If His Mama Has Low Self Esteem, He Will Expect You to have Low Self Esteem too! #narcissist
Oct 14, 2026
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Video Summary
AI GeneratedThis video discusses how a man's perception and treatment of women are fundamentally shaped by his relationship with his mother. The speaker argues that a man views all women through the lens of his mother's self-esteem and behavior, warning women to analyze a partner's family history to avoid toxic relationship patterns.
If his motherfucking mother's self-esteem is low,
he will expect your self-esteem to be just as
******* low, if not lower than his mother's.
Peep game in this ******* video. Ladies, we have to
remember everything that a man learns about a woman comes strictly
and directly from the woman
who raised him, his mother.
So whether he was raised in a single parent home or whether his
father and mother were together
her self-esteem how she feels about herself how she treats herself
and how she allows other men to treat her in front
of her children he's watching and taking notes
as a adolescent boy as a teenage boy he
is watching his mother um and he he's if if mom
acts a certain way that he's going to assume
that all women behave the same way as mom if he grew
up in a two-parent household where he witnessed
his father cheat lie beat on his mama and his
mama did not have enough self-respect to divorce
and walk away she stayed and tolerated it guess
what he's gonna grow up thinking that's normal behavior
from a woman he's going to expect all
the women in his romantic relationships to be submissive
and ******* stupid and a doormat
because his mama was a motherfucking doormat
and the crazy ---- is he won't chase behind the women
that are like his mama no no no he'll chase behind
the independent strong sister and he'll try to
break her and turn her into his ******* weak ass mama he will cheat
on an independent strong-minded
sister with a bitch like his mama
because a weak bitch is also a side chick and his mama will play
a motherfucking side chick she's worthless
and she looks in a mirror and she does not respect
herself and she lets men do her any type of way
because that's what he witnessed his daddy do to
her his daddy dog walked her ass
and here's a little male psychology ladies he loves his mama
but he also resents her ******* ass
because she didn't respect herself enough to stop her bullshit
when it came to a man he might have witnessed
his mama become the town tramp he might have
witnessed his mama hop from man to man she might have
been married multiple times she may have
multiple baby fathers and low-key even
though he loves his mama he's staring at her and looking at
her with pure disgust because she doesn't ******* respect herself
so it really doesn't matter
whether he was raised by a single mother
or whether or not his father was in the household
his mother and how she treats herself
if she lacks self-respect if she's a goddamn pick me which
means she caters to a ******* man
and lets a man step all over her dog walk her cheat on her and
she will not leave the nigga, the nigga gotta leave
her, she don't have enough self-respect to
divorce a nigga or walk away from an abusive nigga, yeah what
do you think he's going to think
of all women when he when he becomes a grown man
and he starts dating and dealing with women and
getting into relationships, he will look
at all women through the lens, the same lens that he saw
his mama growing up, see the woman who raised him
and gave birth to him greatly impacts how he views
all women, y'all this is why i say ladies
when you get to know a man, you've got to analyze his
******* family, his relationship between
his mother will greatly impact how he deals with you
and treats you okay, if she was a weak bitch
if she was a toxic bitch, if she manipulates men
it could be the other way around, she she could
be running through men like Kleenex and he resents
her because she won't slow down and respect herself
and settle down with one man, he will
assume all women are hoes and bitches like his mama
or you know you could be a good girl, he's
waiting for you to **** up and he's going to blame you
for any little thing because he saw his mama
sit up and be ******* trifling, a whore, a town tramp
if his father abused his mama and started
another family with his side chick on the other side
of town he will resent his mother for not
being strong enough to walk away
from his abusive daddy, he will look at his mother as a weak bitch
And she truly is. She's a pick me.
So understand if his mama has low self-esteem, he's normalized
Listen, he's been raised around her his first 20 years of his life
and he's normalized her behavior.
And that's the behavior he will expect all women to have
And if you are nothing like his mama and he listen, if he took his ass
to therapy and dealt with his mother wounds, his mother issues,
he's going to chase behind
a single successful strong independent woman a woman the opposite of
his mother and he's going to try to break
and humble her and bring her down to the level
that he witnessed his mama that's why he goes through
so many failed relationships because he
has an obsession of breaking women
and turning them into his mama you'll never see him chasing
behind weak women that are like his mama he'll use them bitches
the pick me's he'll use them as
side chicks to help him destroy a strong sister
but he'll never chase that type of bitch and if
he does chase and settle down with her it's
because no other woman wants her he'll end up
with a pick me like his mama
when he's ran through everybody nobody wants his bitch ass
so check this out if you're going to get to know
the brother you've got to learn his upbringing
And if he tries to hide or lie anything about his childhood,
counsel him, do not sleep with him, do not deal with him.
The key to how a man feels about a woman and how he treats women
is his relationship with his mama.
Study it, analyze it.
If he hates her and resents her, he's going to take it out on you.
If she coddle and spoil him,
he's going to expect you to coddle and spoil him.
If she allow his daddy to abuse her and cheat on her,
he's going to expect you to allow him to cheat
and abuse you because that's what he witnesses
daddy do if you cannot analyze the behavior
and the relationship between him and his mama
don't get involved with him if he tries
to hide it he's hiding it for a reason he don't want you
to find out okay let him go down let him go date
and deal with a woman on his motherfucking level
let him get married to a woman on his mama's level
that's the type of woman he needs to be
with. He can't handle a strong sister.
He'll either put his hands on you or he'll verbally
assault you and try to destroy your self-esteem
and make you feel inadequate and small because
his mama allowed niggas to treat her that way.

