Nếu lỡ như những gì chúng ta dạy là đúng, những điều chúng ta nói cũng hợp với luân lý đạo đức mà trẻ vẫn làm trái thì sao? Hãy cùng nghe 2 câu chuyện của 2 nhân vật xưa đã "cãi" lời dạy và "gạt" lời khuyên của gia đình, nhưng vẫn là một trong những tấm gương hiếu thảo nhất mọi thời đại. Câu chuyện sẽ giúp chúng ta có thêm góc nhìn về việc:
1. Hiểu đúng điều gia đình dạy: Vũ Trọng Do làm trái lời cha dạy để giữ tròn đạo hiếu.
2. Hiểu đúng điều gia đình nói: Vũ Kiệm Lâu không nghe mẹ và vợ khuyên để có thể cứu cha.
Gợi ý quan trọng: - Dựa trên mỗi giá trị đạo đức khác nhau mà trẻ sẽ dùng đó để đối chiếu với 4 tiêu chí để bảo vệ gia đình thông qua việc hiểu đúng: "Điều gia đình dạy, Điều gia đình nói, Điều gia đình làm, và Điều bản thân nên làm" - Do đó, các câu chuyện trong clip này là đang dựa trên gốc đạo đức quan trọng nhất của con người đó là "Hiếu". Bởi người xưa có câu "Bách thiện Hiếu vi tiên" (Trong trăm điều thiện Hiếu đứng đầu)
The second thing is related to what the family said, what is the story?
It will be the story of Vũ Kiệm Lâu
who stole the advice of his wife and mother to one side
to share with his father
And as everyone knows, Vũ Kiệm Lâu's mother and wife advised him that
his father was old,
the departure of a person is natural,
old, sick, tired, difficult,
so we just let him go naturally.
The doctors and nurses all gave up
and said that they could not save him anymore.
So why only listen to a doctor who said it was pneumonia
to find a treatment?
But why did he follow?
It is possible that he could not do it,
but he could still bring in inhuman diseases.
And that pneumonia is an extremely bad thing.
Both his mother and his wife
don't want to see their husband and children
go through such poverty.
And what the mother and wife said is completely reasonable, right?
In terms of love, in terms of reason, it's all right.
People have to reach a certain level.
But sharing and experiencing such sharing
is very poor and very unnecessary,
and even not good for health anymore.
But Vũ Kiệm Lâu thought that
parents can live with themselves,
and on any day or day,
as a child, even if there is only a little hope
to be able to save their father, they have to do it.
And he said that
if the pneumonia is bitter,
then the father still has a chance to save him.
So why not now
to find another chance to save his father?
And no matter what happens, he is willing.
And so he lied to his mother
and lied to his wife
and pneumonia into his mouth.
And the sad thing is that after the pneumonia,
he had to leave
because the pneumonia tasted sweet,
that is, the disease had gone deep into the uterus,
and could no longer be saved.
But as you can see through this story,
even though he could not save his father in the end,
but the behavior of Vũ Kiệm Lâu
showed his filial piety.
And again,
because he kept his filial piety,
and had a strong filial piety in his heart,
he had the right independence
and made the right decision for himself.
Many people will look at it and say
it's not right at all,
like his mother and wife,
and say all love, all reason, all meaning,
which is very reasonable.
But because he wanted to keep his filial piety,
he put everything aside
and did what he thought was right to do.
And you see,
in this situation,
what parents say,
what people around them say
may be extremely right,
but if the child has the right morality in his heart,
then the child will be able to act appropriately
and appropriately for himself, right?
Although that behavior can hurt you,
as in the case of Vũ Kiệm Lâu,
but looking back,
you will feel extremely happy
because your child has become a filial child,
a child with filial piety in his heart.
And just one more thing for you guys,
this burial is also a very dangerous part.
But in history,
there has also been a person who buried,
that is, Viet Vuong Cau Tien,
because he was humiliated,
so he tried to bury King Ngo Vuong Phu Sai
to get the trust of King Ngo Vuong Phu Sai
and later conquered Ngo
and became the master of Viet.
However, after he finished burying,
his mouth was swollen
and could never be treated again.
So you can see
one of the harmful effects of burying is like this.
These people also know that,
but they are willing to accept.
Why?
Mainly,
in the first place,
harm to the body is nothing.
And that is the story of what the family teaches
and what the family says.
And after the next clip,
there will be two more stories.
Please watch the next two stories.
And see you again
in the next stories.