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Ms. Tran, we have a question for you. A viewer asked us, if a child is born sleeping for 24 hours, what should we do as a parent? It's a very important thing. On our face, we can see the child is sleeping. If you have a vision, you can look through the head. You will see the brain waves constantly fluctuating. Children do two things, accepting and remembering. For example, when we walk, or outside the window, the wind is blowing. Any sound will create a sound wave in the air. Therefore, the child's brain will not stop accepting all the sounds in the living environment. Then the child's brain will start analyzing, giving out information in each line. So you see, parents need to do a very important thing, which is to arrange the sounds around the child's life. This is music. Ah, that's right. Nowadays, people often say that children should listen to music. So the first question is, what kind of music? Second, when should we listen to it? You can listen to it 24 hours a day. Can the child sleep and listen to music? Of course. Because if you don't listen to music, the natural environment also has sounds. If you are in a very noisy room, next to a big road, then the road is also playing music for your child. But that sound is a sound wave. There used to be a little girl. She was sick when she was born. The little girl could not go home forever. When her mother gave birth to this little girl, she told her son in the house, who was still young at that time, that a few days later, her mother would bring home a very cute doll. It was my sister. The son stayed at home waiting, waiting, waiting, but I saw my sister, so I was very sad. When I couldn't wait any longer, he directly asked, what happened? Why do you have to be disappointed every day? In the end, the adult had to tell the little girl, that her sister was sick. But at that time, the hospital said that the little girl could not leave the hospital for the rest of her life. Oh, I see. Very serious. Maybe she will leave. Wow. If she can be saved, she will have to stay in the hospital for several years. Oh. Then the man said, no, I want to visit you. At first, the adult thought this was a child's behavior. They really took the child to visit you. The little girl is in the eyes of the man, different from the little girl in the eyes of the parents and doctors. Do you know what the doctors rely on to judge? The doctors rely on a lot of indicators, experience. Yes. Parents use their feelings. But this boy, because he is a child, a healthy child, inside, every cell is full of energy. The little girl uses this angle to help her sister. So when the man came home, he told his mother, Mom, can you take me to visit my sister every day? Huh? Then every day I went to visit her. And the man also asked, Can you sing for your sister every day? Huh? What does the boy sing? He sang, You are my sun. Oh. After a month and a half, his sister woke up. Oh. Finally, the girl was healthy, left the hospital and went home. From the doctor's point of view, this is their treatment result? Maybe so. But the doctor also understands clearly that there is no one like this boy. He may not give up and have a little doubt about his sister's recovery. Do you know? Doctors sometimes doubt their experience. Yes. Doctors have seen a lot of cases and rely on long-term research to predict that the child will only live for a few days. They have such an idea in mind, while the boy has no idea at all. You just want your little sister to come to you quickly. Yes. You believe it is entirely possible. I feel that sometimes adults have to learn this point from children. They are very pure and kind. The boy brings what he thinks is the best thing to share with his sister. I feel that this is also very important that adults have to learn. That is not to doubt, not to give up. This is not easy, but he did it. And the result is so good. We can learn from this story that we don't think that the boy is in a coma or sleeping and doesn't know anything. You arrange such a space will bring a great impact on the child. A great impact. Research also found that when you open very good songs, it will help the immune system of children and adults achieve a certain continuity. This is extremely, extremely important because we give the child medicine or take medicine. We all have to calculate this kind of medicine how long does it last in the body? There are only 2 hours, there are 24 hours, there are fast drugs, and there are slow drugs. But does the drug have side effects? There are some small side effects or some side effects that have not been discovered. If there is a natural treatment, no medicine, then we should encourage parents. This method is music, good music. Good music actually doesn't need to be loud. It's like when we talk to children. I believe every mother has this experience. My father also has this concept. When the child is still very young, you should never talk loudly to the child. I feel that period is the most beautiful time. The child is too small at that time. Just use such a small volume. Then you can turn on the music for 24 hours. This will not interfere with the sleep of the child. So there used to be a kind of child music, the kind of music that opens when the child is sleeping, quiet and very harmonious, very good. Speaking of which, there is a problem to ask. There are many kinds of music. Basically, people will think of sleeping music, children's music. What kind of music do you recommend? You mentioned earlier that children's music has different languages. Which music do you recommend that can help children? There are many kinds of children's music. There are two rules. The first is that it must be mature. That is to say, the music must be like that. If we bring out the music, we draw from this note to that note, and go up again. When the music is drawn, it is very smooth and smooth. That is the kind of music we recommend. If you bring out the music and draw the music like that, the music is intense. That kind of music should not be used unless you want to raise a child to argue with you from morning to night. No one wants that. Is it that big of an effect? It's that big of an effect. We find that music is smooth, smooth like that, harmonious, moving inside each of our cells. In fact, the movement of each cell has a rhythm. They move in a certain way that is smooth, smooth, round, then people will feel comfortable. That person will be relatively harmonious. That person's body will be relatively healthy. The mind will be good. When the mind is good, the stomach will open. The child's eating will be relatively normal. Have you ever seen a child who is still very quiet when he is hungry? The child will definitely cry. Basically, it can't be quiet. That's right. Is it because it's wet? That's right. That makes it uncomfortable. So we can use this method to balance the body of the child. We can even find out some cancer in young children. Now there is this phenomenon. The younger the cancer, even in Mainland China, there are children with cancer who are only 8 years old. That's right. The pollution of the environment, food with toxins, the immune system of young people is destroyed. Young people are prone to cancer. But we also found that cancer has its own characteristics. Its characteristics are destroyed and its attraction is not limited. That is to say, it absorbs more than it needs. So it creates a kind of excessive, like when people eat too much, they will easily get fat, if we give it an environment, an energy that is relatively stable, relatively balanced, then basically it can adjust the characteristics of the cell to make it stable. The immune system of the child will be able to maintain its protective and will not be easily damaged. In addition, at this time, the child develops an extremely, extremely important ability, from 1 to 2 years old. At this time, if we give young people many other sounds besides our voice, it means that in addition to the environment of the child, besides the voice of the parents, it is to use music, some kinds of music with lyrics. That's right. Let's take an example. You put a child here, then you let the child hear Do you think the child knows which song is from which country? Maybe he doesn't know. Or the child doesn't know. What does the child receive? Different tones. Yes. Not only social scientists, but also medical doctors also encourage this. The child's brain is developing very fast. It quickly receives. We give the child different tones, now the child receives it, then one day when the child uses it, it will take that music out. The child will know, oh, I've heard this sound before, it's not strange to me. When the child learns a new language, the worst thing is that before hearing this kind of sound, it feels difficult to learn. It's not a new language that's hard to learn, but it's strange. When we let the child get used to it, the child doesn't feel strange anymore, I often hear Chinese people say from three years old to old, now in research, at what stage is the brain developing the fastest? Yes, it's also before three years old, but not completely. It doesn't mean that after three years old, the brain doesn't develop anymore, or after 18 years old, the brain doesn't develop anymore. Later, there is an interesting research that the human brain can develop for a lifetime, but the environment is very important. The environment and personality that you have nurtured from small to large, add personality and habits together will create a very good result. This kind of independent development is not just to make us feel that that child is very smart. It's not just that, it's also related to human health. Personality, personality, the characteristics of a person in the future are all very important. Yes, it's very important to have a physical relationship. For children, music should be very smooth and slow. When children grow up, I see that they often let children listen to music with strong beats. How will that affect? After you let the child listen to music, you will see the face of the child start to change. This is a very important point. When listening to music, every music has emotions. No matter how emotional it is, the important thing is that after letting the child listen to music, you have to remember this. See the change in facial expressions on the child's face. If you see it as a divine expression, it's okay. If not, you have to think about that kind of music and limit it as much as possible for the child to hear. From the perspective of an expert like that, I think it's okay to do it.