Réseaux sociaux en famille : un outil pour maintenir le contact

The day before the rehearsal 10 minutes You have... I'm taking a lot of work No, not too much Wait, I need to fix this This Wednesday evening, Maëlle meets her husband and her three daughters on their way home from work For this cello teacher, special moments with her daughters are rare How are you? I went to see a premiere of a famous movie We met the director Really? What kind of movie is it? Social media, but especially messaging apps allow them to stay in touch during the day and share videos, gift ideas, reading recommendations or movies With the girls, it can be... It's all or nothing We go from organization to... Have you thought about what you want for Christmas? What time are you coming home? And all of that comes together But Maëlle would prefer that they don't take the lead on their face-to-face conversations I noticed that all these moments when I chat with her why don't we do it live? So I thought we should do it live Of course it would be better The reality is that we can't because we don't see each other enough These girls, Colombine and Alma are 15 and 13 years old If Colombine is on several social networks like Instagram, Snapchat or TikTok the two sisters mainly use WhatsApp to chat with classmates, their grandparents who live far away and other family members They are part of our family but on the side of our dad So they concern all generations from our grandparents to us So everyone who is on the phone is on the group which allows us to talk about news about what's going on in the family births, family reunions birthdays What I like is that it's a relaxed group we can laugh about it everyone will laugh together quietly On all subjects there are not so many taboos it's light The girls may appreciate these places of exchange they sometimes complain about the overload of messages and notifications In this group generally there are a lot of messages that circulate so it's a lot of messages to look at quickly I think it depends because there are periods where we don't talk so much about this group but when there are periods where something special happens it's true that every day it flows and you have to look at the messages right away Like 20 million people in France Maëlle and her daughters rely on this network to exchange daily with their loved ones Until now, when someone was at the end of the world we had his news episodically now we can have news about him it's great to be able to meet on the same virtual platform the whole family we can't necessarily make family advice on this type of platform but it's great to be able to meet in real life it can also be with teenagers who have a mobile phone to have a family communication group where we put sometimes something that we would like them to do like tidying up their socks but also small humorous videos that will put a little fluid in family life even if we are on a network when we are in the family environment on these social networks it's important, in the same way that we give ourselves implicit rules of communication in real life to give a little rules that is, we may not think before reacting is it worth it that I write this? it's still writing it can be transferred to someone else you see what she told me that's what I told you that we will say sorry, hello, goodbye please and that we will try to speak correctly and watch out that the group serves family communication and does not become a repellent for some who no longer want to communicate in this way because it's too much because it beeps every 30 seconds regulate use these social networks it's really a matter of regulation it can't have all the space we really need to be able to have real contacts with people who are not just contacts on social networks