Stop Caring, And She Will Come Back

Hi guys, my name is Christine and I'm a dating relationship and personal development coach and today I'm talking about stop caring and she will come back now Of course, obviously this only applies to those women who do still have some interest in you It doesn't apply to those women who have completely lost all interest But the good thing is is that when you do something like this You're then able to tell if a woman does actually sincerely still have feelings for you and does still like you it shows everything It reveals everything to you about where you stand with that woman. Okay, so first of all Let's talk about what I mean by stop caring and now it doesn't mean that you're mean or you're cold to her It just simply means that you walk away so if you if you feel like she's losing interest or you feel like It's just the relationship is just not going the way that you want it to perhaps She's even friendzoned you or there's something like that The best thing that you can do is to is to walk away and that's why I mean by stop caring stop Investing stop messaging stop calling her stop Trying to find her when you're at work when you're at school just stop seeking her out stop seeking her attention and pull back and Stop giving her that attention now doesn't mean that if you do know her in a physical environment It doesn't mean that you should be again mean or cold or ignore her You know always be polite when you see your crush or this woman that you like, you know, just say hi How are you? You know have a little conversation, but don't approach her. Okay, don't go up to her Don't pursue her if she wants to talk to you She has to come to you But if you're crossing each other in a hallway or something like that and you're walking past each other Don't be afraid to give her eye contact smile say hello But if she wants your attention, she has to seek you out in that physical environment And of course as well to not be messaging her anymore in this or like the digital world on the internet Don't be seeking her out in that way either. Let her be the one to initiate Let her be the one to come to you and when you are in a place where you know her Let her be the one to seek you out Okay, so that's what I mean by stop caring because the thing is is that you can go Two ways right there. Well three ways actually So the first way is is that when you're around her and you that say you do know in a physical environment one of the things that you could do that often makes it seem like you've been affected by her a lot and makes her feel like She's like she's done something to bother you or to emotionally affect you in some way if you're Cold or mean or you ignore her and you just pretend that she doesn't exist Okay, that is not the best strategy at all Okay If you know her in a physical environment because she's gonna know that it's because of her behavior. She has perturbed you She has affected you and the best way that you can show a woman That she has not Affected you and that's what's gonna have a positive effect on her attraction for you She does sell feelings for you is if you still engage with her you still seem happy You're still yourself, but you're just not seeking her out anymore that's the best position to be in and that's the the second way that you should behave which is sort of like in the Fine line of you know Where you're supposed to be right directly in the middle there So don't be mean or cold to her or ignore her just be very neutral with her but don't seek her out and there's of course there's the other thing that a lot of people do when they get rejected or they feel like the woman is not As pulled away as they become he becomes too Enthusiastic around you starts chasing her when he sees her It's showing off doing all these kinds of things and that as well is showing her that her presence affects you So the idea is to get to a neutral point that middle point now I was talking about where you are showing that her behavior doesn't affect you Okay, and you're not necessarily and you're not caring but you're but you're not caring in a negative way But you're not caring in a positive way either you just are very very neutral towards her and that is the best position to be in when you know a woman in a physical environment who has friends owned you or Has showed low interest maybe you went on a couple of dates and it didn't quite work out She started to pull away things like that. Okay, so that's the best Strategy, okay, if you know her in a physical environment, of course, if you don't know in a physical environment You just know from the internet. Perhaps she's a woman that you're dating. So on an online dating app Perhaps she lives on the other side of town. You don't really see her then Then the best thing to do is to do no contact and to not message her anyone if she still likes you then she will Reach out to you. Okay Now if this is a constant pattern that you see happening with yourself where you go out on a few dates with a woman or Maybe even only one day you seem to have a really great time And you think that she does and then all of a sudden it's hard to get around the phone again It's hard to get a response from her. It's hard to see her out It's hard to you know Go on a second date all these different things then what I recommend you do is get the dating Blueprint, which you can find in the description of this video only cost three pounds. It's really really cheap Super super cheap and it'll give you that basically a whole guide on what to do in that dating process Okay, so the kind of wording that you want to do when you ask a woman out so she's more likely to say yes The kind of vibe that you want to have out on the date and how long you should wait after a date for messaging again So you don't appear too eager and put her off that way. Okay, so the dating blueprint is really really good at that So this is especially for those guys that are like I need someone to guide me I need someone to tell me what to do at each step Right, so I don't **** things up and that's what the dating blueprint will do now Another thing that the date the dating blueprint does is it weeds out those women very very quickly that just want your attention Just want your money Don't really want you for you. So it's really or half interested or not really that interested in you So it's really women that want to control you So it's really good at weeding those women out Another thing that the dating blueprint is also really good at as well as those women who are on the fence about you So they can be geared towards not really liking you that much or they could be geared towards falling in love with you And that's and the dating blueprint is good with those women who are sort of do have some interest in you and getting them To fall in love with you faster. Okay, so That's what the dating blueprint does and to be honest that's when you'll find most women like most women you go out on a date with most women that you meet on dating apps most Women that you engage with when you're at work or school. They're probably gonna be in that's that area of yeah He's kind of cute, but not sure really sure where I feel about him But if you follow the dating blueprint, it will gear her towards Falling in love with you and finding you more attractive finding you more interesting finding you more mysterious. It's essentially Seducing that woman to liking you more And with women who are already super super high interested in you This will have an extremely positive effect on her attraction for you and you'll be able to sleep with her much faster You'll be able to Me up much you did basically end up being boyfriend and girlfriend very very fast with those women are already really super into you Okay, if you follow the dating blueprints, that's why I recommend that you go and get okay So what happens then and when you stop caring then And why me why she'll come back is if she has feelings for you and you walk away and things like that And you're no longer contacting her anymore and you're waiting for her to message you you're weighing you're putting the ball in her court essentially Then she will fear losing you. So when you pull back then she has to chase Okay, and that lets you know how she feels about you Okay, so when she does start chasing you then now that you've pulled back if she started to fear losing you She's more likely gonna start reaching out to you messaging you asking how you are Maybe sending you things that perhaps you she thinks that you would find funny You can say something like hey It's good to hear from you and then follow the dating blueprint on how to ask a woman out and things like that Say hey, when are you free? You know and then make a date with her So there's not only a good idea to pull back But when it starts to work Make sure that you take action when you pull back and it starts to work when it when you pull back and she starts to Reach out to you Facilitate hanging out. Okay Because if she fears losing you then she has to chase you Okay, and now if you'd like coaching with me if you need help with a specific situation So for example, let's say I've just talked about your whole situation right now and you're like, well How did you read my mind and you need help with the specific details of your situation? Because of course everyone's story is different every way all the women that you guys are dealing with different Of course, there are some universal things at work, which is why they do to dating blueprint is really good but if you feel like your situation is really unique and you've got a unique set of circumstances that you feel like you can that you feel like you may need help with then you can reach out to me personally and the cheapest option for coaching with me is in the description and there's email coaching now email coaching is Very very basic thing. So what you do is you just once you've made payment There's an email that you get given an email to send your message to And you just write out basically everything that's been going on with this woman and tell me the whole story You may even want to send me screenshots of conversations in case there's anything in there You'd like me to analyze perhaps you're like, well, does this message mean that she likes me? I'm not sure she sent this emoji. Does that mean she likes me? She sent a winky face or heart What does this mean? You know things like that, you know, like what does this mean? If you want me obviously you don't have to send me screenshots of conversations but you can just literally just tell me your whole story or you can do both you can tell me the whole story of What's happening between you two and you can send me screenshots of conversations from your whatsapp chats or something like that And I'll help you get from where you are to where you want to be with this woman Whether you want to get over her or whether you want to get back under her That's why I can help you if and I can put you in the best possible position to reattract her back Okay by giving you the best tools. Okay. So thank you so much for watching and I shall talk to you again very soon