Tiêu chuẩn vận động thô của trẻ sơ sinh – Tập 04 | Khóa học dành cho cha mẹ | ETV Life

Today is the third day of the class. We have talked about the process of incubating a child from the hospital. We also talked about a concept that a lot of problems occur when a child grows up. There are causes since childhood, but they are not discovered, so they are not supported in time. So this standard is not set by me, but it has been studied by science for a long time, summarized by many experts. A normal healthy child must pay attention to these standards. The standards that have been mentioned are not mentioned again, including keeping the head up for 3 seconds, eyes, light, sound, etc. The next standard is the development of rough movements. What is the development of rough movements? There are 3 standards. The first is that when lying down, the head can be raised a little. The second is that when lying down, the head can turn from one side to the other. This is the second rough movement. The third is that when lying down, the hands can move in a disorderly manner. Is there any story here? These standards are also related to the survival of the child. Think about it, if the child's neck is not enough, sometimes the adult is busy with other work. In the child's sleeping bed, there may be a fish, or the child is sleeping next to a larger child. The fish can turn on the child's nose, making it difficult for the child to breathe. At this time, to save himself, the child must move his face in another direction. That is to say, if the child is covered by the nose, he can turn his head over to the other side to breathe. So this is a very important survival standard. So some children can't turn their heads when they are born, but their parents can't find out why? That is to say, the muscle strength or reaction of the child is a bit slow. Not bad to the point that it can't move at all, but the reaction is a bit weaker. Most parents, if they don't have this concept, when observing, they will think that the child can still breathe. You don't think about when you're not there, or when you don't notice if something dangerous happens, whether the child is able to protect himself or not. Even if you want your child to become a dragon, first of all, you have to protect the child's life. So when I pay attention to observing children, if I really find out that I don't meet these three standards, what do we have to do? What are the basic movements? That is to say, the muscles to make these movements are all large muscles. We also have smaller muscles in the fingers to make small movements. For example, in the top of the thumb, the muscles in front are all small muscles. The palm of the hand, the area of ​​the palm, are all large muscles. Wow! A lot of boys put their hands up and say, Look at this. That's right. Once there was a boy, he said, Look at this, I have that muscle. The child is only six years old. These are relatively large muscles. So we just said, the movements that these large muscles create are rough movements. That's right. If at this time we say three rough movements, your child can't do it. You find out that your child's muscles are not so strong. We have to give the child some more exercises. For example, when you bathe the child, how do you usually bathe? Now there are baths. The child sits in there, the water covers his neck. He is not afraid of water on his face. In our time, there were no such things. So I use my hands to cover the child's head. Soak in water for a while, then soak in a dry towel. That's right. Just dry it. The purpose of doing those movements is just to keep the child clean. What else do you have to do? My child is very normal. You can take this opportunity to contact the muscles that have not developed enough standards of the child. See how their nerves react. For example, the neck of the child. I suggest not using a towel, but using a warm hand of the mother. Because the feeling of contact of the child is completely different. One hand less pain and one hand wash. That's right. And the mother massages the child a little. When the muscle contacts the warm hand of the mother, of course the father can do it too. The more you massage, the more the muscle's reaction is forced to adjust appropriately. That is to increase the amount of movement of the child. You will have more opportunities to help the muscle develop according to the standards. Do you know? I remember again. Whether in Taiwan, Hong Kong or the mainland, there are plastic surgeons. Why is the salary of the plastic surgeon so high? Because she doesn't just cook, take care of the property. Now there is a type of plastic surgeon who doesn't need you to take care of the property, but only take care of the newborn baby. Then she massages the whole body for the baby. How do you talk to the baby? Currently, the registration of these plastic surgeons has to wait for 1-2 years. People have to accept such high-level plastic surgeons. As you said, it is said that she will help the child develop these aspects. There is a reason in this world. I feel very good. I think thousands of years will not change. That is, if there is loss, there is gain. If you give up all your energy, there will definitely be a reward. It's like we said before, if you don't give the child a mother's milk for a certain period of time, then do you know what the benefits are? Increased fertility. For those who do not give their parents, five times higher. That is, if she gives her father a mother's milk, it will reduce the rate of breast cancer five times. For those who give their father, the rate of breast cancer is five times lower than those who do not give their father. That's right. Do you think this is a very big harvest? You just need to give up 6 months to 1 year, but your harvest is so big, a little bit is not bad. Dear viewers, remember, parents must remember, this not only helps children to be healthy, but also helps parents to be healthy. That's right. There is also a concept that the father also contributes. That is, when the mother gives the father a mother's milk, the father also contributes. What do you contribute? The father takes care of the mother, the warmer, the more thoughtful, the mother's milk will be more fragrant and delicious. Oh, that's great. Dear mothers, if the mother's milk is not good, please ask your father, is it not enough for him to love me? Don't say that. Sometimes the father will feel very upset, I often do that, but sometimes it's hard to say, no one teaches me to say sweet words. I have to open another class. How do you teach a father to love his mother? That's right. The best technique is to let the mother massage the child. Technically, you said you want to learn how to massage the baby, there is a lot of information on the Internet, there are some videos. When you massage the child, do you know what benefits you get? The child will be very happy. That's right. Then we pull the baby up, clean it up, then apply a layer of powder. If the child is clean, exercise for the baby. That technique is love, natural movements. At that time, except for attending Ms. Tran's class, the child himself should exercise for the baby. My mother also told me, massage the child quickly. We do these massage movements very naturally. I have to tell you, this research is very interesting. After I learned the results of this research, I was really impressed. What research? When the mother does these movements, the uterus will shrink. The body behind will be thinner. That's right, there will be no phenomenon of the uterus. The long-term uterus will lead to uncontrolled urination. These are the diseases that women after giving birth may suffer. It means, don't think you have money, but ask a nurse to do these jobs for you. Doing these jobs for the uterus is a good thing. In fact, these are the things you have to do yourself. Because the uterus is on your body, not on the nurse. This research has proven that massaging the child not only helps the child develop, but also helps the uterus of the mother recover. Do you know why? I don't know. Because your body has understood a signal. What? It knows that this mother needs to take care of her child. Ah. So the body knows how to adjust. The uterus will shrink quickly. I have a nurse. The nurse did a good job. I lay there to rest and rest. The uterus also changes. It also changes. Like a country, you spend money to invite people to protect your country. Will the people make a little trouble? They don't have to pay those prices. In the end, they will be exterminated. Even if that country now prioritizes peace, it is likely that it will be exterminated later. Just now, we talked about the many negative effects of these actions. So, in addition to these actions, there are also economic actions. Are we talking about this in the third lesson today? I think we just need to summarize the concepts. What is the basic movement? Basic movement? The basic movement is when lying down, the head can be lifted up a little. Then the head can move from this side to the other side. Yes. When lying on the floor, the hands of the child can move freely. This hand can move freely. This movement is not dry. It is called the real coordination between the hand and the eye. But what do we have to observe? We have to see that the child can move. It is not a lawful movement because the child is not fully awake yet. Just now, we said that in order to protect the child's life, the head can move from one side to the other. Another thing is the voice. The child can hear the voice and turn their head. What does that show? That shows that the child's hand is normal because the strength of the hand often develops with the language of the child. This study has a very important relationship. So we also hope that during this process, the mother can talk to the child from this side to the other side. This side talks a little, the other side talks a little so that the child can turn their head. So this can become a daily practice. For children under one month, we can talk to this side a little, to the other side a little, but don't tire the child. That's right. How long is suitable? You mean how many times a day? How long? That's right. How many times? How long each time? Usually it's like this. It's not trying to do this, but in a normal way of life. Parents can't stand there all day looking at their children, right? We just tell you, in your daily activities, don't forget the daily standards. So now, when you hold the child, you can observe the child from the left. Some people have a habit like this, they only turn their head to one side. I meet some people who only look at one side when talking. They rarely turn their head to the other side. Adults sometimes do that. These are the observations of psychologists. We often observe these things, so we hope not to try to change too much. But in normal everyday life, don't make unnecessary mistakes. Whether it's the father or the mother, when the mother feeds the child, the father shouldn't be in a hurry. When the mother bathes the child or the father, the father can also play with the child a little on this side, a little on the other side around the child. The child must be balanced between the two sides. That way, you can find out the problem of the child in time. No matter what the problem is, doing these movements for the child is good for their health. It's true that it's beneficial. The child will feel one thing. Parents really love their children. That's right. Do you know why? Some people, according to some medical studies, when the muscles are suppressed, don't work for two hours, they can get injured. Two hours is enough to get injured. Because the blood vessels below are not good. People have seen cases of patients lying for a long time. Lying for a long time. Yes. At first, it's just a small spot. Then it starts to spread. When the doctor starts to treat this spot, he has to dig a wide spot, then find the medicine. So when you still can't turn your face around, the child feels that the parents have a care and a balance of love between the two sides. Do you know what the child will think? I don't know. I'm really comfortable. That's right. I'm really comfortable. Because the muscles are not suppressed on one side, they don't work. I feel this is a very important concept when parents take care of their children. So when the child sleeps for 24 hours, more than 20 hours, do I need to turn the child around? In fact, the child may depend on the sound outside and there will be some reactions. Because when the child sleeps, you don't always sleep. You may be doing your job. When the child hears the sound, there are also some activities. So that's the end of today's lesson. The next lesson will be about the subtle movements. Each content includes a lot of parents' principles. I hope it can help you.