100% Correct way of Hugging a girl | Aftercare in relationships

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Oct 13, 2026
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AI GeneratedThis video provides a girl's perspective on navigating romantic and social interactions, offering specific advice on the proper way to hug, the hidden meanings behind different colored heart emojis, and the critical importance of aftercare following intimacy to ensure a partner feels valued.
If you're a boy and you ever plan on hugging a girl, then this video is for you.
Coming from a girl, I'm going to tell you that there's 100% a correct way to hug
a girl, and if you do the right way, she's 100% going to fall in love with you.
So here's what you're going to do.
Number one, if you're hugging her for the first time in your life,
do not hug her from behind. You're going to catch her so off guard,
and she's literally going to be so uncomfortable.
Next, when you lean in, you need to be confident and assertive.
You can't start to lean in and then totally pull back because that is going
to be so awkward. Once you lean in for the first time, you have to commit to it.
Number three, you need to hug her with two arms. We do not do side hugs over here.
When you approach her, you're going to be standing directly in front of her,
so you can wrap both arms around her. One hand should be a little bit higher,
and then one should be on the small of her back.
Make sure you're hugging her tight, and then just as she pulls away,
hold on for like a millisecond longer. This is going to make her heart melt.
If you want to know what to do after hugs so it's not awkward,
how to take it to the next level, that will be in the next video.
If a girl sends you a white heart, what does that mean?
Look, I'm a girl, so I feel like I can make this.
We are so freaking confusing. Like emojis, that we use mean different things.
If we send you this emoji, this is what it means.
Now, if a girl sends the classic red heart, you, she is down bad.
This is past relationship level.
This means like you guys are either dating or you even said I love you.
If you're not at this level though, and she sends you a red heart,
she wants to be exclusive with you.
Now, the pink heart is kind of for the talking stage.
You're not so committed that is sending red hearts,
but girls will not send like a green heart.
Girls will send a pink heart to their friends,
maybe their family, or a boy they're talking to.
Also, if you want to know the difference between talking situation and dating,
let me know. I can make a video on that too.
Now, any other color heart that a girl sends, white, green, black,
that's more of a like you're in the friends of kind of heart.
Like I appreciate you, but we're just not on that kind of level.
Then if a girl just doesn't send you a heart at all, boy,
I have some bad news for you. Because every girl loves an emoji.
If you have any other questions about us girls, I'm here for you.
Tell me you guys know what aftercare is. If you're in a relationship
or you ever plan on being in one, then you need to know what it means.
Aftercare is basically just what it sounds like.
It is what happens directly after an intimate experience with your partner,
and intimate can mean whatever you want it to mean. We are done with the cracking
and leaving because coming from a girl, let me tell you,
aftercare is actually more important than the actual intimate actions that you have.
So what does aftercare actually look like? It is taking care of your partner.
It is staying with them instead of getting up and leaving the room.
Please do not go on your phone immediately after.
And for the love of everyone, fight that post clearly.
It looks like holding your partner, cuddling them,
telling them how much you mean to them. Because if you don't do these things,
they're going to think that you just used them for that experience.
This goes for guys and girls. Both parties need to participate in aftercare.
If you have any other questions, I am your girl. No question is TMI.
