폐업이라는 무덤과 행복(폐업하고 싶을때 반드시 봐야 되는 영상)

Hello, everyone. I'm Kwon Poro. In psychology, the standard of happiness is divided into two stages. The first stage is called subjective sense of security. It's about how happy and fun things have been for the day. I'm going to measure it. Good things, bad things, just thinking about it. If there are a lot of things that make you happy, I'm satisfied with the standard of happiness in the first stage. On the other hand, it's painful and hard. It's proportional to how little it was. I'm measuring if it was a happy day. There can't be only good things every day. A lot of good things and a lot of depression. It's supposed to be less difficult. And the second stage of happiness is called psychological stability. It's a little big. You can think of it as a standard from a deeper point of view. It's not a temporary happiness. This is a little longer happiness. So, like I said earlier, How many good things have happened? It's not that I didn't feel good. Positive interpersonal relationships, freedom of time, self-control, The purpose of my life. It's a little hard to say. In a word, it's a little longer than a momentary happiness. I'm measuring happiness. This is the second stage. I'm a little out of the blue. What are you talking about to people who want to break up? You might think. Listen carefully. It's a very close relationship. Maybe there are people who want to break up right now. You're not happy right now. That's how you feel. Do I have to break up? Do I have to stop? It's because I'm in the middle of a dilemma. No, I have to break up. If you really break up, I think my life is going to be ruined. Maybe it's because I'm anxious. That's why I'm not happy. Some of you may have already broken up. Some of you may be watching this video. Or maybe you're thinking about breaking up soon. My feelings can't be hard. Of course it's going to be hard. I can't help it. Have you ever seen a report like this? I don't know. It's a little past. But in Korea, these reports don't come out well. It's a very meaningful report. I'd like to introduce you to it. This is also in the book. Seoul National University and Kakao in 2019. For a year, about 1 million people. I've done a large-scale happiness research project. It's about individual happiness scores. It's really fun. It's meaningful. In the process of investigation, People with high happiness scores and people with low happiness scores. I've found a lot of things to pay attention to. Aren't you curious? What's the difference? So, a person with a high happiness score. There's a gap between them. In a way, You can distinguish between a happy person and a unhappy person. The difference between the two is... When you do something, you feel happy. It was the difference. In short, people with low happiness scores. Go on a trip, meet friends, play games. Or eat something delicious and drink. I answered that I was happy when I watched the movie. And now, from now on, it's really amazing. People with high happiness scores. Their answers are very meaningful. They're grateful. Meditating Listening to lectures Reading books Achieving goals Exercising I answered that I was happy when I did this. Wow, I got goosebumps while I was filming this. In a way, I think I'm a low-happiness person. I felt like I was in heaven. How about you guys? When do you feel happy? When you do business, You have to stay in the first stage of happiness. In a way, it's a simple happiness. When there are a lot of customers. When you get an order for food with a lot of margin. When you finish your day and have a drink. When the customer says it's delicious. Of course, this can be a little happiness. But now that you're about to close your business. Or after you close your business. If you think about the happiness of the past, How is it? I can see myself doing one thing at a time. I used to be like that, too. Maybe I'm still looking for happiness. Meditating, exercising, and writing a diary. I'm not saying this is real happiness. What I'm trying to say is... Especially business is a repetitive routine. Emotional labor that deals with customers every day. And a structural problem that has to react sensitively to sales. A troublesome employee, a job that can't be saved. It's a business that really started without knowing anything. If I don't get involved in everything, It's a structure that doesn't work. There are definitely things that can't be helped. But if you think about what high-happiness people are talking about, The second stage of happiness they feel. Maybe that's why I'm so happy. I thought. So meditating, writing a thank-you diary, Reading a book, exercising. I'm happy, I'm rich. I'm not doing that because I'm relaxed. It's just because I did this. Maybe that's why I feel happy. This is a little fun. If you look at the people who run the delivery store, You want to be in the restaurant ranking. If you go in there, I think the sales will go up. But the funny thing is, the order is the opposite. What I mean is... You have to make a profit to get into the restaurant ranking. Do you understand? This is the opposite. Everyone's just thinking the opposite way. The order is... If you go into the restaurant ranking, the sales don't go up. You have to make a profit to get into the restaurant ranking. I'll give you a lot. I'll give it back to you. You can go in after you make a profit. Our thoughts. If you change the order, It's not impossible. These things. Happiness is the same. In this context. Actually, the second stage of happiness. I'd like to express it as a happy activity. The reason why happiness is so good for Koreans. If you look at the world's happiness index in 2023, In these days, the meaning of happiness is a little exciting and lively. It's not like something's really happy. It's balanced, it's peaceful, it's stable. It's interpreted as happiness. Unfortunately, the countries included in this report. It's about 137 countries. It's a country that doesn't feel happy. The economy is better than a country with a high happiness index. The happiness index is low compared to that. Everyone, if we close the store, Will my life be over? There's been a big crisis. I can't go back to my life. Will I live like that for the rest of my life? Will I continue to be unhappy? No, that's not it. The current closed business is actually an experience asset. Experience assets go to a lecture or read a book. Even if I get consulting from someone else, It can never be internalized to me. It's not that someone can give it to me. Experience assets can only buy what you've experienced yourself. In the past, when I closed the business, I met a lot of people who lost 200,000 to 300,000 won. I talk to them. Do you know what they're doing right now? I'm living very well. The light at that time wasn't light, it was light. The dark past has become the driving force. If I didn't have that kind of experience asset, Would there be such a successful life now? I'm sure it's not. In a symbolic sense, There may be people who are a little embarrassed to close the business. The funny thing is, we usually cheer for quitting. But the closing business was a finger. I don't know why. I don't have my money in the company. I think the closing business is because I have my money. In simple terms, But this is the business that started with my decision. In the end, it's the end. Then, whether it was an internal problem or an external problem, Even if there was a factor, You have to admit it and just build a foundation. Light can be light. It's not the end, it's endless. So that you can move forward infinitely. I will always support you from afar. If there are people who are starting again, I'd appreciate it if you could let me know in the comments. I'll keep cheering for you. Fighting! Then I'll go in. Please sign up. Thank you. Fighting! Cheer up!