The Real Reason Why Men Will Never Change #narcissist #narcissisticabuse

Men will never change their bad behavior when it comes to relationships. Now, when they go to work, their jobs or whatever, they listen to their bosses because their bosses will give them consequences if they act out of character, break any rules, do anything they shouldn't be doing, any form of wrongdoing or going against the system, the rules, whatever. They'll be penalized and there'll be consequences for whatever they do. to disrupt that at their job they're very obedient and disciplined when it comes to work relationships no not so much you want to know why because there's always a dumb ******* bitch from his past it's either a situationship a long-term situationship a bitch that he can **** on and suck on and dog walk and doormat and walk all over and he knows she ain't going nowhere if he ditched her for five months straight he can always circle back and she'll let him back in why would he change if she's not she doesn't have any standards and she doesn't require him to step up and do better it's women women are a ******* problem women are the reason men dog walk us and treat us all bad it is because you know if you tell him you go out on a date and you tell him what you like and don't like and what you will and won't tolerate I guarantee you and he'll agree to it he'll be like okay you know sure you know I hear you I'll make sure I won't do those things to hurt you he'll turn right back around I promise you he'll turn right back around and he will test you after you literally told him what to do and what not to do he will turn around and test you he'll stop texting or he'll you know where he was texting all day and facetiming he'll slow that ---- up all of a sudden you're like damn he switched up y'all have sex he switches up and pulls back or plays starts playing this hot and cold bullshit where he was on you when y'all first met there's a switch up there's a change of energy you're noticing the ---- that he said he was about now his actions are not matching there's inconsistencies red flag he's going to test you after you literally told him what to do and what not to do he's going to turn around and do it any ******* way to test your level of tolerance why because he's gotten away with it with other bitches there's a dummy right now that that will take him back and ******* suck him and let her find out about you let her find out about you and she's going to get jealous and stalk the ******* ---- out of you never mind him being a dog never mind holding him accountable for playing multiple women she gonna come for you she's gonna stalk you she's gonna let you know I ain't going nowhere I've been here I ain't going nowhere so what we gonna share him or what you gonna leave because I ain't going nowhere there's always a stupid ******* bitch that will put up with his bullshit women are the ******* problem and this is why I don't date or deal with men because every time i date or deal i hate being tested nigga will never take you at face value when you say don't do this or don't do that these are my standards this is what i expect he turns right around and he'll still **** with, he'll test you because he knows in the past he was able to get away with it with another woman multiple women pick me women, pick me women are a ******* problem they are going to ruin it for all of us no matter how high your standards are no matter how militant you are no matter how much you put your foot down with a man he's not gonna, he may even straighten up for a little while, he might straighten up for you for a little bit he's gonna go back to his old toxic ways, why? because Keisha from the past his ex-girlfriend from high school, it's some bitch or his **** buddy that he's been ******* off and on for two years, no she ain't going nowhere because she got low self-esteem, it's always a toxic bitch that will take him at his ******* worst, so why would he change when a good woman comes around, why would he do what you ask him to do, why would he plan dates and do nice things for you and buy you flowers, he ain't never had to do it for the other bitches, y'all be safe out here like I just get a hobby, do get a, get a good hobby, I, I love to dance, I dance Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednesdays honey, um and there's plenty of men to dance with that's a nice thing, when I go dancing I dance with the men and we go home, I don't gotta deal with the headaches the dating the off and on the hot and cold, the lack of manners, the lack of planning I don't deal with that when I go dancing, we dance, we have a good time, we go home and that's my hobby because dating men it's exhausting, it's exhausting I'm not teaching nobody's son how to act how to behave how to court me nigga you got a mother and a father did your daddy treat your mama right did you learn from your daddy because why don't play with me so y'all be safe that's the game right there men are fucked up because there's trifling bitches that won't push them to be their better self and that's why it's hard for all of us out here all of us good girls that that want a decent brother to respect us and when we set down some standards and some some values for him to abide by he will always go against that because ---- these other bitches i done dealt with never never ******* tested me and made me step up as a man i can ******* suck on them and rotate them and do what i want to them and they'll take me a million times so the bitches out here done fucked up the game for all of us so either you know you turn into a long time **** buddy and put up with the toxic situationship, which I refuse to do, or you don't date at all. I prefer not to date. It's peaceful. I can sleep peacefully at night knowing I'm not being cheated on. I'm not going to get no STDs. That's another thing. He's ******* everybody raw. He doesn't care about your health. Just don't do it. Get a hobby that fulfills you and where you can be happy. I promise you it's way better than dealing with this bullshit that's out here. Y'all be blessed. Thank you.