【24歲裸辭】一人勇闖東南亞 & 兩個月的旅居生活Vlog ｜lowang小鹿🦌

如果現在辭職 If you quit now 你想做的第一件事是什么 What is the first thing you want to do? 我今年二十四岁 I am twenty-four years old. 裸辞后开启了 After resigning naked 一趟旅居生活 I started a trip to sojourn life 一个人出发 Go alone 去了泰国 Went to Thailand 和马来西亚 and Malaysia 四个城市 Four cities in total 整整两个月的时间 Two months. 我花了 I spent 兩万块港币 20,000 Hong Kong dollars 你问我值得吗 You ask me if it's worth it 我想这个答案可能会有点长 I think this answer might be a bit long 请允许我花点时间来跟你分享 Allow me to take a moment to share with you 首先你可能会疑惑 First you may be wondering 我为什么要去旅居 Why should I travel? 为什么要一个人出发 Why start alone? 为什么不继续上班存钱 Why don't you keep working and save money? 这个故事要从一年前开始说起 The story begins about a year ago. 毕业后的我迷茫了一年的时间 After graduation, I was lost for a year 但还是选择开始自己的全职生活 But I still choose to start my own full-time life 一开始的我热情满满 In the beginning, I was enthusiastic 因为当时零工作经验 Because there was zero work experience at that time 我要从零开始学习 I'm going to learn from scratch. 如何成为一个數位行銷 How to become a digital marketer 学习如何设计海报 Learn how to design posters 学习如何举办活动 Learn how to organize an event 但是我还是很感谢当时上班 But I'm still grateful to be working at that time 完全投入的自己 Fully committed to yourself 因为这样整整八个月的全职生活 Because of this full eight months of full-time life 让我迅速的学习到了很多知识 Let me learn a lot of knowledge quickly 也成长的非常的快 Also growing very fast 但同时我也感受到 But at the same time I also feel 无比大的压力 an incredible amount of pressure 很多时候都会自卑 I feel inferior a lot of the time 内耗、崩溃 Internal friction, collapse 莫名就会很想哭 I feel like crying for no reason 突然有一天 Suddenly one day 我意识到 And I realized that. 我受够了这样 I've had enough of this 每天早九晚六的日子 I'm fed up with this nine to six every day 我受够了每天在看着同样的风景 I'm tired of looking at the same scenery every day 受够了应付我不喜欢的人际关系 Enough of dealing with relationships I don't like 受够了日復一日的生活 Fed up with living day to day 最重要的是 And here's the thing. 我迷失了那个应该很快乐的自己 I lost my happy self 所以我决定裸辞 So I decided to resign naked 没有车没有房 No car, no house. 甚至连三万块钱的存款都不到 Not even a deposit of 30,000 yuan 但我还是想要为自己勇敢一次 But I still want to be brave for myself once 我想要去一个 I want to go to a place 完全没有人认识我的地方 Where no one knows me at all 换一个国家体验生活 Experience life in another country 体验陌生的风景 Experience unfamiliar scenery 体验陌生的语言 Experience an unfamiliar language 更多的是 And many more. 我想要重新找回 I wanted to rediscover 我的勇气和好奇心 my courage and my curiosity. 重新开启一段新的生活 Start a new life 重新找回我自己 Find myself again 你们有发现吗 Did you find anything? 人类绝大部分的恐惧 The vast majority of human fears 其实是来自于 It actually comes from 面对生活的未知数 facing the unknowns of life 这导致我们不敢踏出第一步 And that's what keeps us from taking the first step. 永远都在原地徘徊 Forever lingering in place 所以我想要邀请你 So I want to invite you. 跟我一起踏上 Join me on this journey 这趟疗愈自我的旅程吧 of self-healing 也许你会好奇 You might be wondering. 没有充裕的存款 Lack of sufficient deposits 究竟我是哪里来的勇气独自去旅居呢 Where did I get the courage to live alone? 一直以来 All the time 由于我成长环境的因素 Due to the environment in which I grew up 所以导致我一直对金钱感到匮乏 So that's why I've always felt poor about money. 曾经的我 Once Me 常常会为了钱斤斤计较 Often care about money 為了一點小折扣 Spending a lot of time calculating 花超多時間去計算 for a small discount 甚至会申请好几张信用卡 They even apply for several credit cards 也常常会因为一些计划之外 It is also often due to some unplanned 而失去的金钱 And lost money 感到难过 feel sad 因此陷入后悔 So I fell into a mood of regret 自责的心情好久好久 and remorse for a long time 但是这个斤斤计较的我 But this caring me 并没有因此变得富有 Didn't get rich because of it 也沒有存下很多錢 Didn't get rich because of it 每个月的工资都要去交房租 Every month's salary has to pay rent 自己吃喝住用 Eat, drink and live by yourself 还有衣食住行 There is also food, clothing, housing and transportation 甚至最夸张的是 Even the most exaggerated 连续好几个月 For months on end 我的户口都只剩下零元 I only have zero yuan left in my account. 这样的生活过了大半年 I lived like this for more than half a year 突然有一天我意识到 And then one day I realized something. 一切的源头都是来自于我的压力 The source of everything comes from my pressure 每当我的工作非常忙碌 Whenever my work is very busy 自己感到压力的时候 When you feel stressed 我都会告诉自己 I will tell myself 下班了就去吃顿好吃的 Go have a delicious meal after get off work 放假了去購物獎賞自己 Go shopping to reward yourself during the holiday 就这样不知不觉 So unknowingly 我陷入了金钱的陷阱 I fell into a money trap 不断的工作赚钱 Keep working for money 不断的花钱消费 Constantly spend money 在决定辞职的那个月 The month I decided to resign 我决定开始存钱 I decided to start saving money. 不再把金钱 No more money 花在一些无长远价值的事物上 Spend it on things that have no long-term value 顺便我还把家里 By the way, I also put home 很多不用的东西全都卖了 A lot of unused things are sold 还因此回本了大概五千 It paid off about 5,000. 就这样我存下了兩万元 That's how I saved 20,000 yuan 看着这笔来之不易的存款 Looking at this hard-won deposit 我就想着 I just thought that 在香港租房子也是要钱 renting a house in HK also requires money. 去国外旅居也要钱 It costs money to live abroad 国外的租金却比香港的租金便宜很多 The rent abroad is much cheaper than the rent in HK 那我为什么不花这笔钱 Then why don't I spend the money? 去国外生活一段时间呢 What about living abroad for a while? 所以我就下定决心 So I made up my mind. 定机票、定民宿 Book a flight and a homestay 找了一个适合线上工作的国家 I found a country suitable for online jobs 开启了我的旅居生活 It started my sojourn. 现在回头看 Now look back 这个决定 This decision 應該是我人生最棒的決定之一 Probably one of the best decisions of my life 我不想要再用存款的多少 I don't want to spend any more of my savings. 去掌控我的人生 To take control of my life 也不想用金钱去绑架我的快乐 I don't want to use money to kidnap my happiness 即使一个人拥有很多财富 Even if a person has a lot of wealth 但是如果没有时间自由 But if there is no time to be free 對我來說就好像 to me it's like 就好像一隻關在鳥籠的金絲雀 Like a canary in a cage 美丽而无趣 Beautiful and boring 時間来到清迈后的第一周 The first week after arriving in Chiang Mai 一切都充满了新鲜感 Everything is full of freshness 我去逛市集 I went to the market 逛夜市 Visit the night market 去參觀清邁大學 Go visit Chiang Mai University 去体验当地的美食 To experience the local cuisine 漸漸的 gradually 该打卡的地方我都去了 I've been in all the clocks 该吃的美食也吃了 I also ate the delicious food that should be eaten 就这样来到第二周 And so it came to week two. 我开始发现这个地方变得无聊起来 I'm starting to find this place boring 每天下午出门 Go out every afternoon 外面又很晒 It's sunny outside 而且绝大部分的店铺都关着门 And most of the stores are closed. 到了晚上 At night 我又不敢一个人在外面待到太晚 I'm afraid to stay out too late alone 所以我的生活开始变得慵懒 So my life started to get lazy 我每天睡 I sleep every day. 到自然醒 Wake up naturally 然后再花好几个小时 Then spend a few more hours 在床上玩手机 in bed playing with your phone 就这样过了一个礼拜的时间 And so a week went by. 我却因此变得闷闷不乐 And I became depressed. 但是我在想 But I was thinking 这不就是我向往的生活吗 Isn't this the life I long for? 不用再被闹钟吵醒 No more waking up to an alarm clock 不用再赶着去上班 No more rushing to work 不用爭分奪秒的害怕遲到 No need to race against time and fear of being late 但就是因为这样的生活太过悠闲 But just because this life is too leisurely 我只是晃了晃神 I just wobbled 突然半个月就过去了 Suddenly half a month passed 我再次意识到 I realized again 我花了太多的时间在手机上 I spend too much time on my phone 还有在家里 And at home 我不想再一个人无聊的待在房间 I don't want to be bored in my room alone anymore 所以某天晚上 So one night 我去参加了一个英文交流会 I went to an English exchange meeting 在这里我认识了 Here I met 很多也在旅居的朋友们 Many friends who are also living abroad 他们大部分都是数字游牧 Most of them are digital nomads. 虽然我很久没有说英文 Although I haven't spoken English for a long time 有點不太會表達自己 Not very good at expressing myself 但也因此认识了几个新朋友 But I also made a few new friends because of it 还被邀请 And invited to Tango class the next day 第二天去参加探戈課 And invited to Tango class the next day 接著我又认识了 Then I met again 一個新的台湾女生朋友 I met a new Taiwanese girl friend 神奇的是 And here's the magic. 我们就好像世界另外一个自己 We are like another self in the world 兩個人也有聊不完的話 We are like another self in the world 接著我的生活 And then my life 就开始了翻天覆地的变化 started to change dramatically 我意识到原来比起待在家里 I realized that it was better than staying at home 外面的生活真的太值得我去探索 The outside life is really worth exploring 所以每天早上 So every morning I wake up 我都会立马起床工作 immediately and go to work 忙到大概四点后 Busy until after about four o'clock 我就会开启自己的娱乐时间 I will start my own entertainment time 偶尔我會去打泰拳 Sometimes I go to Muay Thai 偶尔会和朋友一起去聊天、去听歌 Sometimes go to chat with friends 偶尔会一個人出去走走 Sometimes I go out for a walk alone 我还会开始报名網上的活动 I will also start registering for the activities on 去體驗陪大象玩耍 Go experience playing with elephants 去騎單車環遊清邁 and ride a bicycle around Chiang Mai 虽然这些活动并不太有趣 But it wasn't all that fun. 但这并不重要 But it doesn't matter. 重要的是 But it doesn't matter. 我开始学会给自己 I began to learn to give myself 寻找樂趣 looking for fun 我积极的去了解 I actively seek to understand 身边每一位陌生人的故事 The story of every stranger around you 认真的去感受每一片风景 Seriously feel every scenery 每一个瞬间 Every moment 把握好在清邁的每一天 Make the most of every day in Chiang Mai 渐渐的我发现 Gradually I found 我的时间好像越来越不够用 I'm running out of time. 每一天的时间 The time of every day 就好像紧握的沙子 Every day is like a clutch of sand 怎么握也握不住 I can't hold it 不断的迅速的在流失 Constantly and rapidly losing 当我缓过神的时候 When I got over it 我即将要离开清迈了 I am about to leave Chiang Mai. 在我觉得最快乐最充实的时候 When I feel happiest and most fulfilled 要离开这个充满回忆的地方 To leave this place full of memories 我又要开始一个人全新的旅途了 I'm about to start a brand new journey again 但我很慶幸在這裡 But I'm glad to be here 我学会了如何珍惜我的每一天 I learned how to value my every day 我开始不想要 I didn't want it at first 花时间在手机上 Spend time on your phone 更多的是勇敢的 More is brave 去认识新的朋友 It's more about being brave to meet new people. 去体验这个世界 To experience the world 去创造更多美好的回忆 To create more beautiful memories 我的第二趟旅程来到了马来西亚 My second trip took me to Malaysia 第一站是吉隆坡 The first stop is Kuala Lumpur 说实话 tell the truth 我已经忘记 I have forgotten 为什么要选择这个国家 I have forgotten why I chose this country 我只记得当时买完票之后很后悔 I just remember buying the tickets and regretting it. 因为很多人都说这个地方很无聊 Because a lot of people say this place is boring. 但是机票也订了 But the ticket is also booked 民宿也预约了 The homestay is also reserved. 好像沒有理由不出發了 There seems to be no reason not to leave 相比清迈 Compared to Chiang Mai 这里是一个很大的城市 This is a big city. 几乎一个月都没有搭过捷运的我 I haven't taken the MRT in almost a month 开始不习惯超过半小时的车程距离 I'm not used to driving more than half an hour away 甚至一开始我连捷运都搞不懂 At first, I didn't even understand MRT. 连续两次都下错站 Wrong stop twice in a row 但是在这个人来人往的城市 But in this city where people come and go 我卻認識了很棒很棒的新朋友 I met great new friends 一位是来自阿尔及利亚的朋友 One is a friend from Algeria 另一个是吉隆坡的本地朋友 The other is a local friend in Kuala Lumpur 在朋友的陪伴下 Accompanied by friends 我们一起去爬山 Let's go hiking together 一起去看了黑风洞 We went to see the Black Wind Cave together 一起感受了本地人的餐厅跟美食 Experience the local restaurants and delicious food 这一切让这个无聊的地方 All this makes this boring place 变得有趣起来 It gets interesting. 这让我意识到 And that made me realize. 一切的重点 The point of everything 好像从来都不是风景跟目的地 It never seems to be a landscape or a destination 而是這趟旅程在你身邊的人 It never seems to be a landscape or a destination 回忆起清迈的日子亦是如此 The same goes for remembering the days of Chiang Mai 让我想念的从来都不是那个地方 It's never that place that I miss 而是在那里我遇到的每一位朋友 But every friend I met there And those memories are what I will never forget 而那些回忆才是让我念念不忘 難以放下的 And those memories are what I will never forget 也正是因为这样 And that's why. 我好像开始变得再次害怕孤独 I seem to be starting to fear being alone again 自从结束上一次的恋情之后 Since the end of the last relationship 我以为自己已经习惯了孤单 I thought I was used to being alone 习惯了一个人的生活 Accustomed to living alone 一个人吃饭 Eating alone 运动、购物 Eating alone 去做任何我想做的事情 Do whatever I want 但同时我也知道 But I also know 自己是需要被陪伴的 But I also know that I need to be accompanied 我希望身边有人可以陪我聊天 I hope someone around me can chat with me 可以陪我看风景 You can accompany me to see the scenery. 可以和我拍照 You can take a picture with me. 一起分享美食 Share food together 但同时我也是矛盾的 But I'm also conflicted. 因為我還是很享受一個人的時光 Because I still enjoy my time alone 我也能因此更加的专注在学习 And I was able to focus more on my studies. 还有我的事业 And my career 但也是這趟旅程 But also this journey 让我学会如何接受独处 It taught me how to accept being alone. 接受分离 Accept separation 阿尔及利亚的朋友告诉我 My friends in Algeria told me 人生的旅途就是不断的遇见 The journey of life is a constant encounter 告别 Goodbye 再遇到更好的 Goodbye and meet better 其实这个道理我一直都懂 In fact, I have always understood this truth 但是只有发生在自己身上的时候 But only when it happens to you 才会发现 Will find out 原来要真正的做到并不简单 It turns out that it’s not easy to actually do it 但这不就是成长的意义吗 But isn't that what growing up is all about? 我们一定要经历某些故事 We must experience certain stories 才会懂得释怀 Will know how to let go 放下 move on 然後成為更好的自己 Then become a better version of yourself 结束吉隆坡的旅程 End the journey in Kuala Lumpur 再踏上檳城的巴士 Then board the bus in Penang 這次我沒有刻意 I didn't deliberately look for 去尋找新的旅伴 new travel companions this time 我渐渐的又找回自己独处的快乐 I gradually regained the joy of being alone 其实想要放下 In fact, it’s really easy to 过去的回忆真的很简单 let go of past memories 无论是告别痛苦还是快乐的 Whether it's saying goodbye to pain or happiness 只要你能够创造新的美好回忆 As long as you can create new beautiful memories 那就可以了 That's it. 很久之前我有段很喜欢的话 A long time ago I had a favorite quote 在现在就完美的印证了 It's perfectly confirmed now. 昨天是过去 Yesterday was in the past 明天是未来 Tomorrow is the future 但今天是个礼物 But today is a gift 这也是为什么 That's why 現在這個詞叫做禮物的原因 it's called the present 曾经的我因为 I used to be because 过去的回忆而感到痛苦 I used to be in pain because of the memories of the past 又或是因为未来而感到焦虑 Or anxious about the future 但今年生活 But this year life 它真正的教会了我 It really taught me 如何活在当下 live in the moment 活在每一个今天 Live every day 因此我不再害怕失去 So I'm no longer afraid of losing 因为我会尽我所能 Because I will do my best 去创造最好版本的每一天 To create the best version of every day 我不想要自己再抱着遗憾 I don't want to hold on to my regrets anymore 去度过我的人生 To live my life 所以我会更勇敢的 So I will be braver 去做任何我想做的事情 I will be braver to do whatever I want 我会主动的去表达 I will take the initiative to express 我对他人的感谢跟喜欢 I appreciate and like others 我会更正向的 I will be more positive 去面对生活的难题跟挫折 To face life's problems and setbacks 就这样来到我的最后一站 This is how I came to my last stop 沙巴 Sabah 没错我的故事要到尾声了 That's right. That's the end of my story. 無論多美好的旅程 No matter how wonderful the journey 也会有结束的那一天 There will be an end 那么你们觉得 So what do you think? 人生究竟是结局重要 So what do you think matters in life is the ending? 还是过程重要呢 Is the process important? 这个问题小时候的我 This question, when I was a child 思考了很久 Thinking about it for a long time 都没有答案 No answer 在长大的这个过程中 In the process of growing up 社会一直都在灌输着我 Society has been instilling in me 结局比过程重要 The outcome is more important than the process 所以我们要为了 So we have to 房子、车子、名利 So we have to do it for the house and the car 不断的付出 Keep giving 投入大量的時間和精力 Invest a lot of time and effort 过往我便是如此 I used to be like this 为了体面的工作 for a decent job 还不错的薪水 Not a bad salary. 讓自己處於一個 Put yourself in a situation 并不是那么快乐的环境 It's not a happy environment. 但在这个旅途中 But on this journey 我找到这个问题的答案 I found the answer to this question 我想比起结局 I think it's better than the ending 更重要的是 What's more important is 如何在这个过程中 how to proceed in this process 尽我所能做到最好 Do the best I can. 这就足够了 And that's good enough. 因為人生的這場遊戲並不是競爭賽 Because the game of life is not a competition 由于我们从小到大都被教育 Because we've been taught all our lives. 要比别人家的孩子厉害 Better than other people's children 要比别人优秀 Be better than others 所以我们一直都活在 So we have been living in 一个对比的世界里 In a world of contrasts 这让我们产生嫉妒、仇恨 This generates jealousy and hatred in us 攀比等等的负面情绪 Negative emotions such as comparisons 我们会把他人当做竞争对手 We think of others as competitors. 把自己的幸福取決於外界因素 Relying your happiness to external factors 但其实外面并没有别人 But there's no one else out there 只有你自己 Only yourself 当我开始不在意他人的眼光 When I started to ignore what others thought 不被世俗的标准而绑架 Not being held hostage by worldly standards 丢掉一切的包裹 Throw away all the packages. 开始勇敢追逐自己的梦想 Start chasing your dreams bravely 还有理想人生 And the ideal life 我找回生活的热情 I found my passion for life 我也做到了 And I was able to 找回我自己 find myself. 故事的结局我已经回到香港了 At the end of the story, I have returned to Hong Kong 因为要继续进修心理学的课程 Because I have to continue my psychology course 說實話再回到這個地方 To be honest, come back to this place again 难免内心 It is inevitable that there 会涌入压力感 will be a sense of pressure inside 来自父母 From parents 亲戚、外界的眼光 relatives, and the outside world 自从我踏上全职自媒体的这条道路 Since I embarked on this path of full-time self-media 我听到无数不信任的声音 I heard countless voices of distrust 他们告诉我 They told me 放棄吧 They told me to give up 你很难成功的 It's hard for you to succeed 你现在这样 You are like this now 還不如回香港找個全職上班 It's better to go back to HKg and find a job 要做个独立女性很难的 It's hard to be an independent woman 找个老公嫁了 Find a husband to marry 的确我是可以 Indeed I can 按照他们帮我安排的人生活着 Live according to the life they arranged for me 找一份安稳的工作 Find a secure job 二十六岁结婚 Married at the age of 26 二十八岁生孩子 Twenty-eight-year-old baby 但是人生真的有标准答案吗 But is there really a standard answer to life? 如果我们每个人 If each of us 都按照这样的行程表活着 They all live on this schedule 那活着的意义又是什么呢 What is the meaning of living? 對於我來說 For me 生命真正的乐趣 The true joy of life 就是在于它的不确定性 The real joy of it is the uncertainty. 因为未知 Because unknown 所以让一切变得更加有趣 that makes things more interesting 因为恐惧 Because of fear 所以克服了就更有成就感 So it's more fulfilling to overcome 因为自卑 Because of low self-esteem 所以才要超越自我 So you have to go beyond yourself. 说实话 tell the truth 我也不知道未来的故事会是如何 I don't know what the story of the future will be 就讓我們一起拭目以待吧 I don't know what the story of the future will be 最後我不知道你觉得 The most I don't know what you think 这兩万块花的值得吗 if you think this 20,000 worth it 但我的答案百分之百 But my answer is 100% 是物超所值 good value for money 因为这样的回忆 Because of such memories 以及这次的成长 and this growth 我再也找不到任何的方式可以获得 I can't find any way to get it anymore 所以正在看这支影片的陌生人 So strangers watching this film 你好 Hello 非常高兴能够在茫茫人海中 I am very happy to be in the vast crowd 用这样的方式遇到你 I met you this way 如果我的出现 If I appear 能够让你感受到一丝丝的温暖 It can make you feel a little bit of warmth 其实也并不容易 It's not easy 因为要在这个世界上 Because in this world 能遇到同频共振的人 Someone who can resonate at the same frequency 并不简单 It's not that simple. 而遇见了也是一份礼物 And it is also a gift to meet 所以让我们一起珍惜 So let's cherish it together 擁有的每一個今天 So let's cherish everything we have together 并且好好享受 And enjoy it 仅此一次的人生吧 And enjoy this one-time life