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Nguồn: @ Sống và Ngẫm
In life, there are thousands of pains that a person has to endure.
Every pain is not easy to bear.
Sometimes it even makes a person change.
Life is not easy for anyone.
So let's not rush to judge.
Don't hurt anyone when you don't know about them.
Some people are very high-handed.
They don't even know the person they're judging.
They don't even have a common friend.
But when they hear a story about someone,
they immediately comment on it.
So they know a lot about that person's life.
Some people are so ungrateful that they don't even think about
what they're saying, what they're doing is right or wrong,
whether it's right or wrong, whether it's worth it or not.
We usually only care about our feelings,
but we forget that other people also need to care and share.
Because it's very simple.
As a human being, who doesn't have a compass?
Emotions in life are full of all kinds of negative thoughts.
Sometimes when you see a person who is very good at smiling,
you may think that they are too selfless,
don't know how to hurt.
That's a wrong idea.
Don't let a quiet person go through everything
because other people tell the truth behind their back,
but think they're stupid, cowardly and cowardly.
That's a mistake.
Don't let a person easily accept forgiveness
for the harm that others have done to them,
but think they're easygoing,
compassionate and don't think deeply.
This is even more wrong.
There are things that we can't see through the expression of a person.
It is what time and the wind of life leave behind.
The external reflection may be just a little bit.
People who smile are usually people who have experienced a lot of winds and storms.
For them, suffering does not necessarily have to be tolerated.
Suffering does not necessarily have to use tears to explain to the world
how they are suffering.
Too many factors,
a smile is a simple story.
But maybe a smile after all the pain,
the pain,
not everyone can do it.
People who are always silent in the face of gossip
just don't tell the truth about themselves,
are not cowardly, afraid,
nor do they accept what others say about themselves.
They choose to be silent because they still have their own life to live
and maybe they have understood too much about this world
and they like to talk about other people
but forget to look at themselves.
They create the wind for life and themselves.
They consult the wisdom of others that no one knows.
For those who are easy to forgive those who hurt them,
they simply think that in this life,
there is someone who is not wrong.
Of course, everyone needs to be forgiven.
So don't take that easy
and challenge their patience to us.
Otherwise, at some point,
we will have to hurt ourselves.
Saying bad things about others does not make us better,
it only proves that it is a person with a weak mind.
Using words to hurt each other
is the fastest way for people to know the inner heart of that person.
This is an unparalleled stupidity.
So before talking about someone,
giving a comment about someone,
we should stop and think a little bit
whether it is worth doing that or not,
whether this is right or wrong, and whether it should be or not.
We don't know how they suffered during the wind.
If we are not in the situation,
we will never understand.
So don't just say hurtful things.
We can't judge a person's character
by the words of someone,
or just by a few lines of writing on Facebook
to understand a person.
Sometimes we have to spend a lot of time.
So just a few words,
a few lines of comments on social media
can tell the truth about a person's personality.
People are always suffering
because they stick to what they want
and don't let go of what they have to let go.
They want to have a peaceful life
while always causing a wave of wind.
They want to have it, but they don't want to lose it.
They want others to be good to them,
but they are very selfish.
If we pay attention,
we will realize an invisible rule.
Those who speak ill of others
despite the truth,
their life will be ruined sooner or later.
That is the result of bad karma
so that they have to accept all the truth.
Life is not colorful.
There are good people, there are bad people.
There are people who like to be quiet
and there are people who like to cause a wave of wind.
You can do what you like, what you want,
but you should never hurt others.