Материнство от 0 до года. Ответы на Самые Задаваемые Вопросы, от Коликов до Зубов.

Hello everyone, welcome to my youtube channel, since I have a blog on instagram, there is my youtube channel, there is also a child who recently turned one year old throughout this year after his birth, questions began to arise every time about what I put on him, why we bought this, why we didn't buy this, but why do we need this, why do we need that, and so on, and so on, and so on throughout the year, and now these questions are still continuing and there are constantly a lot of them, which is why I decided to shoot this video to answer all the questions that have ever been asked about maternity, about my child, I have collected all these questions in a bunch and now I will answer them. So the question is, hello, why do you use cycoplast, lipicar and cream in general? Initially, when I was collecting a bag at the maternity hospital and studying different care products for children, I bought a cream for diapers and there was also an ordinary lipicar, which is moisturizing if there is some kind of dry skin, because babies very often at the beginning of the first three months often have dry skin somewhere, so at that moment I bought a diaper for a diaper, which we no longer use, I replaced it with a cream that is called cycoplast, in my opinion, at the moment I use lipicar and cycoplast, I don't use other creams and diapers, they just lie like that, and the same cream that is cycoplast, we use it if he has some kind of crumple, now, for example, he has here on the chin, due to the fact that the teeth are getting in, very often drooling, because of this, pimples appeared, then when he had numbness on his neck due to severe heat, he also had such pimples as small drooling, too, cycoplast helped perfectly, and when the skin dries somewhere, then lipicar is an excellent cream, and I also bought recently due to the fact that now we have summer heat, the sun is also from Liorosh, sunscreen, I also attach photos, the next question, tell me the child's regime at 4 months, then, as far as I remember, he had a night's sleep from about 9 to 10 and until 8-9 in the morning, in principle, we are also sleeping now, then he had lunch sleep, this is somewhere at 11 and up to an hour, then he still had his evening sleep, it was usually somewhere between 4 and 6 o'clock in the evening, and this is the regime, in principle, he was going to stop Eric for a year, if I'm not mistaken, yes, that's right, I thought that I would feed him until the year, but since it is summer now and now his teeth are actively getting in, and he is often very capricious because of this, and his chest calms him down very well, and when he wants to drink, he just finds me in the house , crawls up to me and uses, so to speak, my chest, and so I think that in the summer I will still feed him, and in the fall I will definitely complete my pregnancy, I think you paid attention to my such an elegant romantic blouse, new, and most likely you will ask me in the comments where I bought it, where I ordered it, I ordered it from Walgreens, I will leave the link and the article in the description for this video, and also I ordered two more basic black blouses from this store, I think I will now change so that I do not have a video in the same clothes, because it will be quite long, for this you need to change clothes in the same store, I ordered such a basic black blouse, it looks very cool with such light blue jeans, you can even go with your son for a walk in this blouse and the cool thing about it is that here is such a seam that supports the chest very well, everything is very modest, although in short, in principle, I really like it here, you can still put on some massive sneakers and it will be very cool and one more now such a more sexy option, I would say I don't know how to wear it on a daily basis, I'm not used to this, in principle, but for the sake of the experiment I decided to order it, it seems to me that in this way you can go to some evening meeting with friends or with a husband or a boyfriend on a date and it is very cool, it harmonizes so well with jeans, you could still put on here, for example, some kind of jeans skirt, now it is fashionable with this midi cut in the middle, which is very long, because if you put something very tight on the bottom, it will not look very good, but in this version, as it were, a combination of the fact that everything goes on top of the tightness and sexiness and here such a baggy look, everything looks, it seems to me very cool, it looks closer, it stretches very cool, my size is XS, because I am very small and thin, here is such a bandage, this lace can be pulled as you generally want, you can tighten it somehow, you can just tie it up, I like it in this version, I will leave all the links to these blouses in the description for this video, I ordered them all on Valberets, I will also leave the article, because not everyone is comfortable with the link, someone is comfortable with the article, be sure to order, very cool quality and very pleasant leather fabric. How many months has Eric crawled? There is such a table on the Internet, according to which mothers are guided, that is, the periods from which month the child is normal, should start crawling, should start getting up on the blanket, walking and blah blah blah, we have Eric at the beginning did almost to the last month, so we can say he crawled with us for 8 months, he began to crawl with us, he was almost 8 months old, Angelica, tell me what kind of vaccinations Eric was given, this is a rather difficult question, the most difficult vaccinations at the moment he has only those that were done in the maternity hospital, now I have been writing a refusal for a year to study this issue more thoroughly, of course, I did not study it to the end, I still have a lot of doubts whether to do it or not, we have a competent pediatrician who argues any of his or someone else's point of view all the time, it is evidence-based medicine, I think that I will contact him for a consultation, we will talk to him, maybe he will convince me towards vaccinations or vice versa, although all adequate doctors, in my opinion, on the contrary, convince in the direction of vaccinations, in general, I want to hear from him all the pros and cons, and then we will decide whether to put it or not, most likely which ones we will definitely put, and maybe we will refuse from some, I can't say for sure yet, to be aware, be sure to subscribe to my instagram and there you will already find out in the end what vaccines we put and whether we will put them at all, please tell me the pot of Eric and where you place it, I bought a pot for Eric from the happy baby brand, it is not cheap enough because they began to write to me that it is too expensive, I liked its color, the fact that it fits into the interior, yes, as if it was funny for many, it didn't sound, but it's important to me, it's important to a lot of people, he also has suction cups at the bottom thanks to which he does not roll on the floor, and that is, when the child will sit on it, he will not be scared for sure, and another one of the advantages of this brand is this pot, this is the fact that it is very thick plastic because I read in the reviews on Valberts and other pots that it often happens that the child sits down and this is the bottom of the pot, it seems to move apart under his ass and under his weight, but imagine the child learns to go to do his business on this plastic thing, a plastic container, it moves all the time, creaks, of course, he can get scared and get some kind of psychological trauma associated with his modifications now while we are not so active we teach him a pot while we are slowly learning in terms of so that he generally understands what he is doing there and so on, so often we keep him without a pot, let's sign to play, I think everyone has come across this how much Eric sat down to my son seven and a half months does not sit Eric with us, as I said, by 8 months he crawled, and in general, I don't remember exactly, but it was exactly between 8 and 9 months period when he sat down with us, but how did he start to sit down, I did not sit him down in the first place, I always fed him as you saw on his knees, but he did not sit with me, I kept him in the weight, or his ass sat down between his knees, such a squat, as in slings, when their legs are torn with the letter m, this is how he sat between my legs, it turns out, and so I fed him when I started to feed him, and then when he already started in a chair and half-lying and with his own strong press, it turns out that he raised himself, I realized that he can start to sit down because once he has a back, it is the lower back that is already the stomach, this is all strong, you can already start to sit him down, I started to sit him down sometimes just by fastening either among the pillows and he has already learned to sit and then at some point it turns out mostly the same children how to sit down from the position of the mermaid, in my opinion, it is called when they somehow turn out with a barrel and sit down, he sat down with us, he just crawled up to the threshold of the balcony, crawled up so with a pen he rested and sat down it happened when I was not at home, my husband then recorded a video of how he sat down with us, of course, I was very surprised and upset that I was not at home at that moment, this is how he sat down with us, it turns out between 8 and 9 months you will buy a growing chair or a tower of an assistant about a growing chair, probably not because we have a chair from the brand of the peak perego prima papa follow me it seems to me that I completely pronounced the name of the gray color with us he has a lot of different positions there is a step for the legs and it can be used up to one and a half years and then, in theory, it will be possible to plant a child on an ordinary chair, I think, and that's why I don't see the point of buying a growing chair and a tower of an assistant, I think about it, I have it saved in alberes, but whether to buy it or not, I don't know yet because our kitchen is not so big and even if eric is next to me trying to do something there, he will definitely take something down with his own hands, but I don't want this, so I'm still thinking about when eric was transplanted into a walking block of a stroller, in fact, we transplanted it not when he started to sit, but when he format of the cradle of our stroller annex rz became small, he just didn't fit in the winter suit because of the width of the stroller and his legs were already sticking out a little, so I already fastened the hood and we got a walk it was now I will count 7 8 on the eighth month it turns out it was the end of February before spring I did it before spring we already had a walk because he still went to the dressing room he went to lie like this good afternoon do you apply eric what do you think about this yes I apply it only when we go to the street if there is hell there, that is, we have a sharp continental climate in Kazakhstan and such a direct heat in the summer we do not have to say that often, but if it is, then this is hell, but usually, as they always say, from 11 or 12 to 4, in this period, if you go there, I am on the open areas of the body, he is smeared with pf for the rose that I have already shown you, and if in the morning or in the evening to go out, then no, I do not smear it because the sun is no longer so burning how many times a day eric drinks pee now on the topic of very relevant in general, it is more correct to say that it is applied to the chest and everything else is like everything else you can drink eric for a year naturally now it does not happen often, but to be more precise, it is mostly only for sleep, this is for lunch and for the night, and so we have a very large booger, he can run to me three times a day , as I said, run up to the chest and that's it, and then you play so cleanly or just drink a little, although he has a kettle on the table on the edge, he knows that if he wants to drink water, he can come up there and get up and take it for himself, but apparently sometimes he is lazy, I turn out to be closer and faster, were there colics if yes, then how did you fight these colics no colics eric did not have this question, probably in general top 1 among the questions that are asked during the year, he did not have colics, he only had a purple cry that they call it when the nervous system of the child is very tired during the day, he does not know how to cope with it, he just screams like a wild one, we had the first two months, it was June, July and August, it turns out and in the summer we often walked on the street just and at this time it also happened that we were on the street from 8 in the evening until 9 in the evening he just screamed, he could not be calmed by anything, he did not need neither a breast nor toys, nothing that was happening around him, he just screamed because the nervous system was overworked, he needed at that moment what kind of life hack I had, I just wrapped him in a diaper, not very wrapped up, just to, so to speak, calm him down, gave him an empty one at that moment, he still sucked periodically an empty one and just a little bit of it like this, he needed it, I don't know there for 10-15 minutes, at least to sleep and then he calmed down and everything was fine, then we had a cheerful, calm child and was preparing for a night's sleep eric eats well tell me how they taught yes I don't know it seems to me he just went to me and my husband we all eat well she taught us for 6 months self-feeding I immediately introduced pieces he studied the food himself all the consistency all by hand maybe that's why it happened and he eats perfectly to this day what time to feed and how to combine with gv time to feed this I probably mean it is already food and how to combine with gv we have 5 meals maybe even somewhere 6 it turns out together with all the snacks, breakfast comes out in the morning somewhere at 9 o'clock, we usually have it, then between breakfast and lunch, he eats some kind of cookie or a piece of banana or a couple of spoons of soft cottage cheese, then we have lunch at 12 o'clock after lunch, we go to bed for a lunch sleep, I put it in his mouth, then he wakes up again, he has some kind of light snack, and after a while, about an hour and a half after an hour and a half, he has a full-fledged snack there, there is a rye pie, I order from the bakery with semolina and rice, he eats it in general completely except for this hard crust, he just tears it off and leaves it, or there is a pack of soft cottage cheese, which is simply kvash, but he also loves it very much, he can now eat a whole one in this main snack, then what else does he usually snack on cheesecakes, I have time to make maybe some pancakes, maybe a whole piece of pancakes with Greek yogurt, for example, strawberries or blueberries, then we have dinner, we have it at 7 half of 8 8 this is the period of dinner after dinner there is a bath and after a bath somewhere in an hour and a half he drinks half a kettle of kefir and eats one or two pieces of galette cookies, I hope I answered this question exhaustively whether you have boiled the dishes of Eric, and if yes, then for how many months no, this is a long-standing habit of non-modern mothers, because it is useless to boil it, now there are a lot of means, even to take the same remedy from synergetik, which is antibacterial hypoallergenic, I completely switched to it, which is for dishes, I wash the whole dishes with it, I like that it is hypoallergenic, it does not stink, I just pour it into our usual dispenser and also use it, and the rest of the bottles that remain, I then constantly wash the bath with the same remedy that I wash the dishes with, I don't see anything like that. Will you baptize Eric? No, we will not, we are not believers, maybe someone is there, but we do not believe in it, if he decides when he grows up that he wants to believe in God, then he himself will go to church and baptize himself or some other religion, no one will force him to do anything. How many teeth do you have and a lot of smiling smileys? Eric now has 4 teeth on top and 2 on the bottom and also 2 on the bottom are still being cut through, which go to the second row, his fangs are now sticking out a little, you can see white dots, apparently soon they will also start to come out. Do you give toys in doses? You don't have a rug and, as usual, their game is garbage. Not to say that we give toys in doses, I will now attach a video to you, how his corner is now all located and, as you can see, all the toys just lie down, he comes up where he wants, crawls up, gets up, takes, plays, scatters, in general, what he wants to do with them, he has everything in doses, because these are his things and I don't think that he needs to take something from him or deprive him of some of these toys, as well as books, yes, he tears some of them, he tears cards, well, God with them, these are his things, let him do what he wants. Please tell us how you taught him to get off the sofa. I also attach the video, thanks to one of my acquaintances, her name is Yulia Kozhakar, hello, I remember when Eric was about six months old and something on the Internet, some topic was touched upon about the fall of children from the bed, from the sofas, and she just wrote to me that she had been teaching her son Dima to climb back and forth for 6 months and all the time she said, like, edge, edge, I told Eric, look, and all the time when he wanted to crawl to the edge, I turned him upside down with his feet, it turns out he lay on his stomach and with his feet so that he crawled, and it helped him to crawl for 6 months, he had not yet crawled, that is, even then he only wriggled and what did he do? And he got up on his hands and that's it, and since then it has already been shown how it is, that it is a bumblebee, it will hurt, it was blah-blah-blah-blah, once it was so that he was just with me, it was 7 months for him, I turned away for a second to take some of his blouse from the chest of drawers or put something there, he just lay in his winter clothes, I turn around and he turns out with these legs, as I taught him to crawl from the bed, but it is high enough for us and it turned out that he spat on his ass, and due to his strong press at that moment, he held his head, but still hit her on the floor, screamed just like a wild Yura, ran from another room and was afraid that something had happened there, and I stand like this, I think it was scary for me that he fell and hit and cries painfully, on the other hand, I was glad that he, as it were, mechanically remembered all this, how I taught him, and even in his 7 months he already tried to do something, and so he learned to climb straight from the bed for about 10 months, probably yes, before that, somehow periodically, then I tried to dive in front of him, I caught him constantly because we recently removed the frame of the bed, just left the mattress on the river bottom, that is, there is a height of about 25 centimeters, even if it falls, it will not be very painful, and now it turns out that for about 10 months he himself began to crawl, and now he also does it from the sofa, that is, you can even leave him calmly on the sofa and he will crawl, but we do not allow him to climb on the sofa, because there is a table next to it with my flowers, and in the drawers of the table there are notebooks, so we can't go to the sofa yet . How soon did Eric start to change the color of his eyes? I think somewhere after six months, he originally had such a dark blue, as if he gave it to the blue, now this blue is already some kind of green, not to say that he will have the eyes of a husband, most likely they will still be like mine, green when they started to feed from what I have on Instagram there is an up-to-date story called feed, everything is shown in order what I gave him, there are even photos of the plate, how I served him everything, how he ate, there is also a video, so you can go there to see there would also be an interesting topic about books, developers and toys, a separate video will be shot on this topic, because I have now organized a corner for Eric, this is his space, and I think that I will already shoot a separate video about this, so be sure to subscribe so as not to miss this topic. How will you teach Eric from the chest? Soon there will also be unicorns. Honestly, I haven't studied this topic yet, because it will happen to us in 3-4 months, but I think that I will most likely turn to a breastfeeding consultant so that it happens very softly and ecologically, I don't want to teach him the old methods when they smeared the nipple with different means so that the child was afraid or just I don't know. Do you use plugs for sockets? Somehow we did it so that when we did the repair, it was 2020, for some reason we didn't even think about it, he immediately bought all the sockets with plugs, all the sockets with plugs, that is, to put something in there, you need to specifically get into the holes and press very hard, the child is not yet capable of this, and by the time he has the strength to put something in there, he will already understand that this should not be done, and he turns off the light everywhere, because we have sockets and sockets, all the sockets and sockets are installed at a level of 90 centimeters, and he is already calm, even without getting up on his socks, he clicks everywhere with the light, how many times did you feed your chest in 6 months, I don't remember if he asked for months, so he applied, because in 6 months there is only one more meal a day, it was either lunch or breakfast, depending on how much he woke up and how much time I have to cook something for him, so for 6 months he applied to his chest constantly every probably 2-3 hours, as it usually happened when he was very small, how to start feeding not only as breakfast, but also lunch and dinner, I also recently told about this on my Instagram, because I also additionally to the fact that I myself studied the topic of pre-feeding and self-pre-feeding, I also took a course in child nutrition, which I have been doing for a long time, I spend marathons, as you know who has been subscribed to me for a long time, and I decided to study child nutrition too, because there are a lot of contradictions on the Internet, even when I myself introduced a child to pre-feeding, you google and there is always some kind of nonsense on the Internet, I, as a nutritionist, understand that this is nonsense, but as a mother, I have to listen to this, so I took a course in child nutrition, in general, if someone needs a consultation, be sure to write to me on Instagram, we will communicate with you, I will read the question again how to start feeding not only as breakfast, but also lunch and dinner, see every four weeks it is necessary for the child to introduce additional pre-feeding, that is, if at 6 months, for example, he either has lunch or breakfast, then at 7 months another meal is supplemented, this is if, for example, at 6 months there was only breakfast, then at 7 months he already has both lunch and breakfast, and so on, it turns out until the year, everything is added, first the basic meals, breakfast, lunch, dinner, and between them then you slowly add a snack and it turns out a year he already has 5-6 meals, children very often have a snack, especially small ones, and this is normal, because when they learn to crawl, walk, they spend a lot of energy to replenish it and there was enough strength, you need to eat a lot, the most difficult stage before the year of colic, feeding teeth, and so on, you know, I'll probably answer the most difficult stage in general, in principle, in the life of a mother and a child, this is when the child is sick because he didn't have colic, and if there were, it seems to me, I would also calmly experience it all in terms of teeth, well, yes, at night he cries there in the afternoon, some kind of capricious, well, with this, too, you can somehow get used to it, it is most difficult to get used to when the child is sick, like in January, when we were in the hospital, it was hell when he had a terrible temperature, he coughed, he was in pain, because he had a pharyngitis, he was also injected with antibiotics, it was hell, so the most difficult period in the life of children and mothers is when children are sick, the rest is all garbage, you can survive everything, you can cope with everything, the main thing is, so to speak, your calmness and a normal attitude to everything, and not a constant inclusion of panic and advice on the Internet on every question, so do not do it, a joint dream, yes, a joint dream, yes, we started sleeping together, probably somewhere from his months of 4 to somewhere in September Messi was 4 months then why I started a joint dream just every time I took him out of bed at night because at night he cried there every two or three hours so that I could feed him again, it became very difficult for me to get up every time in the middle of the night a few times to get him out to feed then put him back in bed and as a result I got tired of it, he already weighed 6 kilograms by that time, I just put it stupidly once next to myself and realized that it was just a thrill, the husband was lying like an herring along the wall, the main thing is not to hurt the son, at first he was lying between us in a cocoon so that there was some kind of barrier so that we did not touch him in the middle of the night, by the way, I sleep in general, how I lay down and wake up, I very rarely turn around, so from 4 months we have already started a joint dream and to this day now my husband has moved to the hall on the sofa because the three of us are very close on our bed, especially since Eric sleeps in general like a star, he first lies down like this, then like this, then his leg is on my face and then I think all mothers know about this, all children sleep like this, how do you live the jumps in growth, yes, just like licking, cutting your teeth, we love to take care of playing, distracting more walking, just worrying, I don't know how to answer this question yet lifehacks on self-catering and what lifehacks can self-catering there are no lifehacks you just need to study the topic of self-catering because self-catering is a lifehack like this, so I will answer you lifehack because the child then sits for a year calmly eats himself and does not shove him with a spoon insolently sleeps at night 8-12 hours without waking up if yes when I started to sleep like this and how we came to this in general I can say that Eric, in principle, has always been sleeping all night since we were born, even when he was very small, he did not wake up, that is, he did not scream like she feed me urgently I want to eat everything no he just started to turn around and scream and a little bit I picked him up and immediately fed him, that is, he ate through the dream and it still happens so it happens he turns around at night and is looking for food with his mouth, I just crawl up to him and give him a breast and that's it, he doesn't wake up with us, he sleeps with us in the morning and more precisely from the evening and until the morning how to give a piece if the child is already used to mashed potatoes for 8 months and swallows everything at once, in general, from the very beginning when they teach the child to chew, they show him directly, I gave him a piece in my hand or put it on the table on his plate and showed it to him like this, the children repeat everything , they generally repeat everything for us, they repeat everything for us, I'm still in shock when it happens that they will do something and he will do the same, I will somehow laugh, he will laugh the same way, I will say something, he is also trying to repeat the refrigerator, close it, he shouts so that I open it for him and he also closes it, that is, he generally repeats everything, therefore, with his example, show it and chew it straight, look like this and everything will start to chew and it was necessary to do it for 6 months, it is desirable how to distribute responsibilities for taking care of a child with a husband, how to explain it, it seems to be a child with a husband, well, basically, anyway, I do everything, especially with regard to food, I always feed him, of course, there are moments when I go somewhere to work and just tell my husband to give him this, everything is fine, he sits down with him, the truth is, he usually feeds him with a spoon, he is because he does not like to wash after all the food, because you know that the children are screaming and then they still scatter it, it is easier for him to give him, for example, pieces of bananas or there is cottage cheese, you can feed him with a spoon, I am not against it, so it is also possible once or twice a day, it's okay when we eat somewhere in a cafe, I also feed him with a spoon, so we have a little combination, it turns out with food, and so, for example, he can calmly change the diapers, sit and play with him if I am busy with some of my affairs, if he has his own affairs, then I sit with my son as busy as possible, we share care for the child, somehow it turns out like this, I always bathe him, my husband does not want him, well, more precisely, he does not want to, but as if he is afraid to bathe him, because Eric sometimes gets up, once he got up in the bath and hit himself hard, he is somehow afraid of all this, he is afraid to take him wet, suddenly he will slip out of his hands, so I always bathe him, for example, now while I am shooting a video for you, he went with him for a walk on the embankment, maybe on a car there he will ride this one on a battery, he also likes it very much what they did when he was choked on food when he was choked on food there were not many such episodes not to say that he was choked just even when you study the topic of self-feeding, it is said there when a child is choked, you do not climb into his mouth, even not only for children, but for us, too, when something does not get there, we have a tearful reflex and we either spit it out or spit it out, and this is how it happened, he sometimes ate it all together with the food that he also ate, or just spit it out, I also taught him to spit it out, somewhere from 7-8 months he started to do it already, a piece of some kind gets too big for him, well, back and forth, and you understand that he will not let you start doing it, I say spit it out and show it to him like this, and he started doing it now when a piece gets there, you understand that he will spit it out and that's it, I'm sorry for spitting into the loop, but in general, you understand, just teach the child again on your example, show everything to him in detail, just look at him, do it like this, and not with your fingers there so that he presses even more, it is clear when the child is straight, he is stronger there, he suffocates, there is also a safety technique on this case how to behave correctly and the main thing is not to panic if you panic and something went wrong, then just call an ambulance right away, everything that helped when cutting with a liquid chair, I don't give anything, I don't give anything, I think the child should learn to endure if from an early age to give some pills or drugs that are painkillers, then how he will grow up, he will not be able to endure any pain at all and nothing else, so we do not give anything, I myself in very rare cases of painkillers recently when I had a very bad back and stomach, I just walked like this, more precisely, I could not even walk then, yes, I drank one painkiller just so that I could reach and drink a glass of water, for example, and so I don't drink such painkillers at all, my husband is generally against the medicine, even when he is sick, he drinks tea, tea with lemons and with honey, it was that at night he left at 1800 and got up at 6-7 there were moments that he fell asleep too late for evening sleep and too early for night sleep, so to speak, but what did I do, I gave him 15 minutes, for example, 20 to sleep and just woke him up, that is, thereby regulating his sleep mode, because if he fell asleep like this, as you say at 6 and woke up, he would not fall asleep at 6-7 earlier, because we sleep for 10-11 hours, we allowed him to sleep as much as he wanted, no, I always wake him up, I always look if he sleeps during the day, but now, for example, I don't let him sleep for more than three hours today, he just slept for three hours and I just went to wake him up because it was time to eat and hungry if he woke up it would be hysterics, so I always regulate everything, you motivated Eric to turn over, sit down and so on, or he himself, yes, by the way, our husband always does this when Eric turns out we just lay on our stomachs, he did it with him so that he got up on his hands, then he did it with him so that he turned over, we rolled him ourselves, he rolled a little then it turns out that the husband began to make all sorts of barricades of blankets and pillows in the middle of the hall so that Eric, crawling through all this barricade, helped himself to get up on his knees, that is, when something accumulates under his stomach in the form of a pillow, he automatically gets up on his knees and plus we still have our barrier-gate, due to it, he also learned to get up on his knees very quickly , the husband often had some kind of joystick, for example, he holds it so that he crawls to him, by the way, he just put some kind of gamepad on him, in my opinion, from some kind of console and he is after him, so yes, and motivation and help is your opinion about kindergartens, well, what can I say in a state kindergarten, we will definitely not give Eric away, I cannot say that there is such a hell or a direct Soviet Union or there they beat children and so on, I will not say for all kindergartens, I know that there are such cases to this day, of course, but we will not give the state kindergarten, we are not so busy with work or some business so that the child is in the state kindergarten from morning to evening, I have a plan that, for example, I will give it to a private kindergarten, for example, for 3-4 hours and I will be next to him in a cafe or in a restaurant and not sit at work, then just pick it up and also spend time together further, I have such a plan, they drove Eric to a massage, how not to worry that the child is learning skills late, by the way, about this, I also started to worry when Eric was already 8 months old or not 8 or 7 months old, I honestly got confused already when he got to us because before the year, from 6 months to the year, so much happens in his development that you just do not have time to understand in what month what happened in general, I remember that there was such a moment, all his peers, well, not all of them, there are several other children who later started him, although they were older than him, it turns out that he did not crawl with us and I already started to panic a little, the neuropathologist said that everything is fine with him, just a little later, everything is fine, so we live, I know that according to the table up to 9 months the child should start crawling, at least in Plastun, it turns out that he has not crawled with us yet and I agreed with the masseuse, but then she got sick and did not come and it turns out the day before she was supposed to come, Eric crawled with us, the next day she came, of course , she did not cancel the massage, she came and there was such a feeling that she was just stroking so stroking I myself can what is the point of such a massage and then I started to study the whole topic of massage and massage is prescribed only when it is needed according to the readings, and even more so not all children are still suitable for massage psychologically because there are a lot of children who, for example, mom, mom, mom, and if they will give him a massage, he will just scream, and when the child screams and he is given a massage, it seems to me that this is hell for the mother, hell for the child and one masseuse, probably, in principle, he doesn't care who pays for it, I don't know for the fact that the massage was done only according to the readings, the neuropathologist told us that it was not necessary, I still called her for some reason and was disappointed in this masseuse, so I don't see the point of doing a massage now, by the way, Eric began to like the massage, as we understood it, he just sat for a moment and played and the husband started to spend some toy on his back, he froze and sits high, the husband stops, he does something else, he again goes to him, Eric stops again, I understand that he likes that he is stroked on the back and I think that just for the sake of some kind of relaxation, I will take him with me for a massage, especially in the massage studio that I go to, there will be a child's masseuse, he will just stroke him, relax all his muscles, but where he is now starting to enter us, by the way, yesterday he started walking all such red hands like this, I imagine what kind of tension there is, what do you think about walkers, I'm against walkers because it's not physiological, we bought him not walkers, but walkers, because he has already started to walk on the support and crawled only in those places where he needed to go to this empty space where there is nothing to hold on to, so I ordered a walker for him and he sometimes ran with him in the hall, probably for a week, and yesterday he started walking and it turns out now he doesn't need a walker either, so the questions are over if you have any questions thank you very much for watching this video, be sure to follow me on my instagram in general, bye-bye to everyone