4 Signs that a Man LOVES you and Adores You (number 2 may surprise you)

So in this video I will go over four signs that a man loves you. And when you see these four signs he means well, doesn't just like you, he may absolutely adore you and he may absolutely love you. As I wrote in my book Red Flags, how to find out that a guy isn't playing games with you and even in this book here, men who really love you will send out certain signals and men that don't really love you will send out a different set of signals and we need to look at those signals. In this video we will focus on the signs that a man really loves you because those are important signs. When you do get the signs that a man loves you, you'll know that he's not wasting your time, that the relationship has a future, that you can actually open up your heart and enjoy the time that you're spending with him without having to worry about where this is going. So the first and the most important sign that a man loves you is that he will be investing in you. Not financially, this is not about money, so it's not about him handing you money but he will be putting in an effort of some sort that costs him something. And great examples are that his friends may have asked him to do something that he actually would love to do but still he chooses to spend that time with you and you didn't even have to ask for it. Or he watches your favorite tv show with you even though honestly he couldn't care less about it because it's aimed at women, he's not the target audience but he wants to spend that time with you. Or he goes out with you and your friends even though he may not really like those friends but he chooses to do this. As you can see these are all investments because he has other opportunities, his time is limited but he chooses to ignore those opportunities because he loves you, he wants to do it for you. So this is a great first sign that a man loves you but he will obviously have his own life to live as well and he can't do these things all the time so don't go looking for that. But this here, what I've just been explaining, should happen often. He should choose you, he should invest both in you and into the relationship and it should be clear to you that both of these are really important to him. You won't have to wonder about this. If you do have to wonder about his priorities, about him thinking about your relationship, about him thinking about you, then please consider that a major red flag because that would actually be a bad sign. Now the second sign is even more interesting. The second sign that a man loves you is that he protects you. Men are designed from the ground up, out of the box, you know, when they roll out of the factory to protect the woman they love. Not to protect the woman they like. They are designed to protect the woman they love and interestingly enough, he would actually give his life because of the woman he loves. If she's in danger, he's ready to give his life without even thinking about it. If you're ever walking in a dark alley in a bad part of town at night and you're with your guy and all of a sudden there are two guys in front of you, that don't really mean well and that becomes apparent because they are pointing a gun at you and they say hey give me your purse. Well obviously this is a dangerous situation. So the guy who doesn't love you will then say absolutely nothing indeed. He will no longer be standing next to you. You will be hearing his footsteps as they run away in the distance and he may or may not be shrieking like a three-year-old boy that believes he just saw a monster under his bed. But anyway, he will not think about you. He will only think about himself. However, the man that does love you will do something totally different. He will pull you behind him so he can stand in front of you. So he can actually catch the bullet if those two dumbos should decide to fire. And he will be afraid. He will be scared. But he won't have to think about this. His love is so strong that he just wants you to be safe. And again protecting you is an automated reaction. It's an automatic response of his body because he loves you. That's why I love this sign. It's a great sign that a man loves you because he can't consciously think about this. Now I don't suggest that you start walking in dark alleys in the middle of the night with the guy you love just to find out whether he likes you or not. Obviously you will have other subtle signs that will show the same protection mechanism. Like how does he behave when you're sick? Does he take care of you? Does he cook for you? Does he sit next to you while holding your hand? Does he tell you bedtime stories? I do that for my girlfriend when she's sick. I tell her a story until she's able to fall asleep. And I'm not kidding. I mean men do crazy things when they're in love. When you're cold, does he take off his jacket so he's not cold but you can warm up? Did he notice the goose bumps or did he choose to ignore so he can keep the jacket? If you're walking around with him in a city, where does he walk? Is it on the side of the buildings? The safe side? Or is it on the side of the street where he can protect you from all of the cars that are passing by? As you can see these are silly subtle but really important signs that a man loves you because he won't be aware of all of this. This is just an automatism that he gets and I have that too when he loves you. Now the third sign that a man loves you is how manipulative is he? Is he trying to make you do things that you don't want? Is he listening to your feelings? I mean just think about everything that has been in the news in the last couple of years about men treating women in horrible ways. These are obviously not men that love those women. These men were manipulative a-holes that were clearly only thinking about themselves. And as a woman you need to be mindful of that type of behavior. Obviously I know you know this. So the question is does he want to change you? Or does he accept you the way that you are? And I'm not talking about him saying hey honey I really love your legs so why don't you put on a skirt more often so I can see those legs. I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about your personality. Does he accept you for who you are? Does he use who you are against you? And so forth. Is he thinking about your feelings? And not just in the bedroom but elsewhere as well. Does he take the time to listen to you when you have something that makes you emotional? Say that you've had a bad day and you meet him or you come home. How does he respond? Does he listen? Does he try to understand? Or is he withdrawing and saying well don't be too emotional? Now an important thing here is that men love to come up with solutions when they should just be listening. I'm sure you've found that. But that may just be a sign of him loving you just again. Because this is again that protection mechanism. He thinks, he believes, he just needs to fix it for you to be happy. And he doesn't get that you may have just wanted a listening ear. Now the fourth sign. This is a very obvious sign and yet it is really often missed. Does he tell you that he loves you? And in a real way. So not just okay yeah and I really love you okay bye bye click or in a text message. No no. Does he hug you affectionately and then tell you I love you? And then you can feel that he means it. Does he take the time to cuddle? To caress you? How is he behaving after sex? This is an important one as well. Is it ah snore? Or is it on the other hand that he tries to stay awake? That he tries to stay kind? To be kind to you? That he talks to you? Because as a woman you probably have no idea how difficult this is for a guy. Our entire body at that time is saying mission complete. Okay initiate shutdown now. Just shut down. This is really tough for a man to fight this. This is a hormonal reaction in our body. So when he does fight this just to be with you. This is again a great sign that he loves you. Now obviously the perfect guy does not exist. So no man will continuously be giving you all of these. But when you see these four pop up on the radar every now and then then you can rest assured you are safe. So I'll wrap it up right here. But in the description under this video I'm going to put a link to my website that will give you a checklist with even more signs that you should be mindful of. Signs that he loves you. Signs that he does not love you. That he does not see a future with you. These are all important signs. So if you want even more than that simply go to Amazon. Type in Brian Knox and you will find all of my books. And these here seem pretty good according to the hundreds of reviews I've been getting. Thank you if you've left me a review by the way. I will also put an easy link to these books in the description of the video below. I want to thank you for watching this video. As always I've loved making it for you. And remember always behave like the high value woman you are. Do not accept bad behavior from men. Do not forgive bad behavior from men because you love them. That's never an excuse. You deserve a guy that loves you. That shows you all of these signs regularly. Good luck finding that guy. Good luck working on your relationship. And I hope this video has inspired you a little bit.