Moving to the PHILIPPINES Alone?!

when is your wedding it's not happening will you ever fall for a Filipino guy in the future and the weirdest thing for me was going on the very first date I felt like it was very awkward when are you coming back to Manila and the answer is very soon I cannot express how happy it makes me to know that you have my back and especially during times where I was doubting myself and when I was not sure how to continue with my life and with my channel you were there this video is sponsored by incogni guess what it is finally here [Music] thank you [Music] I still can't believe it it's here I reached 100 000 subscribers and this is such a huge milestone for me especially because you know a lot has changed in my life and this is actually my third silver play but my first one was with making it happen Vlog the second one with WhatsApp Philippines and now this is my Nellie's life silver play button for surpassing 100 000 subscribers thank you so so much for supporting me lately um I did not expect when I started uploading on my channel that this would happen so soon and um even my parents were messaging me saying hey did you see your views did you see your subscribers going really crazy and um yeah this is something that makes me very very emotional of course because I did it by myself and of course with the support of you guys so thank you so so much um but it means a lot to me like it's way more than just you know a number or um a big milestone for YouTube of course it's just it just means that Me Nelly is appreciated by you guys and um you're following my journey and my trips my travels I am so happy to read the comments every time and it's a massive amount of support that I received in the past few months I cannot express how happy it makes me to know that you have my back and especially during times where I was doubting myself and when I was not sure how to continue with my life and with my channel you were there you're my family out there who you know sent me messages of encouragement on a daily basis on a daily basis and that kept me going so well amazing amazing so uh yeah this is it I wanted to do the unboxing with you guys I'm super super proud of this it's so pretty um yeah I still have to find a place where to hang it up but yeah this is going to be a q a video so let's get straight into the Q a I'll just wipe my tears freshen up a little bit and uh then we'll get started [Music] all right kicking off this q a with the first question when is your wedding it's not happening in case you have missed it there has been a huge life shift for me in the last year I'm not getting married anymore so I am single and ready to mingle now I'm not here to talk about the reasons why it happened how it happened um there is a video statement that we put out together um explaining that we are going separate ways and we moved on since then so it has been quite a journey I must say uh last year was not that easy I would say the first half year of last year was quite uh strenuous but here I am back smiling so that's what counts how are you Nelly how are you coping up from the breakup how is your heart now like really so like really I feel like I am healed 80 from my breakup it has been I think over eight or nine months already and uh I am doing really well I am at peace with myself I am very grounded I am very joyful and I most importantly found myself again I'm very content about how I'm feeling I'm super happy and that's it in very very short how to move on uh one friend of mine said Nelly the things that you are going to do now is wake up eat healthy work out sleep repeat and that's what I did and additionally to that I did things that are making me happy I try to be a lot in nature I tried a lot of new things and I traveled I surrounded myself with other people as well and I also actively strive for healing techniques starting from doing yoga meditation I started dancing there are so many things that you can try that just ground you again and you know you can do a little reset and your anxiety dies down and it's it's it has been very helpful for me to just be away for a little bit um just to let my heart heal so I can highly highly recommend all of those things and I must say it has been very fulfilling to just be by my own after such a long relationship so I can do all the things that I want to do without regard for anybody else which has been very refreshing for me and the weirdest thing for me was going on the very first date with somebody else I felt like it was very awkward and I forgot how to do it and how to do you know these little dating things recently I had a huge problem with my data being sold online especially as a content creator that's a huge thing and a lot of people got access to my phone number I received quite a lot of spam calls and that was not so nice I have a solution for it which is incognate so something that most of us don't know is that there are data brokers who actually use our data for commercial purpose for example and the really scary part is they have so much data from you they know where you live they know what your IP address is what your phone number is what the email address is what your preferences are I don't even know what you wish for Christmas so that's kind of uh scary right and Company helps you protect your privacy and remove your data from this databases and this is how it works step one you create an account with Incognito step two you give them permission and have your data removed step number three sit back and let in Courtney deal all of the objections and all the work for you and of course you can try it out for yourself I will leave a link in the description box down below incognit was super super kind to offer my subscribers 20 off that was it and now back to the Vlog are you happy being single now yes I am I'm very happy um I have so much Freedom at the moment that I want to enjoy this to the fullest and hopefully someday I will fall in love again and then uh you know I will be with a partner but for now I do enjoy my single life a lot it has been rejuvenating experience and I've received messages from you guys saying hey Nelly you look so different like your aura is different your look is different and I do have to say I have more time to look after myself and um I just do the things that make me happy just me and I love it do you realize or notice that you're way different now from the old Nelly and I've received this a lot and especially friends of mine are saying we really love the new Nelly and I am full of life I am way more present I shifted my perspectives on a few things I've grown so much in the past few months as a person um yeah and I just went inwards and I'm happy what came out of it so here I am nearly 2.0 and even my sister said I do love seeing you so Lively and so vibrant so that's a huge compliment for me meaning that all the healing that I did and all the time that I invested in it was well worth it what did you discover about yourself after ending a long-term relationship this is a very good question and I discovered about myself that I can do so many things it was a great reminder for me that I am capable of doing big things by myself as well another question I just love your glow your aura beams with so much light keeps shining thank you so much um this is also something that I've received a lot and I think once you reach your inner peace and you let go of the old you open up to A Whole New World um that unlocks for you it's just so crazy and once you are aligned with your own values you just Shine from within um and I feel like I said very at peace very content and happy I'm very glad that it resonates are you open for dating and the answer is yes I have been on a few dates in the past few months it has been very interesting to get to know a few other men with some fantastic qualities but unfortunately there hasn't been that one yet where you know I fell in love with but I think Love Takes Time and it's nothing that should be rushed or forced and I'm very happy that I went on those dates because it has been really really nice will you ever fall for a Filipino guy in the future I have no idea maybe maybe not I I don't know what loves brings what future brings I'm not making any differences in terms of ethnicity or where you come from what language you speak I don't care as long as our values are matching um and we track we attract each other I'm happy talking of Filipinos next topic is the Philippines one of the most asked questions is when are you coming back to Manila and the answer is very soon the last time I've been to Manila was for my birthday I'm at George and Lucy I took care of our Airbnb Casa Minelli which I decorated um by the way if you want to book it link is in the description box down below it's always there I am coming back to Manila very soon like I'm talking a few weeks and it's going to be a very very exciting trip I'm going to do it with a bunch of other creators there will be a lot of exciting collabs and travels so stay tuned turn on the notification Bell you will see some familiar faces on the Vlog and some new faces probably as well so yeah it will be uh quite a quite a trip I would say I noticed that most of your posts lately are taken outside of the Philippines do you still live in the Philippines will you be spending time between Manila and Bali or another City so the answer is yes I have been quite around a lot I traveled a lot and it's something that I needed to do for me to have some some sort of distance so I decided since I'm single I'll travel a little bit and of course come home to the Philippines it's still my home base and yeah you just have to know that I will come back I'm a permanent resident and I'm proud to call Philippines my home but let's just say I will have a few home base as well I will just jump around and um make the most out of it future plans this is a tough one because you never know what life brings and my life looked very different a year ago so I could never say what my life will look like in future but uh yeah I got the question whether you see yourself in a year and five years from now on and the very simple answer is I don't know yet I do have big plans I do have a few goals that I want to achieve um but I could not say oh this is where I will be like I will have a house and kids and it'll be married or whatever this is not me I never planned long term I was focused on the now yeah life changes constantly and for me it's always a matter of adapting to life and most of the time I learned something new about myself and then I just switch no question but just wanted to tell you that you're doing a great job on your recent Vlogs thank you so much for the statement as well I do appreciate comments like this because you know it's my work it's my personality that I put out there my shots my filming and it makes me really happy to see that you guys are also enjoying my style uh I try to only shoot things that I'm passionate about so happy you appreciate it as well what is your plan for the rest of the year I want to diversify the content on my channel and also show you some beautiful spots around the globe of course so I think the best is if you follow me on Instagram so I'll keep you posted on that and one of the biggest goals for me is of course to travel as much as I can this year and one of my yeah must do's like one of my goals that I set for myself is to travel to Latin America so let's see about that I'm very very excited about that one question that I can answer is whether you see yourself one year from now on physically and emotionally I do see me being the best version of myself and that's something that I'm very proud about and I'll keep working on myself keep meditating keep doing the things that I love uh also just make sure that I have a healthy work life balance it has been really great for me to focus on the beauty of life as well and not blog all of it so that's all I can say for now alrighty I think that was it that was quite a lot uh thank you so so much again for helping me achieve this huge milestone it means the world to me and I do hope my videos will continue bringing you joy and happiness and Good Vibes and I'll see you guys on the next few videos there are a few very very exciting ones coming up so definitely subscribe hit the notification Bell and I'll see you guys next time I love you bye [Music] foreign [Music] [Applause] it's not happening will you ever fall for a Filipino guy in the future and the weirdest thing for me was going on the very first date I felt like it was very awkward when are you coming back to Manila and the answer is very soon I cannot express how happy it makes me to know that you have my back and especially during times where I was doubting myself and when I was not sure how to continue with my life and with my channel you were there