2024年7月29日 16:10

Because I think ultimately everyone does have a path that's right for them that it corresponds to who they actually are and what they actually want and that they can follow basically without compromising their morals. You know it's for some folks it's really hard because that's just not part of their thinking and really the best I think we can do to help one another is just as the saying goes just just don't don't you know don't stick your nose where it doesn't belong and that includes your thought you know you're thinking you know it's not that it's not got nothing to do with you whatever just you know stay out of it and you know don't don't have it in your head even you know as much as you can. I think that's the best thing we can do for one another because you know when we do that we really take the pressure off each other and people can you know people can actually like breathe you know and it's like oh it's okay you know it's okay I can just do something else you know I don't have to you know whatever you know I can put down the hard life that's really what it's all about take the weight off. It's not necessarily about taking somebody else's weight and putting it on your shoulders that's that's too much for anybody. It really is just you know just looking benevolently at everything and everyone and good intent and wishes but not being involved you know it's not it's not our it's not our path to walk this is really that person's own path and it's entire to whoever it may be even if it's their own child you know it's a different person just we do who we're responsible for but you know as far as an individual's choice it's completely up to them. I'm talking about you know people who are mature you know at their at their requisite levels of maturity right you know but yeah you know we should we should see that in people like when you know when people are within their level of maturity like it's completely their own choice and we have no say in it it's just it's just that's the way it actually is um yeah yeah it's kind of like a lot like driving actually because when when you're driving the culture that's formed around driving it's like everybody's got to be right behind you you know they got to get ahead of you everybody's crazy you got to get somewhere to go you know so busy so busy so busy nothing you know just got to get there for no reason just because there's nothing else to do and you know if you're driving the speed limit they're going to be right in your tail going to try to pass you you know but only but if you if you do something that they don't like they'll be they'll be calling the cops on you um you know just because um and then you know even if you're going a good a good speed but you're in front of them they got to get ahead as soon as they get ahead oh my god uh oh i might get a ticket and then they just then they just uh jam the brakes and now you're just but now you're behind them so it's okay but now you got to get in their rear in their in their rear view you know especially at night with lights on and you're blinding them there's trucks now and compacts and you just got to get right there in their face for no reason um but you know just put put the car in cruise control just just follow like 10 yards behind where you're not like right in their face the whole time and just chill you know but then there's people but then the next guy is going to be right up your rear and you know so what so so you gotta but you gotta pull right up to that guy again because you know there's a guy in your rear so it's it's got to be everybody's problem no just take responsibility for it's my problem i'm going to do the right thing it can be my rear this guy i can see him i'm not going to tail him you know he's he's doing his thing he's you know that's that you know and uh yeah it's just like an analogy for what i was just saying you know