You are Outsmarting & Outshining The Narcissist because of this

We made it. We made it. We made it. Oh my gosh, y'all. I'm so sorry. I'm having some technical difficulties, but I think I'm here. I'm live. Y'all can see me. YouTube, TikTok, Instagram. What's up, beautiful people? Hi, everybody. Let me know if you can hear me, if you can see me. I am doing this for all the family today. We're going to start doing this more often, y'all. Welcome to the live, everybody. Oh my gosh, shout out to my YouTube family. How y'all doing? Just checking in. Please let me know if you guys can hear me. If there's any issues, let me know before we dive into today's discussion, but I'm so happy you're here. Thank you guys for being here. Shout out to everybody. Warriors, thrivers, survivor, whatever you want to call yourself. Okay. Thank you. Chosen by God. God bless you okay so yeah shout out to everybody everybody that's here subscribers members new subscribers new followers whatever whatever whatever okay thank you so much thank you for letting me know tiktok thank you for letting me know instagram i appreciate all of you i hope everybody's doing good i wanted to bring you guys in to what i normally do with my youtube family on wednesdays because it's winning wednesday ain't that right family we get together on wednesdays And we we we confirm that we're winners. We confirm that we're thrivers. We we we validate our truth. And it just is what it is. So shout out to you. Thank you for making this. If you are new, if this is your first live, you're so welcome here. Make sure to, you know, subscribe if you're on YouTube, like the video. If you're watching a replay and leave your comments, I'd love to know your thoughts. while i am having this discussion today um i just want to take a few moments of everybody's time of course like i said shout out to you all wherever you're at man whatever country city state whatever you're at wherever you're at it's it's definitely awesome to see you okay i see someone here um first live okay that's what's up that's what's up man i'm i'm happy you're here look i'm going to advise you get you some water get you some tea maybe some coffee right family because you you might have a lot to say your throat might start getting dry you talk about narcissists there's a lot to say and I go live because I'm a very in-depth person I'm a very I don't know why an old soul if you want to call it that I like to get to the nitty-gritty I like to get to the nitty gritty. And if you've dealt with a narcissist, there's no other way to overcome what you've dealt with or heal from this except facing the truth. And so today we're going to have a conversation, you guys, because I know that so many of you joining in and watching this, you are here because you have outshone, you have outshone a narcissist. You have outsmarted the narcissist. And the perspective that I'm going to share with you today, coming from mommy so true, It may not be a perspective that you're used to or have heard in the past, but today I want to introduce you to a new way of thinking about this, especially if you're new on your healing journey and a lot of this information is kind of new. You're trying to embrace it. You're trying to heal. You're trying to figure out what's happening in your life, maybe even why it's happening in your life. At least for me, that was a lot of my questions early on, like, why am I going through this? Why am I dealing with this? Why is this person playing with my life like this? And so if you've ever had those thoughts or questions, or if you have that right now, I'm going to tell you right now, this live may be for you. It may be for you. So thank you so much once again. Shout out to all my new subscribers, my new followers, my loyal followers, those of you who've been with me since the very beginning, my loyal subscribers. I am so blessed to have you all here, part of the family. And so let's go. Let's talk about it. Let's talk about it. Because like I said, you have outplayed that narcissist. And to me, my perspective, there's only one reason why. And shout out to my warrior brother, Sean, for putting me onto this in-depth perspective, because you sent it to me, Sean, and I had to sit on it for a minute. I'm like, you know what? Let me think about this because I want to talk about this a little bit deeper. And of course, if you want to reach out to me, email me, share your perspective on things, you want to share your books because you've been motivated to write about this crap you went through, please email me, [email protected], [email protected]. You've outsmarted, you've outplayed, you are now outshining that narcissist. If you just give me a few moments of your time, I'm going to break it down to you where I'm coming from with this. Before I even get too in-depth with the conversation, I do want to start by saying, or maybe I should ask you, do you know you are a chosen one? Do you know that? If you've really been attacked by narcissists, especially from childhood, if you feel like you're going through it back and back, back and forth, back and forth, it's like they keep chasing you. I need you to know that it's because you are chosen. You are chosen. Many of you, you encounter these people, they encounter you, however you want to put it, because you're being used as a vessel to test their faith and to test their heart. I just want to lay that out there for anybody who's not really sure. I want to confirm for those who are sure, because you know what you are, you know who you are, and you're standing on that. You are so true. You are so true. I need some of y'all to start adding so true to your first name. David, so true. Michael, so true. Sarah, so true. Mary, so true. Elizabeth, so true. Sheila, so true. Sherry, so true. Jessica, so true. Paul, so true. I need you to know that you are so true. You are chosen. You are chosen. And the reason why you were able to outplay this game that narcissists play with you, because they're playing a game. They're playing a dangerous game. they're playing a game that they actually are not very qualified at because unlike you they don't carry a certain level of wisdom and discernment we're just gonna throw that out there i just need somebody just go ahead and grab it catch it whatever you're gonna do put it put it in your heart your soul your pocket somewhere you're chosen the reason why you're able to knock a narcissist out of the ballpark you know hit those strikes without even trying because not not only are you chosen but being chosen or being that empath, what separates you from that narcissist is that you are a way maker and they are takers, you are a way maker and they are takers, you know what a narcissist is, right? Is anybody here new, never heard that word, let me just give you a quick synopsis of what you're dealing with, you're talking about somebody who comes off charming maybe even confident, but deep down inside they're empty, nothing lives there, nobody lives there love don't live there, wisdom don't live there, nothing is there, they might be book smart but life don't, when it comes to life they're just stupid a lot of them are stuck there because they're so selfish, they're just all about me, they don't care about nothing, sometimes they don't even care about themselves, all that confidence you're seeing it's not even real, believe it or not it's not even real, you're talking about fake and phony, everything about a narcissist is really fake it's really fake, they're the greatest pretenders the greatest actors, they have put on a show, their whole life is nothing but a show, it's nothing but a show, that's why when you've been with them you've dealt with them you start to realize you're just part of a clown show that you never wanted to be a part of, and and and the more you heal you sit back and you realize how much of a clown they've always been, these are narcissists talk about you but don't even have nothing really going on for themselves, bringing you down because deep down inside they're miserable, misery loves company that's the narcissist, they think they're stars, they think they need the red carpet rolled out for them everywhere they go they think they're superior most of the time and if they don't think that they think they're always the victim, you got narcissists who are always like toxically vulnerable, the vulnerable narcissists, the coverts the ones that hang on to those marriages for 20 30, 40 plus years and you don't even know that you're sleeping with the devil, those are those vulnerable, woe is me, it's everybody but me creatures, just to give you a little bit, they think they're the stars of the show, they don't realize that you make the show, remember i said you're the way maker, this is how you outsmarted that narcissist, you own the show, you you you make the show without your presence, without your energy ain't no show, they're so smart they're stupid they don't realize that your brains is what makes the show go on, your empathetic energy is what people come around. Your high vibrations is what people want to see. Don't nobody want to be around that boring, mean narcissist that don't ever smile, don't want to ever do nothing. They're typically very boring people because they're very insecure and they're afraid to go outside because they fear death. Did you know that? Some of them are afraid to even sleep because they fear death. they're very insecure, very empty shells of a person I don't even like calling them people sometimes because they don't act like people, they act like demons, they act like creatures and this is why we start to awaken the way that we do as chosen beings and then we we start to we start to annihilate them we start to move different act different react different talk different walk different make completely different moves and it throws them completely off of their own game they introduced us to their game didn't realize that we would master the playbook we will outsmart you by understanding that it takes reversing everything you're doing to me right back on you. Oh my God, you're chosen. You outsmarted that narcissist because you are a way maker. Let's talk about that. Somebody might be wondering, what is she talking about? How did I outsmart a narcissist by being a way maker? First of all, if you don't know your value, that's not my job today. I pray that you understand your value and you embrace it and you stand a hundred toes down on that. I pray that you wake up one day and you realize how amazing you are and how much the people around you really wouldn't make it without you. You bring so much without even trying because your empathy is priceless. But I'm gonna let you figure that out if you don't know that already. But those of you who know, you know, you know, you know that narcissists thrive on attention. Their main goal is to really be the center of the universe but as much as they want to pop up like they the sun act like they the sun and that they shine bright and they are just so perfect you know that their personality is more like a black hole nobody knows like you those those that married them y'all y'all to me y'all y'all a real mvp you married a narcissist and you stayed with them decades because you're a way maker you're chosen matter of fact you were you were on an assignment and because of that i need you to know if they lost you if they chose to walk away from you oh it's not gonna go good for them you were the only sense of direction matter of fact it's because of you and your presence that they had favor on their life if it wasn't for you there's certain things they wouldn't have even been able to acquire in their life you're a way maker you bring a different type of energy to the table and that type of energy is i'm not here to play a game i'm not here to love bomb you i didn't just marry you to play with you i didn't just lay down and have kids for you to wake up and put it all on me you're a way maker you come better than that you you don't play the game but if you get sucked into it you're gonna change the rules you're gonna change the rules we're gonna play this by my rules i'm gonna teach you something i'll teach you something because you really don't know nothing and and this is this is the reason why a lot of y'all a narcissist somewhere hating your guts right now because you changed the rules to their own game because as a way maker you understand that life is about building connections fostering growth and creating positive impacts that narcissist is opposite of that so you sitting there like okay you want to be selfish you want to give me the silent treatment because you a coward you can't face me you can't talk to me we can't never have no real conversations you want to pin everybody against me. You want to triangulate and bring strangers into it because you're such a coward. Okay. All right. So I'm going to show you what a real one do and how a real one moves and how real ones operate. This is when that cutoff comes in. You find a way to escape that narcissist because I'm not going to sit there and let you play with my life like it's a game. What I'm going to do is I'm going to strategize. And for many of you, the way you outsmarted that narcissist is literally like you left them on their back like a roach after you got through with them things ain't been the same it won't be the same it'll never be the same because they took a lot of what you bring to the table for granted your qualities has been taken for granted the fool thought you were a fool too so you had to show the fool that you ain't nobody's fool you change the rules i while while the narcissist is sitting there busy controlling fault collecting followers you busy making friends new connections good connections networking they worried about just growing a following they worried about just being in the spotlight somewhere they worried about how many likes and views they can get i'm dead serious even me as as a content creator now as a as a life coach on the internet i will tell you right now the last thing i care about is all of that because I'm a way maker I don't have to try things happen organically come on now that speaks for you you ain't gotta pay for nothing you ain't gotta force nothing you ain't gotta try hard for nothing it just comes to you because it belongs to you most of the time you just sit you just take what's yours you just take what's yours you know and let's be honest when you talk about a narcissist and someone like you the empath the the true chosen one who who who would rather hang on or who would rather hang out with a narcissist who thinks they're perfect all the time than to hang out with someone like you who lifts people up you ain't gotta call yourself no goat you ain't gotta try to be no goat you it just it just is who you it just is what it is and let me just point out to you this is why they hate you too because this is a light that you have about yourself and it's very irritating to narcissistic people because it should be all about them but once they catch a glimpse of the fact that you have the ability to be somebody people actually like you they will hate you they hate your guts but how many of us have learned to become unbothered that ain't our problem that's their narcissistic problem that don't got nothing to do with us enjoy that by your damn self you're a way maker you can't be compared to a taker you outsmart a narcissist you outplay them and you outshine them because as a way maker the power of generosity lives within your soul like seriously do you know how powerful it is to be an empathetic soul someone who gives without expectations or without wanting anything back There is so much power in generosity. Let me just tell you a little bit about what what I mean by way maker, because we're not just takers looking for, you know, the next selfie opportunity. I want to make that clear. As a way maker, you just you're not you know, you don't care about that. Yeah, you have your fun. You take your selfies, you party, whatever. But that's not your priority. you don't roll over on your bed from, you know, you don't roll over in the morning worried about how you can, you know, filter pictures and you just, you're authentic. You're a real one. My favorite word. You are a real one. You're like a generous bank. You're like a generous bank, but because you're a generous bank and because you are a way maker, you require rewards you require deposits that's your reward you require deposits of kindness and love something the narcissist showed you they can't give you they can't provide they could care less if you have that or not if if anything they rather take it off from you they'll take all your kindness they'll suck all of your love out of you they'll take whatever they can get from you and once they get done with you they'll throw you away and on to the next you don't operate like that you're such a way maker that when you interact with narcissists let me tell you how amazing we are y'all this is why we got caught up in these narcissistic relationships and situationships manipulation ships that's what i like to call them you're so real and you're such an amazing person when you interact with narcissists you don't just see their flaws am i lying you don't just see their flaws you you you are the one that see potential for growth come on you ain't stupid you ain't you ain't just ignore red flags and you ain't no you you see potential for growth you gave him a chance for a reason you saw something even though it's fake as hell you saw it you felt something i told you you might have been on an assignment god used you as a vessel to test their heart you felt something you felt that this narcissist probably has been crying out for help because they do you felt that they probably was just coming out of a narcissistic collapse because they had some crazy crap going on in their life that they couldn't cope with god sent you a little angelic butt to them that's why you ignored the red flags because the red flags didn't really matter as a chosen one you don't really it's it's i'm sorry to say that but we ignore red flags because we pay attention to potential growth which some of us are learning that is not the way to go because there's too many narcissists out here to be doing that we're the ones that say hey i see you can be more than just a drama queen i see you can be more than just a drama magnet let's make something amazing together how many of us said that to the narcissist that we dealt with let's get together. Let's, you know, let's put our hands together. Let's put our money together. Let's throw pieces together. Let's do this. Let's do this. You saw something that you was like, okay, forget, forget that you, you know, you ain't got no clothes. Forget that you don't know how to dress. Forget that you can't keep a job. Forget that you don't know how to talk. Forget that you didn't, you know, go to college, whatever the heck it was. Forget that you ain't got nowhere to live. Come live with me. That's how chosen ones move. Don't let nobody ever tell you that you're a fool for doing that. Matter of fact, let me tell you, empathy wins all day. That's why you're winning now. It's winning Wednesday. So I got to tell you why you're a winner. I got to make it clear why you outsmarted this geese. Your empathy is beautiful. Shout out to my empaths. Shout out to my empaths. You know, you're like, let's make something amazing together. Like, I don't care about your past. I don't care about your exes. We ignored all those stories. Like, come on, let's let's focus on me and you it's a new day that's the mind of a way maker that's how real people move it's a new day come on we're not gonna worry about that we're not no suckers let's let's let's pick up here and move on wow and then through the relationship you didn't know you was in the narcissistic abuse cycle but through the relationship they continue to play tricks over and over and over before you knew it was a narcissist you were responding with compassion and understanding. You kept trying to always be the peaceful person in the situation. This goes for families, love relationships, whatever type of narcissist you're dealing with. I'm talking about my real empaths, these real ones, the chosen beings. You typically will respond with compassion, understanding, patience. Baby, what can we do to fix this? Baby, let's go to counseling. Baby, let's get the pastor involved. Like, baby, look, you need, like, baby, I'm willing to, I'm willing even those of you with narcissistic parents you do whatever you can to try to make it work mom dad like let me do this let me do that let me take care of this let me take care of that but nothing you did was enough nothing you did was enough it was like playing chess with a toddler they're playing a game they don't even know how to handle it's like playing chess with a toddler you're like damn every time I give you can't give back ain't no reciprocation what the hell is this you start to wake up damn you just taking all the time you're just needy you're just needy and greedy needy and greedy got to a point where they took so much you had nothing left mentally you were gone emotionally physically just financially let's not talk about the money sheesh credit shot they strip you naked you're like damn what kind of game is this see the narcissist at their own game it's so messy just imagine a chessboard with all the pieces on it they're so messy they start knocking down pieces by accident i'm telling you playing chess with a toddler they don't even know how to be patient they're not using any empathy they're not making decisions with wisdom so they're knocking over pieces they're overplaying their hand they're doing too much getting caught up with with other stuff other people here comes the habitual cheating and then follows following that is an STD if you dealt with something like what i dealt with there's a baby on the way with somebody else that ain't nothing like you there's a new supply that ain't nothing like you the most dumbfounding ---- I ever had to embrace I'm like wait you gonna you gonna do all of that at least do it with somebody that's bad let's do it with somebody that's smarter than me somebody that got something going on listen waymakers we all smart narcissists because we're thinkers not only are we just thinkers I told you we're chosen so we're led by God it just take it just takes for us to be silent and listen to God and and when we start moving the way God wants us to move we just we start turning the table. We start turning the table. We start using our empathy in different ways. We start understanding what our empathy really means. We start to limit our empathy because a lot of us, it's a disease for us. We don't know how to not, not do for everybody, not give to everybody. We don't know how to say no, but this abuse will teach you. Eventually it'll teach you. Here's where it really gets fun at y'all, as a chosen one, chosen one stand up. And if you're watching the replay, please share your thoughts. smash the like button subscribe on youtube if you're new and please drop a comment i'd love to go back and read it but here's where it gets really really fun at as a chosen one we have an incredible ability to transform the narrative did you know that we have an incredible ability to transform the narrative they think they control you they think it's all about them they think you're stupid and you end up doing a whole 360. You end up rewriting the whole thing instead of falling into the trap of the drama that the narcissist creates. We end up turning the tables and we use our empathy as secret weapons. Yes, we do. Some of us, we start to get smart. We start to realize, hold on, why am I fighting you? Why am I yelling at you? Why am I cussing you out? I'm going to kill you with a different type of reaction. I'm going to shut you down with a different version of me, one that you're not expecting. It's our empathy that causes us to learn how to stop reacting. You're like, you know what? I have enough empathy. I have researched what's wrong with you. I know you're a narcissistic dumbass. So what I'm not going to do is kill myself trying to fight with you. I'm not going to fight evil with evil. I'm going to find a little place in my heart to say a prayer about this situation because what I'm going to do is Now I'm going to step out the way and let God get your ass. I'm going to get out the way completely and let God step in. That's a different type of empathy. That's a different weapon. That's a secret weapon, for real, for real. Did you know that your cutoff is you showing how much you actually care? That's empathy. You're like, you know what? I love you enough to leave your stupid, narcissistic ass in the dungeon where you belong. I love you enough to pack up my ---- and go and let you rot in hell. That's a different type of empathy because you're showing how much you value yourself, how much you care about yourself because you got caught up in this sick game where it made where it looks like you didn't care about yourself and that's why you were dealing with them no that had nothing to do with it it wasn't that you're just chosen you saw a need and you attended to it there ain't nothing wrong with that this is their loss y'all a lot of y'all know that this is their loss or not yours they've lost big time messing with you they've lost big time messing with you you you turn the tables you're educating yourself this is major empowerment for many of us we'll never be the same again because now imagine a narcissist trying to engage you in their latest saga try to engage you in their latest games complete with with wild hand gestures dramatic flair the narcissistic rage rah rah rah smear campaign running you completely down but instead of you getting pulled into their vortex of chaos you respond with maybe some level of a serving assertiveness and kindness something they're not expecting something they're not they're not ready for they're like oh wait what oh wait what your new response to their chaos would be wow that sounds that sounds intense while they while they you know yelling and babbling and talking about you your response is wow that that's interesting that sounds pretty intense wow you guys are a special kind of stupid aren't you the flying monkeys and all of them you you a special kind a retard and you you believe that y'all enjoy that narcissistic party by yourself but by the way how can we turn this into a learning experience instead of a pity party you ever shut a narcissist down with some words that they weren't expecting for you to say because they were expecting for you to yell cuss them out fight back you hit them with two words three words maybe just one emoji you shut the whole ---- down you ever seen their face when you did that florida love said yep yup like yeah i bet when you turn the table when you when you flip the script you outsmart them when you outshine them when you outplay them it not only disarms the narcissist but it also position positions you as a leader in the whole situationship have you ever noticed how quick the the thing flips when you when you change your reaction when you fight them differently now this person is your bitch now you got them crawling off on fours trying to figure out how they can come back in what they can do oh that happens too especially those of you with kids in a marriage you know that narcissist like the back of your hand once you switched up on them they didn't know how to act now now they want to be you know now they want to be the best thing you ever knew but it's like too late it's too late you you you you disarm them you take the position of leadership and you're not, you're, you're not just playing their game. You're rewriting the scripts. You're rewriting the scripts. Oh my gosh. This is, I just, man, you guys, I just want you to embrace your role as a way maker. If you haven't already. And as, as part of today's winning Wednesday, if you already knew that you were a winner, I just want to, I want to confirm for you that you've always been a way maker because you're a real one and real ones always win, always win. You will always outsmart the narcissist. You will always beat them at their own game because you carry true empathy. You carry real love. You have real compassion. You have a real heart. And that means God got you like seriously. So many of you right now, ever since you walked away from that situationship, life is going up. Things are changing. You're getting stuff back. It might've been painful, but you're getting what you deserve in life on so many levels. Number one is your peace. Something you can't pay for. You're rewriting the entire narrative and they don't know what to do when you take away their spotlight and shine in the possibility of growth. They don't know what to do. Most of the time, what they will do is act like they're in love with somebody else act like they've moved on and they did so unbothered or they'll sit somewhere and talk about you run you completely down alienate you from your kids if they can whatever they can do to aim to destroy you because you've stolen the spotlight of their show they'll do it we have the power to outplay narcissists guys because we're not takers we're givers natural givers we're real you think god is gonna watch you suffer for the rest of your life when you literally laid your life down for someone who was undeserving. You didn't know they were a narcissist. You didn't know you were marrying that monster, but you did anyway. You considered them. You saw the best in them and they paid you back with betrayal. And if you know you're a chosen one, you got to know that God got your back. That's why you are a winner now. That's why you are shining now. Not only did you outsmart them, you're outshining them. Ain't no spotlight for them. Matter of fact, it's because of them. Now you're in the spotlight. You ain't even asked for it, but the pain pushed you into your purpose. Now you're out here healing other people, helping other people, life coaching, writing books, whatever. You're out here doing some life-changing things because of what they did to you, because they tried to ruin you and end you. We're not takers. We acknowledge their presence, but we refuse to let their energy dictate our lives. That's why many of us cut them loose. At the appointed time, they had to go. We had to drop them like a bad habit instead of instead of playing their game what we do as way makers is we create our own fulfilled life with purpose connection and positivity that's what healing is you create a more fulfilling life for yourself you you pull more positivity around you for you with you whatever you connect with supporters like-minded people and you thrive in life and they are still a narcissist they're they're they're nine times out of ten stuck as a narcissist and you somewhere thriving being the best version of yourself wow ain't that something isn't that something a way maker you're the one who lights the way you don't just carry light you light the way think about the relationship think about the whole family dynamic you've always been the one they needed called on wanted to use asking things from because you like the way and if they didn't do that you're the one they always tried to destroy get rid of you sabotage your life take things from you hide things from you steal from you because they did not want you to walk in your own light haters envious entities envious but they don't ever win realness always wins realness will always win i don't know what they think and what they thought but they definitely ain't thinking straight if they were smart they wouldn't try to narc certain people they wouldn't even go as far as they did. They're so stupid. They go so far to marry you. They go so far to have kids with you and they don't know that they're going to face consequences. The way life is set up, there is no getting away scot-free. I hope y'all know that. For many of us, we are their biggest karma. They'll never be able to sleep the same again. Every time they close their eyes, they see you. You are their biggest nightmare. You left them hanging upside down and they'll never forget it they got to live with it because now they're stuck dealing with people who just you know got to tolerate them and as they age their children might not like them the whole the whole the whole world is going to be against them they already feel that way they burn so many bridges they end up completely alone and just miserable they're miserable beings that's why they try to make us miserable they want us to be within you know on their level let me go through some of these comments and let y'all go shout out to you YouTube, shout out to you Instagram and TikTok, man I appreciate y'all being here, I um, I want to try and involve all of us in my lives because sometimes it's just so hard to get to all of you and I'm just trying to do better guys, I'm trying to do better, but thank y'all so much for being here man, shout out to all my members on YouTube, I really appreciate it on this Winning Wednesday, shout out to Chosen by God, I see you brother Tamika Buckley hey, love the sun target, shout out to you member if you're, if you're interested in in being a member, you know um, please check out the link in the description box once we get off this live also for you guys to subscribe on Instagram for more in-depth videos and TikTok as well, I have subscriptions there but please please please take a moment look at the description box check out my profile if you need to reach me, connect with me book appointments with me for life coaching I'm your girl, reach out right um, let me know what your needs are and I will do my absolute best to accommodate Queenly Andrea, what's up Queen, thank you for moderating for me love, I appreciate you brother Hype Man Nerd for the Word, what's up, said I know I'm a chosen one in Jesus name, I love it Keenly Ambrios, what's up Keenly so true, yeah come on now put that so true behind your name because you a real one. So true. So true. Chosen by God says your bounce back shows that you are chosen. Ooh, it sure do. It sure do. Let me see what y'all talking about TikTok. And I'm going to let y'all go here in a moment. I just want to skim through anything that stands out. I'm going to just mention it real quick, but thank y'all for the engagement, the love, all of it. It's so appreciated. It really is. It really truly is. Thank you so much for the love TikTok. y'all are amazing that's what he's doing he's trying to get my kids to hate me oh yeah that's what they all do that's what they all do that's why you got to continue to be the best parent that you can let your kids judge it let your kids be the judge of that don't back down everything he tells those kids you go back and you reverse it whatever they tell you daddy said mommy said you go back and you correct it that's your job you don't you don't don't don't back down and let let them win like that no absolutely not florida love said living my best life and and you will please continue to do that please continue to do that what's up instagram fam thank y'all for being here i'm a winner every day said root for respect i love it super empaths in the house okay i see y'all i see y'all hey if you if you empathetic and you don't feel like you winning anything I'm sorry I'm sorry to hear that it sounds like you may need to you know get some some help and some support so you can self-discover yourself healing after narcissistic abuse is about self-discovery you got to be willing to do that you got to be willing to say you know what this is not about this narcissist this is about me, what am I going to do about this what, how am I going to overcome this? everybody can't, everybody won't because we, not all of us have that strength. A lot of what I'm saying is for some and it's not for all, you know, but I encourage you to get help, get therapy, seek support, work with a life coach. I don't have to be the one you work with, but take yourself serious, pour back into yourself and learn what your value is. It hurts me when people talk like that because that's just telling me you're a broken impact, but that's okay too. You can find yourself. You can find yourself. can't help but to react like that says Michael Robinson, yeah you're human, you're human I get it we some reactive people, I get it but you talk about a narcissist, you're gonna have to work on that they thrive off your reactions, they actually, they intentionally do things for you to react because you reacting distracts the fact that they're the problem, you look like the problem you will feel like the problem as well because now you react you do stuff you act crazy you say crazy things. And now you sit somewhere beating yourself up and you ain't the problem. So it just, it just doesn't help, you know? So just try your best, work on that. I know it's not the easiest. Someone said, let's not talk about the money, baby, but I'm back. I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. Y'all better keep going. I'll shout out to my thrivers, man. My warriors. You guys are amazing. Sean, Sean Camacho. What's up brother? thank you for this, thank you for this today because you put this you put these words in my mind and I had to I had to come here and share my perspective of it and so you know let me see Sean says they walk, they walk and take by their flesh and we walk and create with our spirit that's why we already won, they hate it because we are the hero in their movie you said it you said it look you could have just took over this whole lot you you said it right there in one freaking sentence for me that is the whole point right there what he said you gotta know you've already won man if you know how real you are you gotta know you've already won you gotta see that this is their loss this is their loss man it's just it doesn't get more clearer than that this is why they hate you for leaving they hate you for changing and switching up and cutting them off how many times have you heard them talk about you ain't yo you you're not the same you're not the same person you're not who you were when I met you yeah you damn right I'm not because I done beat you at your own game I done took over I stole the spotlight because you pretend to be so real they pretend to be so stand up and real and all of this and you realize that you are not none of that you are fake as heck and you are a hypocrite complete hypocrite and you mad because I'm nothing like you and the fact that i'm just so raw and real it reveals and exposes you more that just pisses you off oh yeah oh yeah no i'm good i'm good mama DeightX what's up they are very fragile beings ego easily wounded yes yes they are yes they are you're so right Queen Leandria said the narc mad at me. I don't care. Go sit down and brush them three small baby teeth. We love you, Queen Leandria. Oh my God, that's hilarious. When you start to embrace that you're dealing with a grown baby, I like to call them demon babies, but hey, that's me. When you embrace you're dealing with a grown demon baby, you will realize how powerful you are over these narcissists and you will start to walk in your power and that'll lead you to outsmarting them outshining them but you got to see it and you got to you got to see it and you got to choose to not see it like you got to choose to choose to see it you got to you got to teach yourself to not blind yourself from the truth is what I'm trying to say because it is what it is like it is what it is you need to embrace this is what you're dealing with this is who they are and then you need to confirm and validate within yourself who you are, who you are, and how it's way different from who they are. There's nothing similar between you and a narcissist. It's just not. If you can just look beyond the pain, there's so much happiness and peace there. Not perfect. Healing is not a linear journey. A lot of us have our ups and downs, but we are happier. We're more at peace. our hearts feel better we're not waking up with that bubbly stomach and that you know that weird gut feeling we don't have to tiptoe on eggshells we don't have to try to figure out what lie we gonna make because this person is looking for something and we can't be truthful all this it's just it's a it's a horrible hell of an experience to be in it really is but you have power and i want you to know that someone said give it to god absolutely god's wrath is way more powerful than ours. It is. It is. Oh my God. A lot of us, we're seeing that. We're seeing how God's wrath is activated now. We're seeing that. We've outsmarted them so well that God has stepped in fully. And the fool is making more fools out of themselves. They are literally repeating this cycle with other people, new people, their children. And it's like, wow, do you understand that it doesn't end up well for a narcissist? I don't care how they're making it look on the outside this person is demonically tortured all the time they're not happy people they're not satisfied imagine living like that living in such an empty energy like that i mean like no no no no no yeah i look forward to going back and reading a lot of your comments youtube i appreciate everybody what's up mika love i see you love i see you thank you guys so much for being here man it's been great i appreciate the engagement listening you know um it's such a blessing to have you guys here as a family to to help me get my words and my thoughts out and um yeah yeah yeah it's it's it's one heck of an experience you know those of you going through divorces and child child children battles and custody fights first of all just understand that they everything is a fight with them especially at the end it's it's such a fight especially at the end when when they know you're done because this person really isn't ready to let go that's something narcissists don't want you to they they're not ready they're they're dragging that divorce out they're dragging out this custody battle they're acting like they can't come into an agreement with stuff they don't want to let you go think about it if they really wanted to let you go they make this process easy they would have divorced you six months ago they would have settled for anything and just left you alone they are not ready to let you go because not only have you stolen the show they need you to have their own show it's your love attention your money your grace your presence that make them even feel worthy enough to have their own show we are the ones who uplift them and put them on pedestals y'all and when that relationship ends those marriages end they don't know how to say goodbye the only way to say goodbye is to try to drag it out as long as they can and keep playing this game Make it difficult. So like somebody said here, I think I saw someone say, look, yesterday, yep, right there. Yesterday was mediation. He didn't agree to nothing and I didn't react at all. And that's the best thing you can do. You know what? I'm not even going to react because that's what you want. You got to remain unbothered with them. Even if you're feeling bothered, you don't show it to them. You take that, you take your feelings into that closet and you take it to God. Stop trying to talk to them and plead with them and beg them and you crying and you stop showing them all of that stop showing them all of that guys i'm gonna let y'all go we'll be back i'm gonna catch y'all live again like i said i'm gonna start incorporating as as many of my platforms at once that i can because it's just you know it's really cool to be able to talk to all of you guys together and share one message on all platforms so shout out to everybody thank y'all for the love and support again to reach me um please check out information in my profile my bios or in the description box for your YouTube um you know mommy's social merchandise booking life coach sessions or just oh excuse me just simply emailing me with questions and inquiries um please reach out it's been a pleasure talking to you on this wonderful winning Wednesday y'all stay blessed and stay true i'm gonna see you guys again oh my goodness mama d oh hold on mama d8x you dropped me some money in here thank you for the super chat she said let's celebrate mommy so true for helping us on our healing journey and maintaining 50,000 50,000 subs we love you mommy y'all start y'all super chat we couldn't pay enough for this type of support oh that is so sweet i appreciate it thank you guys for the love Seriously, all of y'all, I saw, you know, some gifts on TikTok and every, you guys are amazing. Thank you so much. It's highly appreciated. Until next time, y'all, just stay blessed, keep your head up, keep thriving, stay educated, continue to remain empowered, and I will see y'all again. Continue to live your best life forward and love. That's awesome. I'm so proud of you. I am so proud of you. I'm proud of all of us. Thank you, Mama D8X. God bless you that is awesome you guys have a great night everybody take care until next time y'all bye see you back soon yep all right YouTube y'all know i had to say my final goodbye i done cut everybody else off but thank you guys for being here youtube fam it's been amazing thank you for taking time to listen to me it's been a it's been great it's a hard narc life says shannon l oh gosh y'all don't get me started don't get me started oh my god you guys are hilarious i love y'all so much i appreciate everyone dor dorothea livingston thank you so much for being here i appreciate you so much mika love so true we couldn't never repay her back for all oh stop you guys. Yeah. All right. Well, guys, until next time, much more to talk about, much more to come. Just stay blessed. Stay true. Keep thriving. And let's go, y'all. Let's go. It's up from here. It's up and it's going to stay up. It's up and it's stuck. That's a song, ain't it? Yeah. It's up and it's stuck, right? Guys, I love y'all. Stay blessed. Have a good night, you too. See you later.