YOUR FEMALE RELATIVES WANT YOU TO BE ABUSED BY MEN #narcissist

I've just come into the realization that the women in my family, not all of them, but the majority are pick me women, they're pick me's. And I'm at an age right now where my discernment is so heightened that I have like picked apart the anatomy of my family, both sides, my mother's side and my father's side. I've picked it apart and studied everybody's personality, the patterns in their behavior, and how much of a negative impact it had on me and my poor choices and toxic friendships and bad men. And just, um, it's crazy to me. So in other words, what I'm saying is the women in our families groomed us and set us up to be in abusive relationships. Why? Because they forced us to remain close to the abusive men in our family. Ladies, I want you to take a good look at your father, your brothers, your uncles, your nephews. Look at the men in your family. How many of them are narcissists, womanizers, abusers, put their hands on a woman. Now I want you to go back And think of all the times that your grandmother, your mother, your aunties, they forced you to be around these men. Oh, I left out child predator, pedo. We got them in our family too. The men in your family. Oh, yes, we do. What makes me sick to my stomach is these men in our family have committed so many crimes against women. But our mothers and grandmothers and aunties want us to overlook that toxic behavior and stay enmeshed with these men and remain a family because they're blood. Oh, but oh, no, no, no, no. Our mothers and grandmothers have taught us wrong. Oh, yes. That is pick me behavior. our mamas and grandmamas and aunties are constantly seeking male validation they are male-centered and they love a ******* abusive man they love men that abuse women they might be out here popping ---- saying oh we don't we don't tolerate domestic violence that's a goddamn lie because if they didn't tolerate domestic violence they would have been cut off all the men in their family no they steady inviting these niggas to Thanksgiving dinner they invite these niggas to come around for barbecues and family functions knowing they touch on children knowing they beat on women knowing they're serial cheaters cheating is abuse beating on a woman is abuse using a woman for money is abuse being a deadbeat father is abuse but you give these men a pass because they're our relatives our uncles our daddies our brothers our nephews no this is how we as women are groomed and set up to be in abusive relationships it starts with the men in our family what we were raised around and the women that support it it's your motherfucking mother and grandmother that support this ---- your aunties why are we being invited to family functions and these abusive men are invited too I'm a ******* say it because I don't give a **** I know my family cyber stalks the **** out of my page I've blown up I'm a huge social media influencer you know I'm a public figure I can't hide anything anymore so I speak freely and I don't give a **** but I'm gonna sit here and say I am truly disgusted at the women in my family And when I say women, my elders, my elderly aunts, my grandmother, both grandmothers, you know, my mother's mother is deceased, but she was problematic when she was alive. She was. She might have been kind and sweet, but she was totally a covert narcissist who enabled a lot of drama and dysfunction and chaos amongst her children. Played favoritism with her sons, knew her sons were womanizers and abusers, favored them over her daughters. my grandmother may she rest in peace was a big old pick me my father's mother was married to a serial cheater and a woman beater she gave birth to three sons they're all woman beaters but there was this constant pressure that she you know on on the girls in the family that you ain't ---- if you can't get a man keep a man and marry a man you ain't ---- why because she was able to get a man she was able to have a husband and stay married for 50 ******* years even though my granddaddy had a baby on her with his side chick my grandmother thought she was so better than single women because she was married whole time they hated each other whole time they slept in separate bedrooms granddaddy was cheating always had a wandering cheating eye all three of her sons including my father put their hands on women abuse women fucked up in the head abusive womanizing but yet we were taught to love these men anyway and and participate in family functions with them that is grooming ladies you do know that is grooming so when the women in your family are pressuring you to be in the same spaces as the abusive men in your family what does that say about those women they're narcissists covert sneaky narcissists that play both sides of the fence yeah they might talk ---- about your uncle your brother their nephews and call them woman beaters and cheaters but they'll never cut the niggas off they'll never tell the niggas stay away from the family we don't trust you around the children we don't trust you around the girls these men still get an invite and a pass to come around this is grooming it's grooming and the women in our family our elders are ******* sick and male-centered I can even look at my baby brother I love my brother but i will never **** with him ever again why my brother is a woman beater my brother has physically assaulted my younger sister and i can't stand that bitch i can't stand her or my mother but the truth is the truth he has physically assaulted women before if he will put his hands on his baby sister he'll beat anybody he'll he'll lay hands on any woman that's the truth and he was not the best father to his daughters. I'm scared and terrified of what type of men they'll end up with because we learn everything about a man from our fathers. And if he was abusive towards his baby mother, and he was, I don't like the bitch. I can't stand her. But the truth is the truth. She was nasty to him, but he was equally abusive to her. So his children will learn off the example he set. It's going to be real interesting what type of men they end up with. That's all I'm say everything starts in our families y'all before we get out here and date and pick and choose the type of men we end up with the men in our family have set the standard and the women in our family reinforce that standard to set us up to fail so i don't respect my female elders they know they're dead wrong they know they set us up to fail my mother is married to a ******* pedo knows the man touched me repeatedly would not divorce him i don't know why she's still with him he's broke as **** he's nasty dirty old washed up and she cheats on him she totally cheats on him but she's so she has such low self-esteem she has to cling on to her married title because her married title Mrs makes her feel validated and special and more superior over single women she's a piece of ---- mother married to a ******* pedo everything starts with the women in your family supporting the abusive men in your family. Cut them all off.