Men Have a Hard Time Not Thinking About a Woman Who Tells Him This

Here's a revolutionary thing that you may not know about men. A man can feel more like a man and thus feel super happy when he's able to give you, the woman, feelings. Now, I realize that this concept probably sounds ridiculously simple, but it's actually more powerful than it will seem right now, as you will see in this video. So, never underestimate this, because this can make or break a romantic relationship. Men want to give you feelings. That's their mission. Bad men that play with women's hearts and bullies in general also want to give people feelings. Bad feelings. The more effect their bad behavior has on someone, the more that person reacts and responds or becomes emotional, the better it makes the bad people feel, because that's how they are wired. Sadly. But normal men, good men, and great men, they want to give you good feelings. A lot of them. It also makes them feel better about themselves. Makes them feel proud. And it's what makes them fall for a woman and what makes them stick around. Now, just in case that it's needed, let me first prove this. For example, when you have sex with a man, what's important to him? What makes him feel really good about it? What makes some men ask, So, how was it? Did you like it? Was it as good for you as it was for me? And did you, you know? In other words, did I make you feel so awesome that time just stopped there for a moment? Did I make you feel so good that every cell in your body is still screaming? Nothing compares to you. Did I make you think, Where were you all my life? In other words, do most men really like it when you make it clear that something he's doing makes you feel really good? Does it turn him on? Think about it. And not just in the bedroom, of course. Why do men buy flowers for a woman? Is it because they love to look at flowers? Is it because they think a bouquet of flowers would brighten up the living room? No. A pool table, a bar and a home cinema system would do that, obviously. Or is it because of how she will react? Is it because he will clearly see that he's giving his girlfriend or wife good feelings? That's actually it. If he can give you a great feeling, then he in turn will feel great and really proud. It's what good men strive for. Now, here's the thing. If you don't make it clear that he's giving you feelings, then chances are he will leave you because of this. And don't worry, because this can also be good news, if it's a bad man. If a bad man is trying to play you, if he's trying to get a reaction from you by behaving badly, which is the modus operandi of bad men and bullies, and you just don't care because he's no longer important to you, so he doesn't get any reaction from you, no emotions, well, then he will have to leave to find another victim. But when a good guy feels like he's not able to make an impact, he will leave as well. And this is where some women, not all of them, of course, but where some women get it wrong, very wrong. So let's talk about that in this video. This may be the first time that you see me, so that's why I keep repeating this, but I'm an author. My real name is Geert. My much easier to pronounce pen name is Brian Knox. I write books about dating and relationships for women, plus other topics like handling our more difficult emotions and using our emotional intelligence. And here's how some women underestimate this power. They only tell a man when he makes them feel bad, not when he makes them feel good. So it's only, yeah, you really hurt my feelings when you... I'm really angry because you just... But they forget the positive things. Things like, yeah, it feels really awesome that you replaced my tire last night when my car broke down in the middle of the night while it was raining. It feels really good when you... I feel really safe when you... And then something good that he does for you. Those things work. Now, if you ever want to test something really special that can create fireworks in your relationship, then tell him what type of positive sensation his behavior gives you. Not just the feeling, but the physical sensation. You're out on a fifth date with a great guy or you have a relationship with an awesome man and he's been treating you really well. And then during dinner, he says something nice to you. Let's also suppose that he has a really nice voice. And you then say, yeah, your voice makes me feel all tingly inside. If you do that, his mind will now go, it does what? What was that word? How do I make you feel? Tingly? What? It always takes a while for a man to process these types of things. Not every guy, because a player goes, yeah, I know. Yeah, yeah. Sarah just said the same thing yesterday and Diane told me the same thing the day before. And look, Rachel even texted me this as a compliment. What can I say? Making women feel tingly inside and outside and wherever, that's just what I do. Tingly is my middle name. Yeah, good for you. But regular guys who don't go through life being able to give women these types of feelings every single day, they go, what? As if someone just told him that he won the lottery. His ego loves these things. You make me feel warm inside. You make me feel excited inside. You make me feel special inside. Ooh, I feel a tingling sensation because you, what? What a lot of men wouldn't do to have this type of power naturally on command. The power to make a woman feel all of these things and not by accident, but on purpose. Ooh, I feel tingly inside because you just entered the room. The secret desire of every single man. If there would be a product that could guarantee this or even one that just seems to deliver on this promise once every 200 times, it would sell out in five seconds. So sharing how he's giving you positive feelings does a couple of things. First, it makes him feel on top of the world. Second, you gave him that feeling. Third, he wants more of that feeling because it feels awesome. So not only will he be sticking around and will he want to continue that relationship, but he will do more of whatever made you feel really good. More flowers, no pool table. And you should, of course, still communicate your negative feelings as well. You should clearly define your boundaries as I talk about in almost every single video of mine. But this positive part here, that's often forgotten by some women. And yet it has such a big impact on a guy and on their relationship. However, that being said, this is so strong that you should never overdo it because when you do, it will become obvious and then it will lose power. Also, if a woman is faking certain feelings of any kind, anywhere, in order to compliment her boyfriend, her man, her husband, he will know. He knows when it's not authentic and that's not good. And finally, never use any of this to get a reaction from him because that's playing games. That's being needy. And that would again make you lose that power. So if you want to find a man's soft spot, if you want to be able to connect to him, then use what I talked about in this video. It seems so simple, but please don't underestimate it and don't overdo it. It's a little bit like wasabi. A little bit is usually more than enough as I experienced myself the first time someone served it to me and I thought it looked like avocado. So there you go. I hope you find a lot of value in this video because I think this was an important subject. If you want more advanced stuff then you can find that on brianknox.com or in my books that you can find on Amazon or on Audible. You can simply type my pen name Brian Knox in the search bar to get a full list of all of my books and there will be links in the description underneath this video as well. Thank you for watching until the very end because I love it when you do that and I hope to see you in another video.