NO CONTACT IS MANDATORY WHEN YOUR PARENTS ARE ABUSIVE! #oprah #oprahwinfrey #robreiner #narcissist

A friend of mine called me recently distraught over the fact that her grown daughter whom she thought she had a really great relationship with and had recently just gone to dinner with sent her a message saying I'm no longer going to be in contact with you. Please do not try to reach me. She thought something had happened to her child that perhaps she'd been kidnapped and realized shortly after sending authorities to see if her daughter was okay that it was true that her daughter no longer wanted to have contact with her and she was asking me if I knew about this trend in in the country and I said you know I'd read something about it but now I've looked into it, not only looked into it, but actually did. Dear Oprah Winfrey, in response to your initial video where you're explaining that you have a girlfriend who has an adult daughter who went no contact and your friend is trying to figure out, you know, why is this such a trend of adult children going, no contact with their parents. Oprah, I hope I truly and sincerely hope that you get it now. Maybe you don't, because I honestly believe that since the baby boomers are the ones that, uh, you know, that is your target audience. That is the audience that made you filthy rich. You are a baby boomer. Uh, I, I believe you will always side with the boomers. Um, Oprah, I hope you understand now why us adult children choose to go no contact given all this attention, um, behind the Rob Reiner, Rob and Michelle Reiner and their son, Nick Reiner. So many of us hate our abusive parents because the abuse doesn't stop. it's a lifelong thing when you have a narcissist for a mother and father it's never ending abuse they lack accountability they don't feel they have any issues they have a godlike complex they do not treat their adult children with respect they talk down to them and treat them like children there is no middle ground when you have a narcissist for a parent so what do we do after trying so many times to to come to terms with the person you looked up to and the person you loved you know how difficult it is to cut off somebody you love genuinely sincerely love and then to grow out of love with them because you realize the reality that they never loved you they gave birth to you for all the wrong reasons but love I hope this Rob Reiner situation is an eye opener, especially to people like Oprah. So, so she and others from her generation can stop gaslighting us adult children into reconnecting and reconciling. I do not condone what Nick did to his mother and father. I think it's horrible. I think it's heinous, but whatever pushed him to that breaking point, it was extremely personal. That, that rage, that type of rage has been repressed inside of him for years. We don't know why I'm sure it'll come out in due time, but to slice the throat, not only did he slice the throat because I'm hearing from the autopsy reports, he stabbed their bodies up. He butchered them. That is the next level anger that he had towards his family. So Oprah, um, you keep dancing around narcissism. Why don't you do a, a, a show specifically on narcissistic parents and the dynamic the toxic hostile dynamic and environment that they create for their children how is a sociopathic little boy created in early childhood let's talk about that because i do believe nick is also sociopathic psychopathic and he didn't get like that his parents did that to him do i believe he's spoiled yes his parents did that to him do I believe he's manipulative yes he learned it from his parents a true narcissist a narcissistic sociopath when you threaten their money when you threaten to take away their money their freedom their control they will lose it that's why the domestic violence rate is so high and so many women are filing divorce the the divorce rate I believe is like 80 percent right now with women being the primary filers of divorce. Why? Because when you're in a marriage or a relationship with a sociopath and you even mentioned the word divorce or I'm leaving you, what happens? He'll black out and he will harm the woman. He will do everything to prevent her from leaving. He is controlling or a lot of women end up six feet under when they tell their husbands they're divorcing and leaving. So in the case with Rob Reiner and his son, Nick, they had a heated argument. Why was Nick even at the party when he should be at a facility getting treatment? Who told him about the party? Who invited him? Why was he there with his dad? Why did his dad humiliate him in front of the guests? So many questions, but whatever it was, it was enough to push him over the edge and said, I can't do this anymore. I'm going to unalive my parents. See, Nick is a sociopath. In my opinion, everyone wants to put the focus on his mental illness and drug addiction. Those are contributing factors. But if we go back to early childhood, preteen years, that's where his parents were creating the monster. A personality disorder is separate and it's different from a mental illness disorder. I think people get the two confused. The personality disorder is the narcissism and the antisocial personality disorder. I know a lot of people that are schizophrenic. They're now saying that Nick was diagnosed with schizophrenia recently. Everybody with schizophrenia is not going to go around harming people. Okay. So, um, his attorney is going to argue that it was the mental illness. I feel it was the sociopathic part of him that snapped because mom and dad, probably dad threatened to take away his money, take away his control, and he lost it. You cannot play with a narcissistic sociopath, psychopath, threaten their freedom, threaten to take their money, especially when you've enabled them. You've given them money. You've spoiled them all these years. You take it away. They're going to black out. It's the same dynamic when a man and a woman are in a marriage or relationship living together and he's abusing her and taking from her and controlling her and she's had enough and she's threatening to leave or divorce him he blacks out and he harms her to prevent her from leaving to prevent others from controlling her if i can't have you no one else can if i can't control your money and your vagina no one else can you're leaving me oh i don't think so watch this how are you going to leave if you're six feet under. The same applies to a sociopathic young man that is being controlled, enabled, and abused by his parents. And they've done this to him so long. They've leveraged his mental health, threatened to, you know, take his money away. They've been doing this all his entire life. And I'm sure they've had massive family arguments. He has said this in his interviews that he gets crazy on his family but they never thought he would flip out and take their lives like that so oprah i want to say to you why no contact is critical i don't think that nick is the only person we should be focusing on i think his parents were also abusive but they were painted to be this wonderful loving uh married couple you know in hollywood there are some dark secrets with this family. And I hope that Nick will be able to tell that soon. So we can really find out what went on behind closed doors because they're really making this a whole mental illness issue. No, I think it's abusive parenting. It's a possibility. He could have been trafficked, um, exposed to sex, you know, in Hollywood by his dad and his friends. I'm gonna leave it there. But to answer Oprah's question, we have to go no contact because it's either going to end up with violence. someone's going to get really hurt or someone's going to jail children are flipping out on their abusive parents just know that the boomers are being humbled and their day of reckoning is here