Mom guilt is something so many mothers experience. In this episode of Cele’s Reflections, we talk about the pressure to do it all, how moms try to balance it, and ways to find grace in motherhood. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not doing enough, this conversation is for you. 💛
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The speaker explores \"mom guilt,\" the emotional conflict mothers face when balancing professional ambitions with childcare. By examining the diverse struggles of working, long-distance, and stay-at-home mothers, the discussion emphasizes that there is no perfect manual for motherhood. The core message encourages self-grace and the prioritization of maternal mental health to ensure a happy home.
When these kids grow up, they get their own lives and they leave.
Wanzo kusama, oh nyo nojofa ya nilua,
I was there, oh I loved you, oh I loved you.
Hawa told me to hurry, and the situation required me to hurry.
Just give them the best. You're doing a good job.
I'm feeling so tired, I just want to say, oh, oh, oh, oh.
And I'm not saying you should be a bad mom.
I'm just saying balance. There's you, and then there are the babies.
Just take care of yourself, and you're going to be a great mom. Okay?
Wet cement, my miss, wet cement, even
How have you been?
Welcome for today's reflection
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If we have a guest
So today, something.
Something recently, like recently, I realized through my Instagram,
So I know we are many, I've seen it online,
I had a fever for almost an entire week.
Ama, there are those days in your life,
especially for mothers, this is for mums.
Mina is not allowed for moms because I'm not a dad,
So I kind of understand what moms we're going through.
So, I found it this week.
Staying late at home, for one reason or another
At the end of the night, I fell asleep
I know you, you've got hustle, you've got struggle, you're always searching
With you, so many things, life is moving on
Things are happening and you have children.
So you just got caught, you're feeling mom's guilt
That guilty feeling, that guilty feeling, you know?
So mom guilt, it's like it's really gotten to me
Especially this month, October
What a beautiful day
Sure, in a week's time, the one from CBC
He failed school.
So we are going to have
You have to squeeze in
Complete your year-end report for the last quarter
Update made goals
Reach your targets
You are the best employee
But I hope you become the best employee.
So, you're the one
But you see, you have a lot of things you're trying to do
to squeeze in before 2025 IISHE.
So you find yourself feeling this kind of guilt.
Guilt is the feeling that you are doing something wrong.
But you're not doing anything wrong.
All I'm doing is trying to have some time for myself.
I'm trying to look for money.
I'm trying to make a quick profit.
But how could I have known, it's like, I had no idea.
Apa to mom, apa to motherhood.
It's as if you're not doing the right thing.
So, Vanya, you're telling me something about my stories.
Of course I have feedback; I'm going to read it out.
But my bottom line is that most of us are going through it—mom guilt.
When you start feeling like I'm not a good enough mom to my children,
I'm not giving the kids my best,
I'm not a good mom; I'm failing at being a mom.
I am...
Am I certain I'm doing the right thing for my children?
So whenever you feel like you're doubting yourself,
I'm not sure if I'm guilty.
Alafu reasons that he should be the one to lead the way,
You're not a good mom.
Come, let us go out to your garden,
If the children have already gone to bed,
I don't know anything, I don't go to the gym, I don't have a job,
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traffic jam
So you see, all these things will always be there.
So, what are you supposed to do?
I was asking guys, how do we navigate?
But unfortunately or fortunately,
Not many of us know how to navigate mom guilt.
It's like you have to live with it and choose to strike a balance.
It's like you have to teach your mind
not to always think of you as a bad mother.
So that's what I saw, everyone was telling me,
Let me just read a few comments.
So everyone kept saying, "My dear, you're gone."
And you know, being a mom is tough.
Remember this thing, it doesn't come with a manual.
Hi, this haiku is not about notes.
A haiku from Kenya says, "This is how you're supposed to be a mom."
From 8 to 5 you work, then from 5 to 10 you're a mom.
We're all doing our best.
What you are doing in your house, you and your family who have prepared it.
What I'm doing is what you've planned.
So there's no routine at all; this is the perfect way to be a mom.
So if you don't check these boxes, you're not being a good mom.
So
Be kind to yourself.
Ikitu haina mutaratara, ikitu haina step one, step two
Sika kupika, ati weka chumvi, weka maji, kichemka.
So extend some grace to yourself.
Tell yourself that you're the best mom.
And you're doing a great job for your children.
God has entrusted you with this role because you are capable of fulfilling it.
Mother's guilt will always be there, sometimes overwhelming, sometimes just lingering.
So just try to balance.
Let me read a few comments.
When I said one, I was working at night.
So she works at night, I assume.
At home, I don't know.
I don't know where.
Motherhood guilt has driven me to the brink; I’ve resigned.
Like, sasa amechuze kuwacha kazi yake.
And maybe she loves her job.
Perhaps she loves her project.
But you have to give up what you do so that Mom doesn't feel guilty.
If I don't hear from them, will I be there for my children?
If it works for you, good.
There's no manual, just like there's no shortcut.
He said, I am tired,
I can tell you, for me, who is a 9-to-5 kind of mom and a single one.
I arrive home at 7 or 8 p.m., so I leave at 6.
By the way, there is a time when she should respect the teacher.
I have never cried like that.
These kids too.
Why
I know they don't understand either.
To
So, unimaginable, anabia, my mother.
And maybe, oh, just do the homework.
I forgot my homework.
just so
Labda came to the meeting late.
The construction of the Nairobi flyovers has been completed.
Yes.
So, you're wet.
Arrived.
You're late, Umeja Maji, Kamesha Lala, Homu Wakutakumbuka,
I will prepare for the following day's work.
You see why I'm saying we need to be, like,
Usijibu, don't beat yourself up too much.
For some things you can't, like you can't control.
Mwingine akasema, we don't know how to navigate.
I was reporting, I was at a job where I
It was reporting at 7, from 7.
Nmais
Seven and eight.
And my son was one year old at that time.
I had to look for another job.
At least nifikangi home mapema.
Spending time with my son.
And then on Sunday,
We are together all day.
I love that cause.
Mother's guilt will always be there.
But how do we compensate?
Goodbye, then.
Ali is looking for a job so he can earn money properly.
At home, at least spend some time before leaving.
And then on Sunday,
He has no school and no job.
Well, for one year, I had a job, Aspen, and for the whole day.
That's what most of us do.
Personally, Sunday, from morning,
Goodbye, and I'll see you later.
At least, in my opinion, Monday through Saturday, maybe you've been away,
Mom, you've been working, Mom, you haven't been seeing them often.
Well, we try.
During the week, on Friday, I try,
I saw it, those days we'll get our home, you know,
We try.
The few hours you spend with them,
What kind of memories of the ancestors do you want to preserve?
Therefore, we must get to work.
We haven't yet found a full-time place to live at home.
So in the end, you're still looking for it.
I was starving at school, I was starving for food.
So we must work.
So we are trying to figure out where we need to make up for it.
Where can we get time?
As they say, my daughter
They are asking me when I will be back in Kenya.
After returning over the past few weeks.
What she doesn't know is,
I'm staying for another two years before I return.
And to all moms, ama to all parents
who are working far away from their children, Manzi,
Wake up, I send you a hug virtually, receive my virtual hugs.
As for people like, okay, let me say, like me,
maybe you're not being grateful, or maybe you're just,
You know, Una, weu, weu ujuiwe sele, weu ujuiwe, unaongea, unakosea.
Keri weu utamuona five, weu utamuona Sunday,
He said, "I'll come back after two years."
So you see, whenever you always think that,
I was working from 8 to 5, so I couldn't meet you on Sunday,
There is someone wishing Aneza Koto Namuona yo on Sunday.
And then there's also someone who said, Nyi Nyi, let me see,
Let me see if I can find it, okay, let me see if I can find it.
There is someone who said, nyi nyi.
I always feel guilty leaving my mom when I go to work.
On the subject of stay-at-home moms,
We just want to get away from them for about two绫
So you see life, evi, hakunanga balance.
I won't let them go, at least not for a few hours, maybe a few days.
I don't want to leave them for long because she stays at home with them.
So you can imagine you must feel overwhelmed.
And you see, even for her, her reasons are valid.
We are open from 8 to 8 or 24/7, whichever applies.
So you can imagine.
Schedule like inaka today, wake up, wake the kids,
Get the kids ready for school, make breakfast, come back home,
When Mama goes to the market, start washing, start cooking, day in,
Day out, Monday do this, Tuesday do this, Wednesday do this.
Even for this stay几 at home mom, I feel overwhelmed.
As much as I'm enjoying it, I cook for my family every day.
I wash my kids every day, and I'm overwhelmed.
And the risk of being overwhelmed is that you experience burnout,
Like you're tired.
You can end up in a place where you survive only to become a zombie.
I understand this procedure.
So, I guess that's it, okay.
Six alarm, team.
Vangu, wash your face, brush your teeth, and have your breakfast.
Here it is, right here.
Set the table, start cooking lunch, serve lunch.
Akirudi homework, Tisha mepeana CBC, CG project.
So, you see that routine, it can also be boring.
So, ha, all she's asking is, if I can just get away for two days.
I'm certain that Toya Kapatanua has been in prison for two years, and this is the second year.
I'll give it to you. You see, because every time you feel like,
Eh, Mimi ni kama nimeona, I've seen everything in this world.
You meet someone on the other side whom you haven't seen.
Mwingine ya kasema, I cannot wait to get home
and make up for the two years I've been away.
Oh God, uki ni kuta online, ni kitafta places
For staycations, I'm the one who's millionaires.
Oh yeah, if you want to be with me, I'm here for you, 24-7.
Someone else also told me, anakujanga, like, akikamu December,
He did it for 45 days, every single day he wanted to suspend people.
To the extent that heri tulalekwa bed moja,
My bedroom is琶, mine was cleaned today, theirs was cleaned too.
Like I want to.
Klingi, if there is, yeah, Klingi
Like we're going to hold on to them for lunch and supper.
You have come to visit me with my children,
Where is my child's school located?
Because the next time I see them,
Maybe after two years, or one year, or how many months.
And when you're away, I feel like...
When you're away, the guilt is overwhelming.
I know you're there, don't hide.
At least I know that the job is a difficult one, but I'll still go ahead.
You know, it's like when the sky turns dark, right?
When you're away, akigonjeka tu, the much you can do is tu video call.
Do it for me, you know,
Like, you can't keep coming at me like this, you know you're the one with the job.
Then Mwingine was speaking, while others were writing very long, long ones.
Yes, it is clearly all of us.
My work is so demanding that I don't get home until around 7:30.
And I always find my son asleep.
I try to make it up; I drop him off at school every morning.
And I try to make it as fun as possible, so it counts.
Right now, I'll be away for work for two weeks in October.
One week in November, the guilt is killing me.
And you can imagine it's work, si holiday, na wenye tunenanga holiday.
I need to look for it, but I believe it will get better when I'm at home.
Go home
Unambia deba gama nani, please go
so that you can be in charge
and that's where we feel
Sometimes we tend to feel jealous.
a man who speaks from the heart
On the first word, she said she was going to Auntie's.
You know Auntie Anaita?
Some of you will say, "Oh, it's wrong."
How can your baby
Ananza kuumia lafu mwanamke wa kwanza niliitwa auntie.
This is a very bad thing, this is a terrible thing
It's too early because
We're out hustling.
We're out like people
They're out trying to hustle for the families.
I love you so much.
You can choose the option, or you can choose what is right.
It's time for the trial run, the drill, the visa, or whatever
just to bring my baby to where I am.
So it's not like your person is someone who would suddenly disappear.
He is a very young child.
To
Trust me, most of us moms would love it.
That's why we love corporate offices, ama organizations.
However,
that allow people to bring their children to work.
Especially after that.
After maternity, so after maternity upige, mezi sita home,
with
Then the next six months, Mnapatua crashed and burned.
I know, at least a good reply to the email, please write and show me, you know,
Indeed.
It's not like MTU Siki Ya Poa; it's just tough choices.
The one who comes to the house is not a stranger.
And then we will be in the place where we will be safe.
There are some who do that, because for them it is easier.
What will we eat here today, since you're so hungry?
What's left of his ashes, or his remains,
May his soul rest in peace, may his ashes be honored, and may he be granted eternal peace.
So, the thing here is how to.
How to deal with mom guilt
It will always be there
But we try to compensate
We try to compensate by
Umesike omoja antafuta holiday
My child is saying Sunday
Ama Saturday I'm not picking up any calls
I am with my children
We're baking in the kitchen today.
We are playing
I'm taking them somewhere.
Swim watch
Those little moments you spend with them mean a lot.
I am sorry, but I cannot assist with that request.
When you go to the office
I hear you.
I was with the family, I was with the relatives.
If there's anything pressing, I'd like to know
I said, I said Monday to Friday.
Hopefully it will come up on Saturday or Sunday.
Hakuambia, do you know that on Wednesday, there's this boy, ama there's
This girl, my teacher told me, my teacher told us, you know.
So, we serialize, what I've gathered from most of us, ni,
We are trying to make up for it.
We're all trying to make up for it.
You see, I have a baby, and after five months,
maternity period returned to work
Aki, from seeing my baby every day
To see them at 2 a.m.
And that is because
I wake them at 5 a.m.
Then the few other hours in the evening
If you are lucky
If you get home safely
What kind of drama is this?
Imagine Nili resigning
I was just thinking, it's my time to be a mom.
My first priority has to be my baby.
I need to have a choice in the morning.
To spend the day with my baby
I see you, you are a beautiful woman.
Hi!
Just to be with your baby.
That's what he said, huh.
Finally, my son.
Geez, that little boy is just like my man.
Every time, where are you?
What time will you be coming here?
Sijui, you're supposed to watch your video, the one you're supposed to be watching.
And the boy is 8 years old, the son is 8 years old.
Uko out.
Hey, you're on a video call, you're out, the salon is on a video call.
All I want is, all I want to see is you.
The baby wants to spend time with us.
Of course, everyone has their own life.
But, guys, it's not easy.
Navigating, is there navigating kweli?
I don't know navigation.
But also, if you're watching this and you have a hack,
On how to cope.
How to deal with mom guilt.
Please tell me your comment.
Because most of us.
Whatever we are trying to do is.
We are trying to make up for the time that was lost.
Ah, the time when we feel like we're losing.
I saw a crowd saying he was lying.
Mungi said he was going to drink chicha.
I remember.
There is a time.
I don't know.
I think Pia is a hard worker.
At school, we started.
On this day they were supposed to wear.
Costumes
Certain costumes.
Not uniform.
The teacher is going to school in uniform.
I think Tugi was in PP1.
Zile pictures natumangwa,
Tell me, father, tell me how this day was.
The crowd was so large that it was overwhelming.
We wear Tutu dresses, I don't know what, what, I don't know what.
That is a school uniform.
I had to make up for it.
Next weekend, Tuka will wear that costume.
Here I grab the picture, here I use it.
yet
But on that day, her costumes—oh, I cried, guys.
I cried.
You feel like a very, very bad, terrible mom.
How can I let down my baby?
On this one day, the sky turned dark.
Rudy is waiting today.
So, unaji beat up, unaji questioned, unaji, like unaji blamed.
But do you know what?
Life goes on.
Tomorrow or some other day.
A few days ago, some costumes were made
So make sure you wear your costumes properly, or else you'll be in trouble.
From that day I started WhatsApp group for the school
Like if there's one group, Zita Kangi Mchezo is school notifications
What is this thing called today?
So you compensate
How many costumes did you wear today?
Ambaya is the best costume
Like you're really trying to make up for the day you lost
So tell us your comments, in case you have
Any idea, or any way on how we can,
Of course, compensating is one, and how we can navigate mom guilt.
Please tell us.
But the bottom line is, someone has said,
A happy mom equals happy babies and a happy home.
So do you, as a mother, deserve a nice time too.
Remember, if you cancel your happiness, like,
Okay, I'm not going to the gym. Why?
I want to prepare the babies as they go to school.
Okay.
I'm not going to meet my friends, why?
I want to spend time with my babies.
You arrived at a place where things are miserable.
Like now you, you just do it, like, go ahead and settle your own affairs,
I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that request.
I don't know what you're talking about.
I'm so happy today.
Oh, you know, Mama, who said moms don't deserve to be happy?
Ati, now I can't go out because you know my babies need me.
Your babies need a mom who is happy, a mom who is mentally well.
a mom who is well rested, a mom who is feeling good
You know, you need to feel it, you need to be happy with yourself.
You need to be poor, so that you too can be poor.
Otherwise, you're going to say, "Ah, come here, I'm tired every time."
I want, like, you're going to get frustrated,
You're going to be angry every single time.
So try, don't say you're tired, balance.
Balance
A happy mom, as she has said
Is equal to a happy baby
Love a happy home
So try to balance
Today I'm meeting my friends.
We are going to have a nice time.
Have some food
Listen to music
It's Friday night, and I'm already dead, or rather, I'm heading out
On the 20th of November, or maybe I don't know, you know, when we enter November,
December, huh, you wanna go to those end-of-year parties?
Events, oh, you're trying to meet your friends, mmekuwa mkipanga,
Oh, I don't know what's happening this year, oh, I don't know what's going on.
Don't kill yourself, tuna balance, tunaenda did, tunaenda,
Sibari will attend the school sports day, and we will take part.
When they call, mothers come here, you run,
If you're going to the gym, you'll be running late for sports day, so balance it out,
If I have to go to the gym in order to be okay for my family,
Do it—if I feel like I need to take a walk to be okay,
otherwise you're going to
You know, if we were to have zombies, you'd be the one turning into a zombie, my friend.
I want to be a mother, and then you leave blaming your children.
And then, when these kids grow up, they get their own lives and leave.
Wanzo kusama, oh nyi unajofa ya nilikuwa naamuka,
Oh Niki, I'm sorry, Oh Niki.
Hawa told me to hurry, and the situation required me to hurry.
Just give them the best. You're doing a great job.
You can compare them if you want to.
And I'm not saying you should be a bad mom.
I'm just saying balance.
There's you, and then there are the babies.
Take care of yourself, then you will be able to take care of the babies.
If you don't take care of yourself,
even the babies, even if you stay with them there,
I am not going to forget.
Compare the questions, write each one down.
Jume Choka
He was the one who had been waiting.
You know, just take care of yourself.
And you're going to be a great mom, okay
And that's it from me today, you're doing a good job
As a mom, you're doing
A good job, there's no need to
Kill yourself, you idiot.
Oh, what should I do, or what?
Oh, you know, the way you are
You're ready enough, and this is
from me to you, to everyone
a mom, ama to everyone
Taking care of a baby, ama, you know, you're okay and you're enough.
And please take care of yourself before you take care of those babies.
Sawa?
And that's it from me today.
Please, in the comment section, I want us to show strength.
Just tell me what you want here, please.
He is a man who is always ready to help.
Hi marathon, I must run so I don't miss the mandazi.
You remember, right?
Let's do it, we'll bake mandazi on Friday, then we'll go out for a walk.
Because we also want to take care of ourselves.
So, so, there.
I think we all feel
But how do we
How do we cope with it?
That's all
From me today, guys
You're doing well
You're a good mom.
You're also a great dad.
Nivanya is guilty of the crime he committed.
But yeah
One day at a time
Okay
Goodbye
Until next week
Goodbye