like any part of that it was too much Right there I Supposed to pop your homie right there. Look at this. Look at how you took the thing off his mouth after that pop. Watch this right there Okay, okay Sorry, all right Why did you pop this balloon? Because I feel a man should want to provide There's this shouldn't be a situation where it's a option You know if you want me you should want to look out for me because that's what you are And if you're not like that, then you're not my type Because I don't want to have to raise the man I want a man already to be a manly man And just like I did I had a dad I got and I got this from my dad I got you and just like I stated it goes by where we are and what we have in our relationship But we go together. Yeah, but I'm just saying I have sex with you. We go together. Oh So wait, just like I stated if we're together and I have to be the provider and everything But just like I stated some women get it too far that somebody's supposed to take care of them You are supposed to take care of me if you want me, that's what we're supposed to want each other, baby We do that's why yeah, that's what it's a me me me coming from you. It's a lot of me me me But I got I respect it, too Okay We're gonna go with the guys that still have the remaining balloons and it's hardcore ain't it Juju They the guys are not feeling that like a woman's expectation of you Wanting to provide Wow, that is just sending them somewhere Somewhere and I want to know where we want to know y'all help us out. I know I'm awesome for now Yeah, I know. Let's get it. That's your question. Okay All right. The question is what I go 5050 or do I go 5050? Yeah It's about what you want to do. So it's two options, right? So 5050 for me don't mean 5050 like we split everything ahead for me. This just means you got an income I got an income our income is for the household That's one option if you want a traditional set up where a man take care of thing. I'll do that But here's the question you got to ask yourself It's 70k. I'm gonna teach you 70k enough for you to live off of You're willing to upgrade that and I can help you do that. It's like you were saying you want to do Cybersecurity right and help you do that, you know So if you're willing to not just stay at 70,000 because that's being stagnant Yeah, for sure If you say hey, I want to upgrade and make 150 or 200 or 300 thousand I just need a man that's willing to want to go further. There's 70,000 I don't want you to stay at 70,000 for sure. I don't upgrade to more. I got a question one question My money Your money is your money. Wait, hold on man. I'm not gonna let him get away with that I did she treat and they both agree in like 70 K is minimum wage or something like that As long as you ain't in Cali or Miami Then it might be minimum wage no before I just you know It just sounds like she does have that magic number in mind in a certain lifestyle Put that out right because she was quick to be like as long as you don't stay there 300,000 a year. That's not that's not a normal expectation. It's not seriously A lot of people don't even see six figures again much less 300,000 what like yeah, we need like a census update. I need to read something. There's minimum wage six figures Spend like everybody out here balling IG is doing something on our psyche and I meant to He's got to stop believing the IG photos, man No, I'm just taking it all in because I really want to hear the guys out. Yeah, and her as well So I just want to see why is it going left? Okay, really? Drop your comments. Keep us keep us posted Yeah, yeah, it's a lot of stuff happening. I'm paying closer attention than realizing. It's why a lot of people sing my money is The house money. What is what is your money to you? My money is going to help make the house beautiful My house my money is gonna help if you need my money to keep it going You know, it's your money for the house is both our money for the house, okay The gallery my name is vaderian, I'm 33 years old. I'm a CDL drum He says CDL driver I don't really have a question right now. Oh Are you a 50-50 I are you believe in being a provider a manly man or oh, yeah You're a bomb the woman needs to provide as well. I don't really believe in that 50-50 Uh, I believe it's just a hundred hundred but I am provider I do believe in that you know what I mean? But as long as you have that But I should say that significant other, you know, if times come short if it's you know for that reason then yeah Your name your aging occupation, my name is Ray Carlton, I'm 44 and I'm a nurse in a real estate agent Yes, ma'am as far as your question I don't believe that any man doesn't want to provide for the woman I think that when a woman man says that he wants to do 50-50 or something like that He doesn't believe he can make the money But baby, I got the skills to pay the bills Hit it with the baby he did that Aiming at everyone else down the line He did the most He's not doing he did it and he's doing and he's doing it so smooth, right? Right, you don't even see it coming It Your name your aging occupation Calvin is 47 And why'd you got a minute I'm just I'm like If you in a relationship with somebody to go both ways It's just more like Don't put all the pressure on just one person because relationship take for two people to be in it. Mm-hmm and if There's more on one person and it's more of a it could be more of a struggle You know I'm saying it's a lot pop because all that 50-50. I'm a thousand thousand So if I'm with you, I'm with you, but I'm just tired of hearing this stuff Okay Yeah, I'm tired too Basin My taxes just to go on a date I'm with him like if you really coming with your whole self Yeah, then you ain't even worried about like, you know, but what if I run out of gas and what if I did? No, we together. I got you like I'm with him though, man Sometimes it's annoying even though we do got to communicate and understand each other Yeah, when you keep reaching this point where everything seems so structured Yeah, you're dealing with someone who's not operating with that compassionate love, you know, I mean they sitting up there like waiting to cancel you out or cross you up or Check you off as a good boy or good girl. That's not fun at that point, man. Yeah, you know, it's interesting I want to know where that 50-50 how that 50-50 50-50 came about It's just podcast discussions if you want me to be real man based on how it came out like five plus years ago It just as love and dating became more prominently talked about on the online Yeah started to hear that, you know, like over the table. I am the table 50-50 What are you bringing in this and that before that? I would say that. Um, you you have people who had that mindset Yeah, it just wasn't as prominent like narcissism took over. Yo, I keep saying that as either you compassion Narcissistic you're gonna lean on one side or the other Doesn't matter what you believe in how you look your skin tone your height none of that stuff is relevant It's your spirit your spirit So you gotta be careful who you associate with don't fall for the physical Don't be like we all the same cuz you know, what kind of spirit do they have? Because if they don't have that spirit Yeah, they may be your worst enemy even looking exactly like you What do you think she's leaning on though, do you think based off of what she has expressed Do you think she's leaning more on I would prefer someone to take care of me Say that, you know, she grew up with a dad in the house, right mom dad both So she I believe both but um, that's what she saw as an example of someone taking care of her, right? So there's nothing wrong with that by the way, and also that is a love language Receiving gifts. Yeah, there are people who process love and you're raised with that and they're not materialistic nor are they Mercenaries or gold? No, they just genuinely have been conditioned. You know what? Like when somebody loves you, they buy you something each. They're thinking of you. It's thoughtful. So that is the thing Yeah, so it's it's interesting because I'm I'm thinking about the whole 5050 thing And the reason why I asked that like where how how did that even come about? I could see perhaps like more in the women's side Oh, yeah, like they probably didn't want that like look like I have to get 50 of my own like they want someone to take care of them fully and Specifically the ones that are as you stated like the missionary the ones Don't have compassion again, yeah, they're just more like I'm not about that I want you to take care of me and my money's my money. So that's what I was gonna say Yeah, when I brought up like for some people receiving gifts is a love language, right for those people They still have compassion a lot of people Receiving gifts is their love language. Yeah, but they do bring something to the table, you know In other words, they're not taking advantage of someone they're contributing to that household, right? They're contributing to the stability of whatever it is that person and their partner building. That's fine What's not fun is people who are pushing for the man to be Traditional traditional while they are every bit of a modernized woman like, you know, I'm independent I don't need no man, but when they get a man they want the man to do it Yeah, you know take care of bills and mortgage and take care of me and provide and protect when it comes to me Leave me alone with all that feminist stuff. Leave me alone with being soft and that's what is creating chaos And then also, you know, sometimes it's flip. Yeah, the guy wants a very traditional woman, right? Yeah in the streets, right as a lane with anything in there on traditional. Yeah, not traditional about that So that's it man, but with her overall, I don't I don't think she's that where she's like Yeah, you know what? Let's find out. Let's find. I just feel like she probably needed to like state her case more clear No, no, she's not giving that street vibe like she's in the streets is what you're saying. Yeah. No No, I'm not trying to push that out. No, no, right, right. I'm just joking about that, but she is You know what? Play the video occupation Steph Okay, and I'm a chef. Mm-hmm. I pop because You don't make sense, but I ain't gonna lie to you good Gosh, it's about 50 50 and you had a dad and you're like, we ain't your daddy You gotta understand your daddy gonna be 30 years older than us. We're not going for it You gonna break bread like Jesus said it get on there about your business good Simply did we ain't finna keep playing like a man should do 50% for a woman who has a dad who don't have a dad We got I got six kids. I'm tea. So anybody don't like But what I'm saying is providing is more for a man's side, right So why won't you accept something that you can't provide? You just told him I ain't here Hit money for the house. It is on this Not over here My foundation not built. So you ain't coming with nothing and pitching me. Okay, then I do 50 50 on you Do you yeah, I look like a lame man. I like a light. It's gonna happen They don't they don't matter but you made it about providing for a man 50 50 So you want to provide 20 and I gotta provide a I want to provide what I'm And a manly man knows my what I do and he's gonna do what he do I don't want to have to teach you to do it. You either do it or don't you and it's cool You you you looking for a bear pepper, right? Ain't nobody great. I deal with nothing but manly men. Yeah my whole life. I was married See guys now y'all see why we push the psychology so much That you really need to understand like these are the wars you would avoid Yeah, senseless arguments and talk and all that Understand the different type of spirits that out there if you want traditional you have to be traditional if you want Modern find someone who's already like that So you won't like she said you won't have to teach and explain and yeah This is how it looks when you got to do that. These are these Individuals are on two Completely different. Yeah wavelengths levels. Oh, dare I say planets, right? I'm glad to say is like let's keep a move because it sound like anybody start hurling in sauce and scream and you supposed to Be on the love show. Yeah, this is why we say it's not funny. We're not putting people down You really do got to learn about who you are Psychologically, yeah, even as little even as simple as introvert extrovert So this way you can stop misjudging misreading people understand your archetype Understand what spirit is you like what make what moves me? Am I vindictive? Yeah, you know, am I somebody who's a strategist? Am I just out here trying to figure out life? Anyway, that's all I got to say about that. Yeah. No, you're right. You have to know because Understanding having that psychological understanding you'll be able to tell pretty quickly like if someone is on your wavelength Right on on your same level and listen Everyone is on different levels different Phases of their journey, right? So with him clearly he said he has six kids, right? He's even getting mad at like 50-50 Agitated with the thought of like you want me to be a provider a responsible one as a father figure I'm a father of six. I don't got time to father you see that's the energy. There you go. She's like, no, I'm just See you gotta really get to that point so you like do you say you don't waste time? Yeah, you just be like and it's not about being better or worse. No, you just know where you are What stage and what point what stage of phase you are? Once you understand that it like becomes so much easy to navigate through and you know, I mean, all right, man Let's run it out. Don't she will um, she's you know, let's see how this plays out Not divorce, oh She said I was married before I know what I want and he was like, oh, yeah, and you divorce see and she said Yeah, she said something about um, like at least I was mad, you know, I'm gonna play Yeah Yeah, there's security in the back No, let's see. I let's play it out. Let's play it out. Yeah my whole life. I was married Yeah, so this is what I was gonna say Despite his background and what he's been through. It's never cool to lose your cool when it comes to this type of stuff, man There's no need there's no justification. Like I was mad cuz she was trying to You bringing that energy to what to a place where you looking for love that says a lot about like, you know How uncontrollable you may be you can't control your emotions because somebody don't like your shirt So what let them not like your shirt and move on be thankful that they show that pettiness early on so you could not waste Your time when people get emotionally charged, that's never a good look. So yeah, I'm gonna say that to the guys to the women Please control your feelings man control yourself Otherwise you already gave a big obvious red flag as to why you might be single. All right, man, let's get it Not divorce. Okay, so again, um, I Understand you want that it's just like the sense of entitlement to it Um, I am in a position but I guess like for the settling in I have to dive deeper into your perspective about it But just surface level. I'm not with it because You know relationships it I feel like it can go either way Sometimes a man could do a hundred or sometimes you do 80 sometimes 70 just depends on Y'all situation and you go from there So if a man is in a situation where he makes a surplus of money, then of course But I think you should go about situation on the man and give him a little grace. Well, that's why you date And dating and when you date you get to know that about a person to know if we can move forward in a relationship Based on what we talk about. So if I'm talking to you about certain things and you tell me hey, I'm not I'm I'm an unemployed So then you should focus on working Yeah And set of a relationship right because you don't need to be unemployed talking about having a woman because they don't go I agree That's I'm saying so I just need a man has his priorities in order that gets the bond between man woman and child I don't want to have to break it down I Like that Yeah, yeah, she's making sense. She's making sense. I gotta give it to her. She's explaining. She's expounding more That's it. I'm gonna keep my mouth shut. I got you. There you go. Yeah, and I'm okay with it. No, yeah Okay Yeah, three balloons left. Okay, you have three remaining balloons. I'm gonna have them ask you a question. Okay, Marvin. I gotta ask question If I told you you couldn't wear that outside would you be okay with me as your man telling you what you can and can't Wear. Yes. I'm very submissive and I listen I'm on my healthy kick. So I'm no processed food. Mm-hmm. Nothing but the best. Yes All right Your question Can't think Give me You're like what time home Depot clothes No, that's why I said earlier she makes me laugh sometimes because of her face and how cut and dry she could be Forever waste everybody time. Let's go man. There's a post office closer. I gotta get that mail out the day My question is is that no now that we've got finances out the way As far as relaxing and you said you're a lover Yeah, love is a very beautiful thing it is especially not I enjoy it and have a good time in it and so How do you express it? Like if we're sitting at home Friday night Saturday night weekend, how do you express that? not just sexual right just The intimacy of it. Well, I watch my mom cater to my dad, you know So watching and having a dad and a mom in a home. I watch my mom. She would cook for my dad You know, she would even do pedicures for my dad And my dad loved that about her and that's what he told me, you know why he loved my mom so much, you know, so I Just like that, you know, and that's my thing. Like I'm a lover. I love love and I love to Love on my man I'm definitely a lover and I'm faithful and I'm submissive Lack because they want to run everything and they want to Be a man or alpha male and I'm not like that. Hey, yo, she said it y'all I ain't even gonna say nothing just applaud that. I'm sorry. That's it. She said it She did a woman said it. Yeah, I'm gonna have to run it back a little bit I'm gonna fellas like you already rock. Let it rock. It's rare. Listen to this. This is a major key right here. Watch this And I'm faithful and I'm submissive and that's something a lot of women lack because they want to run everything and they want to Be a man or alpha male and I'm not like that. I'm baby girl Yeah, so I like being a baby girl in a relationship. Yeah, even no matter how old I am. I like being a baby girl I Love that though. I'm not even mad it supports that Cohesiveness man, you want a manly man? Yeah, you're a womanly woman You see she she came in with that question that has left the majority men pop, you know popping She came in from a traditional perspective, right and Those who know no. Yeah for the most part they do You could pretty you could tell pretty quickly if someone who's talking about like, oh, you know I want someone to be the head or Those words if they were mad that those are trigger words for modern women They like I'm nothing and that is why in the beginning How she presented it it came off quickly as a lot of other women these days where it's like I just want a man who basically Spoils me splurges on me, you know who takes care of everything and I'm just left twiddling my fingers You know pretty and that's it, you know, take care of this Yeah of this arm piece and that's why I like towards like the middle She just started sharing her experiences with her mom her dad and now everything is clicking She gave a lot of context and she made sense. It was not like she's lying. You can understand why she's like that There you go, and so for the men the only advice I would give is just be patient ask very Specific questions to pull that or you know, if you feel like the woman is like question mark just ask questions That's it clarity. That's it. People are so much Assuming too much. They let the assumptions become facts, but it's only in their head not in reality one or two questions would have done it Yeah, it's gotta get to know people man Don't block your blessing the person you condemn. It might be the one person that can help you the most. Yeah, it's gotta pay attention No matter how old I am. I like being a baby girl So, okay, let's find out if he has his question How would you feel if he was dating, you know somebody younger than you I know I'm 33 you said you were 41 How would it be is it you know I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm young. I like to be active. You said you a lover You know I'm saying You already kind of you know, it seemed like you want to make sure that I'm handling stuff. Yeah, you know what I mean? While you're free spirit. I have like a really youthful Personality, you know, I'm not an old head just yet. You know, I still I'm still you know Fun and vibrant, you know, that's my disposition like I'm very fun and I like to laugh and I like to have fun. I'm spontaneous And I'm not sexually active until I'm in a relationship So I'm not promiscuous. Wow. I just like being with him So if I have a man and I'm all his do you think you lazy in bed or no? No I Think that's sort of unnecessary Bro, what are you looking for the shades? She like always Like you'll start the car late, let's get ready. They're like they don't wait too much How long you can go how long can you go Let's keep it going let's keep it going you want to rewind no, I know y'all can rewind that he acted up too much mileage You do have a pop balloon. Let's find out why you popped. Okay, why'd you pop? Man, she a beautiful woman, but I got I gotta be real. I'm cut out to play. Oh If I was looking for something for long term like you a beautiful woman. I'll hold you Trying to be nice, but how you present I've been I've been a man on two walls I've been a man. I'm trying to be right now and I've been a man that's in the world That I accept how you present and how you present will pull out this side of me that you wouldn't want You know I'm saying And so that's why I asked you about your clothes if I asked you to change the thing that you wear Would you be okay with it? And I would and I heard what you said about I respect so much what you said about, you know Respecting your temper and temper of God But at the same time the temper of God is more than just your temper is your mind and so with your mind I would have to ask why would you wear this when you know me and what high testosterone? That turns on the side of a man that you don't want from a man. You understand what I'm saying? Okay, I need a confident man. I need a man that Understands that I can wear poochie. Yeah. Okay, this is poochie honey. This is designer. This is YSL This is Chanel say something and I can wear designer outfit Yeah, being I put a top over it to kind of right not have it you Know like you beautiful. Listen, you beautiful over poochie gonna make I want the coochie But you don't want you don't want him to want your personal love. He can want the coochie, but if he makes it past the mind Okay, he can get the coochie It's just cuz I may present this way and I got you and that's the problem with me You did men like to judge a book by its cover instead of reading it I mean, but if it look like a sex story, I'm gonna think it's a sex story love Story and when you don't hit you're gonna know she's not easy And when I make you work for you're gonna know that it's worth working for see this. I'm a man or something's the last question Respectful. I love you, right? So I would I love you. It's a purpose for everything 10. Why would you present like this? What would be your purpose cuz you're a beautiful woman. We know you got curved You could have put something that wrapped around you still know is there My man, it's okay with it. Yeah, I was married so it's okay Okay, see that might be it for her. That's that challenge. Yeah, that's it right there Why would you do a bait and switch in any direction? You trying to be like look you thought I was on shoes, but I'm not it's what you said is what you Yeah, let's say One Okay, I'm following you, okay, he dropped it well This is hard because I mean I think You know, we're going off of like how people are judging a book by its cover, you know I try not to judge people based on that because You don't you can't tell them what a person is based on the way they look you have to read into the book and I feel like if a man is Wants to love and wants to have a family. That's really what it's about And if I and if he's a man that gets it then I can work on appearance because I'm a stylist I'm a fashion stylist and I style celebrities I do a lot and I can change that part because your hair Your Jordans are not a deal-breaker for me Because your core is real and you get it you get the bond between man woman and child. So That's that's good for me I'm not gonna pop your balloon because Maybe something good, you know, I don't know willing to see and for you Okay, I Think I mean like we said I'm undecided because you are a gentleman and And a scholar and a scholar Really tall but I am taller and I don't know if it may be a problem I'm only gonna pop your balloon for that, but you are a good guy and I think there is a good girl for you She's not me, but it's okay, but you are a good girl. Good guy. Okay She said he's a good girl, okay Do that then don't do that to me don't you guys see me that there was a little slip No, good guy, and I think there is a good girl for you. Mm-hmm Not me, but it's okay, but you are a good girl. Good guy You are silly Do you have any questions for her? Do you like kids? Yes, I love children How many kids do you have? I have two. How old are they? I have a 23 year old and I have a 10 year old You have children? Yes, I have three five eight and Ten one is biologically not mine, but he's mine if you get what I mean. That's good. I Like that Do you have any questions? No, just I Like, you know, I like all that I like a man that gets it and just by him showing that he loved a child that isn't his That lets you know that you have compassion and you are a loving person because a lot of men can't take that You know loving a child is your own so I commend you for that. That's real Okay, is this a match? I think it is Yeah We have a match All right, they got a match. They got a match ladies and gents. We are not mad at it We brought the talk go ahead and like the video subscribe in case you haven't already Hit the all Bell notifications, so you won't miss a video like this Drop your comments below. Let us know what you thought about the show and It's time for the first We did I say first now you write you do is the final? Hi man, you got to get together listen, um Look, I'm suspicious But it's funny because it flipped it flipped initially, you know, I started off a little suspicious about her Yeah, my first impression. We wasn't quite sure where it was going Yeah, we were later on she start she started to really make her stance very clear So we was I bet this is where she moving. So the suspicion is based on the guy like he's just giving me He seems like a good dude good nature, right? Yeah, but I don't think he's in there for the long haul The type of questions he was asking earlier how long can she go and all that it's revealing It's yeah, he kind of has it look like look Yeah, I'm just trying to see what's good I'm just gonna be blunt. That's the vibe. I'm good. So she seems cool. She yeah, but to be honest She almost seemed a little um Not hurt, but it was like what she did at the end It's kind of like a rebound vibe like, you know, she ain't like hot a green shirt Put on the spot maybe right right and what he was saying about her appearance and all of that She spent so much time explaining that book by the cover thing, right? That it's like she gave him some undue props some under like you get it you get you did you keep that? For a whole different reason, that's my synopsis. Okay fair enough and I could see what you're talking about because When when the Shea had asked him like is it a match for you? He's like, yeah And I feel I felt like in that moment. He was more reading the guys trying to gauge the guy So like I don't want to look like The or you know, that's what I mean, I don't think he would I'm suspicious cuz it's suspicious Yeah, she seemed like she's willing at least not that she's in love, but she's open. She's well He seemed like he's just trying to see how you can finesse Yeah, it's a question mark for him for sure with her the whole clothing thing your Presentation about it, you know, I get it. I get not judging a book by the cover however as human beings we are designed to do so we're designed to look at things and Examine it and to read like to get a read on it, right? It is dangerous. Is this safe? Does this look good? Does this not look good? And yes, it is and a lot of times. Yes It is molded towards one's like culture or experiences and all of that fun stuff but I feel like Not judging a book by the cover more so should apply by someone's the color of someone's skin. See that's a good point I was gonna say that really holds weight to things that I can't change We cannot change in the in the aspect of what she was saying. Yeah that cover symbolically. Yeah, we're we're the illustrator We're the author we can design our To look very appealing. We want very seductive or very, you know, wholesome is up to us So we you can control that so I'm with you on that And you tell you explain it beautifully because with that cover that we choose to create of ourselves Absolutely. People are going Make right. They are like why would you not think I'm into sports, right? You see this? Yeah, like why would I get mad like yo gamma thing? You know, yeah, like I'm presenting like I might be into active weirdest, you know, it's just Right. So I mean, you know the guy with the green shirt. Yeah And let us know if it makes sense below let us know you drop you drop on Juju and this is what they love about us Even if we rock it with someone truth still needs to be spoken. That's it It's not about angry or emotions or judgment truth remains that regardless of who's speaking it So with that said, um drop y'all comments below. Yeah, let us know which I thought about the show But um anything else usually before you wrap it up Said I mean, you know the girl she seems like she overall has a good head on her shoulders There's some you know, everyone has their little Right that they could work on and you know, so yeah, I don't know this one this guy. I don't know question mark Well, yeah, I'm with you with the girl too. It's not like me putting it down. No, she see this This is the type of stuff she may need to hear so she could change whatever needs to be changed that could be changed Get where she wants to be and I know she's probably gonna say like well I was married and he chose and that's fine. That's fine. But you can't be defensive When someone such as a green shirt brings up a point like that, right? Cuz that's it like your husband that chose to marry you and was okay with this. That's him, you know But that's not he doesn't speak for the majority is all right. Yeah, that's all that's all man So we hope she gets it and she does, you know, make any necessary adjustments just a better We always want to be moving in the progressive manner right growing in all ways Always. All right with that said guys drop your comments below. Let us know what you thought about this show and Be back for more. We will have that for sure until then your boy Gamma signing out with the lovely juju